Talking Flashcards

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Q

Where should I look?

A

Maintain eye contact with the listener. If they will not meet your eyes, find a third-party to look at together.

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2
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How should I speak?

A

Speak the language of your listener - avoid jargon and use their phrases.

Vary your voice, it’s tone etc.

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3
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What should my attitude be?

A

Calm and collected. Never become angry or sarcastic towards your listener(s).

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4
Q

How can I build connection?

A

Call the listener by name
Offer encouragement and praise
Use humour
Ask for their feedback on things

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5
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What sorts of questions should I ask?

A

Open-ended questions, to provide them the chance open up and talk.

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What if they’re not responsive?

A

Paraphrase what they say back, to show you listen and encourage them to embellish further.

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