SOC212 - 9. Sex Flashcards
Sexual Norms
Sexual behavior governed by norms that regulate socially acceptable practices
become sexual beings by acquiring “sexual scripts” that depict sex roles learned in a process of sexual socialization.
Sexual Norms
socialization perspective - through interaction with others
wide variety of acts - statuses, participants, surroundings
Normative behaviour & interaction
usually monogomous, male/female, vanilla, hot
Deviation from Sexual Norms
Judgments of sexual deviation consider few important characteristics (DeLamater, 1981).
1) Degree of consent: norms the prohibit assault
Deviation from Sexual Norms
2) Identities of the participants: restrict legit sex between species, number of ppl
Deviation from Sexual Norms
3) Relationships between participants: incest prohibited, legitimate partners in term of age, kinship, restricted to marriage
4) Act and conduct: oral, anal, vaginal
Deviation from Sexual Norms
5) Setting + context: at house more appropriate than closet
informal social control
vary by group
Deviation from Sexual Norms
fetishes, sex work, polygamy, incest
some are policed with law over time
porno, BDSM, bestiality
Social Change
Sexual Revolution has led to increased permissiveness
concerning a number of sexual acts (i.e., premarital sexual
intercourse, spouse swapping, open marriages, etc.)
Social Change
sexual revolution came down to invention of pill
decoupled sex from reproduction
W able to become more sexual beings outside marriage
Sex & Deviance
Heterosexual deviance’ includes:
Premarital and Extramarital Sex
Sex Work
BDSM
Sex & Deviance
meaning of sexual deviance varies in different situations + dependent upon society’s norms
Technological Change
Sex & Deviance
regardless would apply to all sexualities
cultural norms
Extramarital Sex
refers to sexual behavior by a married person with someone who is not their spouse
Reasons for engaging in extramarital affairs vary
by gender
Extramarital Sex
apply to ppl in all long term relationships
doesn’t change emotional ramifications
not always disapproved
Non-Monogamy
needs a lot of honesty and communication, trust and time managements to work
Monogamish Relationships:
more relaxed boundaries around sexual behaviour
negotiated between partners
emotionally monogamous, but not in sexual behaviours
Non-Monogamy
Open Relationships:
more sexually open
romantic or sexual relationships with others
been around since 70s
Non-Monogamy
Polyamory:
relational exclusivity not necessary for loving relationships
can have romantic or sexual relationships with more than one person
Non-Monogamy
ethical and responsible nonmonogamy
three ppl dating
not polygamy - more egalitarian and consensual
Non-Monogamy
patriarchy to take care of offspring government encourages monogamy to solve welfare - for stability religious beliefs
Non-Monogamy
tradition difficult to live on your own economy structured around it marriage linked to romantic love in tv shows and movies - the one
BDSM: Bondage Domination and Submission Sadomasochism
Definition (1969) - range of practices from power/submission dynamic
whipped, latex, hung
many try it, but don’t identify with it
comes down to self-identification as opposed to practice
BDSM: Bondage Domination and Submission Sadomasochism
Dom + Sub or switch
really egalitarian - doesn’t come down to sexual norms
unequal and complementary power dynamics
still largely misunderstood
BDSM: Bondage Domination and Submission Sadomasochism
Legal status
technically illegal in Canada - can’t consent to any harm - except doctor or sports, piercing or tattoo because broad social/cultural value
bodily harm
BDSM: Bondage Domination and Submission Sadomasochism
Consent: initial consent is negated due to bodily harm
enthusiastic, ongoing - needs to be constantly negotiated
contracts
BDSM: Bondage Domination and Submission Sadomasochism
stats are hard to come by - loose consensus that it is more common than ppl think
Kinsey - 1 in 20 engage in BDSM
problems - can be used as cloak for abuse
BDSM: Bondage Domination and Submission Sadomasochism
not anymore risky than normal sex, but seen as more extreme due to violation of social norms
Kink: Healthy kink requires responsible, ethical partners, safe techniques