Siblings Flashcards
Why is the sibling relationship important?
It is the longest lasting relationship of most people’s lives
Emotionally uninhibited
Incredible familiarity - possibility for influence is huge
Sharing/competiting for parental attention
What is the family systems theory?
Framework about thinking about families
Big change when you go from a three person relationship - martial relationship, mother-child relationship, father child relationship
Adds a level of complexity
Systems theory: wholeness
A system is an organised whole that is greater than the sum of its parts
Systems theory: integrity of subsystems
Systems are composed of subsystems that may be studied in their own right
Systems theory: circularity of influence
All components are mutually interdependent, change in one has implications for all
Systems theory: stability and change
Systems are open to outside influences that may change it
Home observations: pre-birth to post-sib-birth observations (Dunn and Kendrick)
Small scale, in-depth study
Working class families studied from pregnancy to 14 months
Had a tape recorder, made notes of what was happening
Results: pre-birth to post-sib-birth observations
Mothers positive attention to first borns decreased upon sibling arrival, and negative attention increased
Also a change in balance of responsibility of initiating interaction, 1st borns taking much more of a lead. More confrontation, more negativity etc - first sibling trying to get mums attention more
Interview with mother - reported signs of teasing baby, doing negative things, physical aggression
Determinants of sibling relationship quality - Stocker, Dunn and Plomin background
96 middle class mum and sib triads, home visits, observations Maternal interviews about sibling relationship and temperament Interested in PDT - not just spillover, if you are getting treated well or not, believed mothers who treated siblings different was related to competition, less operation
Determinants of sibling relationship quality - Stocker, Dunn and Plomin results
Parenting: the more different treatment, there more copetitive and controlling. Spillover effects
Temperament: older siblings more dominant, shyness of older sibling = less competition and control, but don’t see that of younger siblings
Younger sibling anger/upset = predicts sibling competition
Understanding PDT - Kowal and Kramer
Asked children about lots of different parenting behaviours and if they are treated the same or different
If they said yes treated different, asked them if fair
Viewed as fair 75% of cases (age, needs)
Viewing PDT as fair eliminated the negative effects of PDT, especially for the older sibling
What are the sibling challenges?
Siblings fight up to 8 times an hour
Most conflict is mild, but 4% of children report serious physical victimisation
Most common challenge in their families
Source of most family violence
Sibling interventions - Tucker and Finkelhor
Review of existing RCTs with the goal of creating better sibling relationships
Improving social skills
Outcomes: improvedchildren social skills and SRQ
Effect sizes - small effects
Limitations - no follow ups, don’t know if it lasted
Do siblings influence behavioural adjustment?
Assessments of sibling relationship during the preschool years predicted early adolescent adjustment
Small effects, some prediction from sibling interactions to later externalising and internalising problems
The sibling relationship was predicted of older sibling adjustment later on than younger - older sibling has more control and responsibility of the relationship
What did Pike et al look at?
Identify links between sibling relationship quality in early/middle childhood with children adjustment, having accounted for the effects of parent-child relationship quality
101 WC/MC 2 parent English families, with 2 children ages 4-8
Cross sectional
What did Pike et al find?
Sibling relationship quality was associated with the older siblings adjustment, controlling for the childrens relationships with parents
Positivity within the sibling relationship was more strongly linked with child adjustment than was sibling conflict
More anger from mum or dad, lower the quality of the relationship - spillover