Siblings Flashcards
True or false. All individuals belong to more than one subsystem.
True
Types of Siblings
Most Common: 1. Full Siblings 2. Half Siblings 3. Step Siblings Others: 1. Suckled at the same breast 2. Irish twins 3. Godsiblings 4. Foster Siblings
Siblings are influenced by many of the following:
Biology Temperament Development Age differences Birth order Gender Race/ethnicity Larger systems Parenting Behaviors Family Conflict Parental Favoritism Culture
Typical Sibling Roles
Hero Scapegoat Motivators Mascot: Buddies Lost Parentified Child
Reframe: First step to enactments
Identify Frame of Reference Identify Behaviors to Reframe Collect Facts Create a Context for Acceptance Create a Reframe Respond to Feedback Get commitment to Reframe
Contextual Reframes
Identify the Complaint
Identify “In what contexts would the characteristic being complained about have value and/or usefulness”?
Create several answer to this question
Meaning Reframes: behaviors from a Contextual Perspective…
Serve a purpose in maintaining the system/pattern
Have value in the context of relationships
Have facts/data based on relationships
Have relevance based on the relationships
Circular Questioning is often used to…
Introduce the family to a systematic view of themselves and provide new information about concerns, beliefs, behaviors. And relationships
Develop, confirm, or deny the team’s hypothesis about the family and the function of the problem.
Four types of circular questions
Linking Relationships
Ranking Order
Difference over time
Directed about a person who does not answer questions
Ways to create differences
Over time
Between people
Between parts of a person
Between situations
Ways to create connections
Affect: feelings Behaviors Beliefs Meaning Relationships