Shadow Aspects Flashcards

Linking triggers and what is missing

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If you are triggered by someone’s … Addictiveness

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You may have but are not using your … Steadfastness

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If you are triggered by someone’s … Anxiety

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You may have but are not using your … Excitement

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If you are triggered by someone’s … Approval seeking

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You may have but are not using your … Openness to appreciation

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If you are triggered by someone’s … Arrogance

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You may have but are not using your … Self-confidence

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If you are triggered by someone’s … Bias

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You may have but are not using your … Discernment

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If you are triggered by someone’s … Bitterness, grudge-holding

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You may have but are not using your … Refusal to overlook injustice

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If you are triggered by someone’s … Caretaking

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IYou may have but are not using your … Compassion

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If you are triggered by someone’s … Clinging

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You may have but are not using your … Loyalty

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If you are triggered by someone’s … Compromise

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You may have but are not using your … Negotiability

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If you are triggered by someone’s … Compulsive orderliness

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You may have but are not using your … Organization, efficiency

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If you are triggered by someone’s … Conning

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You may have but are not using your … Teaching, encouraging

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If you are triggered by someone’s … Conniving

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You may have but are not using your … Intelligent strategizing

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If you are triggered by someone’s … Control, manipulativeness

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You may have but are not using your … Leadership, efficiency, coordinating ability

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If you are triggered by someone’s … Cowardice

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You may have but are not using your … Caution

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If you are triggered by someone’s … Cruelty

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You may have but are not using your … Anger

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If you are triggered by someone’s … Cunning

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You may have but are not using your … Forethought

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If you are triggered by someone’s … Defensiveness

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You may have but are not using your … Preparedness

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If you are triggered by someone’s … Demanding

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You may have but are not using your … Asking

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If you are triggered by someone’s … Dependency on others

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You may have but are not using your … Reasonable trust of others

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If you are triggered by someone’s … Flattery

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You may have but are not using your … Complimenting

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If you are triggered by someone’s … Foolhardiness

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You may have but are not using your … Bravery

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If you are triggered by someone’s … Greed

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ou may have but are not using your … Self-provision

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If you are triggered by someone’s … Guilt

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You may have but are not using your … Conscientiousness

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If you are triggered by someone’s … Hostility

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You may have but are not using your … Assertiveness

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If you are triggered by someone’s … Hypocrisy

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You may have but are not using your … Ability to “Act as if”

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If you are triggered by someone’s … Impatience

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You may have but are not using your … Eagerness

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If you are triggered by someone’s … Impulsiveness

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You may have but are not using your … Spontaneity

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If you are triggered by someone’s … Incompetence

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You may have but are not using your … Willingness to experiment

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If you are triggered by someone’s … Indecision

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You may have but are not using your … Openness to possibilities

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If you are triggered by someone’s … Insensitivity

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You may have but are not using your … Objectivity

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If you are triggered by someone’s … Intimidation

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You may have but are not using your … Confrontation

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If you are triggered by someone’s … Jealousy

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You may have but are not using your … Protectiveness

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If you are triggered by someone’s … Jumping to conclusions

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You may have but are not using your … Intuitiveness

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If you are triggered by someone’s … Lack of order

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You may have but are not using your … Flexibility

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If you are triggered by someone’s … Laziness

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You may have but are not using your … Relaxedness

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If you are triggered by someone’s … Loneliness

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You may have but are not using your … Openness to nurturance

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If you are triggered by someone’s … Loquacity/Talkativeness

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You may have but are not using your … Articulateness

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If you are triggered by someone’s … Lying

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You may have but are not using your … Imaginativeness

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If you are triggered by someone’s … Neediness

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You may have but are not using your … Asks for respect of appropriate needs

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If you are triggered by someone’s … Obsequiousness/Obedience

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You may have but are not using your … Respect

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If you are triggered by someone’s … Perfectionism

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You may have but are not using your … Commitment to do things well

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If you are triggered by someone’s … Procrastination

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You may have but are not using your … Honouring one’s own timing

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If you are triggered by someone’s … Rigidity

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You may have but are not using your … Tenacity

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If you are triggered by someone’s … Sarcasm

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You may have but are not using your … Wit

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If you are triggered by someone’s … Selfishness

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You may have but are not using your … Self-nurturance

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If you are triggered by someone’s … Self-pity

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You may have but are not using your … Concern for self

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If you are triggered by someone’s … Sense of obligation

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You may have but are not using your … Choice/Decisiveness

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If you are triggered by someone’s … Slyness

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You may have but are not using your … Shrewdness

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If you are triggered by someone’s … Submissiveness

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You may have but are not using your … Cooperation, docility

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If you are triggered by someone’s … Tactless bluntness

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You may have but are not using your … Frank candidness

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If you are triggered by someone’s … Taking for granted

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You may have but are not using your … Accepting

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If you are triggered by someone’s … Vengefulness

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You may have but are not using your … Justice