Shadow Aspects Flashcards
Linking triggers and what is missing
If you are triggered by someone’s … Addictiveness
You may have but are not using your … Steadfastness
If you are triggered by someone’s … Anxiety
You may have but are not using your … Excitement
If you are triggered by someone’s … Approval seeking
You may have but are not using your … Openness to appreciation
If you are triggered by someone’s … Arrogance
You may have but are not using your … Self-confidence
If you are triggered by someone’s … Bias
You may have but are not using your … Discernment
If you are triggered by someone’s … Bitterness, grudge-holding
You may have but are not using your … Refusal to overlook injustice
If you are triggered by someone’s … Caretaking
IYou may have but are not using your … Compassion
If you are triggered by someone’s … Clinging
You may have but are not using your … Loyalty
If you are triggered by someone’s … Compromise
You may have but are not using your … Negotiability
If you are triggered by someone’s … Compulsive orderliness
You may have but are not using your … Organization, efficiency
If you are triggered by someone’s … Conning
You may have but are not using your … Teaching, encouraging
If you are triggered by someone’s … Conniving
You may have but are not using your … Intelligent strategizing
If you are triggered by someone’s … Control, manipulativeness
You may have but are not using your … Leadership, efficiency, coordinating ability
If you are triggered by someone’s … Cowardice
You may have but are not using your … Caution
If you are triggered by someone’s … Cruelty
You may have but are not using your … Anger
If you are triggered by someone’s … Cunning
You may have but are not using your … Forethought
If you are triggered by someone’s … Defensiveness
You may have but are not using your … Preparedness
If you are triggered by someone’s … Demanding
You may have but are not using your … Asking
If you are triggered by someone’s … Dependency on others
You may have but are not using your … Reasonable trust of others
If you are triggered by someone’s … Flattery
You may have but are not using your … Complimenting
If you are triggered by someone’s … Foolhardiness
You may have but are not using your … Bravery
If you are triggered by someone’s … Greed
ou may have but are not using your … Self-provision
If you are triggered by someone’s … Guilt
You may have but are not using your … Conscientiousness
If you are triggered by someone’s … Hostility
You may have but are not using your … Assertiveness
If you are triggered by someone’s … Hypocrisy
You may have but are not using your … Ability to “Act as if”
If you are triggered by someone’s … Impatience
You may have but are not using your … Eagerness
If you are triggered by someone’s … Impulsiveness
You may have but are not using your … Spontaneity
If you are triggered by someone’s … Incompetence
You may have but are not using your … Willingness to experiment
If you are triggered by someone’s … Indecision
You may have but are not using your … Openness to possibilities
If you are triggered by someone’s … Insensitivity
You may have but are not using your … Objectivity
If you are triggered by someone’s … Intimidation
You may have but are not using your … Confrontation
If you are triggered by someone’s … Jealousy
You may have but are not using your … Protectiveness
If you are triggered by someone’s … Jumping to conclusions
You may have but are not using your … Intuitiveness
If you are triggered by someone’s … Lack of order
You may have but are not using your … Flexibility
If you are triggered by someone’s … Laziness
You may have but are not using your … Relaxedness
If you are triggered by someone’s … Loneliness
You may have but are not using your … Openness to nurturance
If you are triggered by someone’s … Loquacity/Talkativeness
You may have but are not using your … Articulateness
If you are triggered by someone’s … Lying
You may have but are not using your … Imaginativeness
If you are triggered by someone’s … Neediness
You may have but are not using your … Asks for respect of appropriate needs
If you are triggered by someone’s … Obsequiousness/Obedience
You may have but are not using your … Respect
If you are triggered by someone’s … Perfectionism
You may have but are not using your … Commitment to do things well
If you are triggered by someone’s … Procrastination
You may have but are not using your … Honouring one’s own timing
If you are triggered by someone’s … Rigidity
You may have but are not using your … Tenacity
If you are triggered by someone’s … Sarcasm
You may have but are not using your … Wit
If you are triggered by someone’s … Selfishness
You may have but are not using your … Self-nurturance
If you are triggered by someone’s … Self-pity
You may have but are not using your … Concern for self
If you are triggered by someone’s … Sense of obligation
You may have but are not using your … Choice/Decisiveness
If you are triggered by someone’s … Slyness
You may have but are not using your … Shrewdness
If you are triggered by someone’s … Submissiveness
You may have but are not using your … Cooperation, docility
If you are triggered by someone’s … Tactless bluntness
You may have but are not using your … Frank candidness
If you are triggered by someone’s … Taking for granted
You may have but are not using your … Accepting
If you are triggered by someone’s … Vengefulness
You may have but are not using your … Justice