Shadow Aspects

Question 1

If you are triggered by someone’s … Addictiveness

Answer 1

You may have but are not using your … Steadfastness

Question 2

If you are triggered by someone’s … Anxiety

Answer 2

You may have but are not using your … Excitement

Question 3

If you are triggered by someone’s … Approval seeking

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You may have but are not using your … Openness to appreciation

Question 4

If you are triggered by someone’s … Arrogance

Answer 4

You may have but are not using your … Self-confidence

Question 5

If you are triggered by someone’s … Bias

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You may have but are not using your … Discernment

Question 6

If you are triggered by someone’s … Bitterness, grudge-holding

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You may have but are not using your … Refusal to overlook injustice

Question 7

If you are triggered by someone’s … Caretaking

Answer 7

IYou may have but are not using your … Compassion

Question 8

If you are triggered by someone’s … Clinging

Answer 8

You may have but are not using your … Loyalty

Question 9

If you are triggered by someone’s … Compromise

Answer 9

You may have but are not using your … Negotiability

Question 10

If you are triggered by someone’s … Compulsive orderliness

Answer 10

You may have but are not using your … Organization, efficiency

Question 11

If you are triggered by someone’s … Conning

Answer 11

You may have but are not using your … Teaching, encouraging

Question 12

If you are triggered by someone’s … Conniving

Answer 12

You may have but are not using your … Intelligent strategizing

Question 13

If you are triggered by someone’s … Control, manipulativeness

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You may have but are not using your … Leadership, efficiency, coordinating ability

Question 14

If you are triggered by someone’s … Cowardice

Answer 14

You may have but are not using your … Caution

Question 15

If you are triggered by someone’s … Cruelty

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You may have but are not using your … Anger

Question 16

If you are triggered by someone’s … Cunning

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You may have but are not using your … Forethought

Question 17

If you are triggered by someone’s … Defensiveness

Answer 17

You may have but are not using your … Preparedness

Question 18

If you are triggered by someone’s … Demanding

Answer 18

You may have but are not using your … Asking

Question 19

If you are triggered by someone’s … Dependency on others

Answer 19

You may have but are not using your … Reasonable trust of others

Question 20

If you are triggered by someone’s … Flattery

Answer 20

You may have but are not using your … Complimenting

Question 21

If you are triggered by someone’s … Foolhardiness

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You may have but are not using your … Bravery

Question 22

If you are triggered by someone’s … Greed

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ou may have but are not using your … Self-provision

Question 23

If you are triggered by someone’s … Guilt

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You may have but are not using your … Conscientiousness

Question 24

If you are triggered by someone’s … Hostility

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You may have but are not using your … Assertiveness

Question 25

If you are triggered by someone's … *Hypocrisy*

Answer 25

You may have but are not using your … *Ability to “Act as if”*

Question 26

If you are triggered by someone's … *Impatience*

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You may have but are not using your … *Eagerness*

Question 27

If you are triggered by someone's … *Impulsiveness*

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You may have but are not using your … *Spontaneity*

Question 28

If you are triggered by someone's … *Incompetence*

Answer 28

You may have but are not using your … *Willingness to experiment*

Question 29

If you are triggered by someone's … *Indecision*

Answer 29

You may have but are not using your … *Openness to possibilities*

Question 30

If you are triggered by someone's … *Insensitivity*

Answer 30

You may have but are not using your … *Objectivity*

Question 31

If you are triggered by someone's … *Intimidation*

Answer 31

You may have but are not using your … *Confrontation*

Question 32

If you are triggered by someone's … *Jealousy*

Answer 32

You may have but are not using your … *Protectiveness*

Question 33

If you are triggered by someone's … *Jumping to conclusions*

Answer 33

You may have but are not using your … *Intuitiveness*

Question 34

If you are triggered by someone's … *Lack of order*

Answer 34

You may have but are not using your … *Flexibility*

Question 35

If you are triggered by someone's … *Laziness*

Answer 35

You may have but are not using your … *Relaxedness*

Question 36

If you are triggered by someone's … *Loneliness*

Answer 36

You may have but are not using your … *Openness to nurturance*

Question 37

If you are triggered by someone's … *Loquacity/Talkativeness*

Answer 37

You may have but are not using your … *Articulateness*

Question 38

If you are triggered by someone's … *Lying*

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You may have but are not using your … *Imaginativeness*

Question 39

If you are triggered by someone's … *Neediness*

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You may have but are not using your … *Asks for respect of appropriate needs*

Question 40

If you are triggered by someone's … *Obsequiousness/Obedience*

Answer 40

You may have but are not using your … *Respect*

Question 41

If you are triggered by someone's … *Perfectionism*

Answer 41

You may have but are not using your … *Commitment to do things well*

Question 42

If you are triggered by someone's … *Procrastination*

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You may have but are not using your … *Honouring one’s own timing*

Question 43

If you are triggered by someone's … *Rigidity*

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You may have but are not using your … *Tenacity*

Question 44

If you are triggered by someone's … *Sarcasm*

Answer 44

You may have but are not using your … *Wit*

Question 45

If you are triggered by someone's … *Selfishness*

Answer 45

You may have but are not using your … *Self-nurturance*

Question 46

If you are triggered by someone's … *Self-pity*

Answer 46

You may have but are not using your … *Concern for self*

Question 47

If you are triggered by someone's … *Sense of obligation*

Answer 47

You may have but are not using your … *Choice/Decisiveness*

Question 48

If you are triggered by someone's … *Slyness*

Answer 48

You may have but are not using your … *Shrewdness*

Question 49

If you are triggered by someone's … *Submissiveness*

Answer 49

You may have but are not using your … *Cooperation, docility*

Question 50

If you are triggered by someone's … *Tactless bluntness*

Answer 50

You may have but are not using your … *Frank candidness*

Question 51

If you are triggered by someone's … *Taking for granted*

Answer 51

You may have but are not using your … *Accepting*

Question 52

If you are triggered by someone's … *Vengefulness*

Answer 52

You may have but are not using your … *Justice*