Sexual Dysfuncton

Question 1

What are the 3 main catagories of sexual dysfunction

Answer 1

1. Sexual identity 2. Sexual dysfunction 3. Sexual paraphllia

Question 2

What is sexual identity dysfunction

Answer 2

Deep rooted feeling of disonecne between biological sex and perceived gender

Question 3

Can sexual identity probs come during teen or adult years?

Answer 3

No they come at a very young age

Question 4

What is one know link to sexual identity problems>

Answer 4

Pharmaceuticals taken by the mother during pregnancy

Question 5

What are the phases of sexual activity?

Answer 5

1. Desire
2. Excitement
3. Intercourse
4. Orgasm
5. Resolution

Question 6

What is an example of tension in the desire phase?

Answer 6

Desireing cultural trends rather than what the person really wants

Question 7

What is the main cause of problems during the excitement phase?

Answer 7

Unfocused Yi - Blood follows qi, qi follows yi. Not being attentive to the object of desire therefore qi doesn’t follow intent and the blood doesn’t flow

Question 8

How can we help erectile dysfunction (and for female lube)

Answer 8

Train the intent (yi)

Question 9

If something has gone wrong in the past during the excitement phase how can we prevent the yi from becoming focused on repeating the previous failures?

Answer 9

Being able to see this situation as new and not be attached to the old (related to the Po)

Question 10

What happens if there is strong desire (yang) but not enough yin to hold

Answer 10

Premature

Question 11

What happens if there is too much yin and not enough yang?

Answer 11

Floppy

Question 12

What should the resolution phase of sex lead to?

Answer 12

More desire (cycle)

Question 13

how can we help negative thinking, guilt and projection in sexual relations?

Answer 13

Clarify what we really want and believe in

Question 14

What is Paraphillia ?

Answer 14

Sexual excitement for objects that are not appropriate or typical

Question 15

If paraphillia stays in the mind and isn’t hurting others can it still be a problem?

Answer 15

Yes. Evil is a process

Question 16

What happens the more a paraphillia connection is established?

Answer 16

It becomes deeper entrenched

Question 17

What has caused paraphillia to become more common today?

Answer 17

Internet porn

Question 18

What can be a stimulus for people to seek out more paraphillia ?

Answer 18

Shame

Question 19

Fantasies are yang.. What can make them yin

Answer 19

masturbation

Question 20

Sexual impulses are powerful and can re-wire habits and behaviours if reinforced through what?

Answer 20

Masturbation

Question 21

Which stages of desire can parphilliea manifest in?

Answer 21

Desire, excitement and orgasm. Sometimes only on phase requires the object but often it is all 3

Question 22

What can help to loosen a paraphillia attachment?

Answer 22

Therapy and stopping porn

Question 23

What is Fetishism?

Answer 23

Desire, orgasm or action with an inanimate object.
Problem because real object of desire is not enough

Question 24

What is the best way to treat paraphillia?

Answer 24

1.Person needs to identify and accept they have a problem and want to change
2. Behaviour modification - slowly visually and actively distance the from the problematic Behaviour
3. Bring orgasm toward an appropriate object of desire
4. Human map is most powerful tool