seneca on love + desire Flashcards
What should the wise man avoid + focus on?
Avoid physical pleasures + focus
How does Seneca say women + men are equal?
Both men + women are equal in capacity to attain virtue
What does Seneca + his wife do daily?
Seneca tells his wife about his day + she listens; showing how shes an accomplice + supporting of his virtue
What is an ideal marriage?
A bond of pure love + similar to friendship
What does Seneca say about his wife?
“For I know that her spirit depends on mine, I care for myself”
When shouldn’t you love someone?
For selfish, personal benefit
How does Seneca show how much his wife is important to him?
“To have someone I can die for, to have someone I can follow into exile for whose death I might exchange my own + pay the price instead”
What does Seneca criticise?
Those who marry for selfish reasons + commit adultery
What does Seneca say about sex?
Sex serves the purpose of procreation only
What does Motto say Seneca does?
He focuses on the regulation of emotions rather than their denial
What is the quote about Seneca’s view on sex?
“lust was given to humanity not for the sake of pleasure, but for the propagation of the human race”
Who was hostios quadra?
A man who knew no distinction of sex + set up the mirrors to gloat over proportions etc 🙉
What did Seneca say love should remember?
Friendship
What is love?
There is no personal advantage it’s about what you can give them rather than self-gain
What does Seneca say about living for another?
“You must live for another if you want to live for yourself
What does Seneca say about desire?
Desire should be avoided; longing of the body, not the soul + harms the Stoic
What are vices?
Immoral behaviour
Who says Seneca focuses on regulation of emotions rather than their denial?
Motto
Why should vices be avoided?
Overindulgence of desire leads to the ruining of the body
What is Seneca’s quote about vices? Where does he say this?
“Vices press upon us and surround us on all sides”
- ‘Seneca on the Shortness of life’
What does Seneca say about drunkness?
“Drunkness doesn’t create vices but brings them out”