Self discovery... Flashcards
You performed in a play. After the performance, a teenager comes up to you to compliment you for your performance. You want to thank him for praising you, so you say this.
Thanks, that’s really nice of you.
You’ve eaten out at a restaurant with a group of friends and are now paying the check. You leave $15 as a tip but your friend says that it’s too much. You say this because you want to leave a little extra. -26
I like to leave a generous tip.
You’re visiting a couple who you haven’t seen in a few years. You have just finished greeting each other and now you want to start to catch up with them. You ask this to get the conversation started. -26
So how’ve you been?
You are visiting a couple who you haven’t seen in a few years. They have a son who was 3 years old the last time you saw him, but now he’s 6. You remember him well from 3 years ago, but you don’t think he remembers you. This is what you say to him.
I bet you don’t remember me, do you?
You’re shopping for furniture with your fiance. You picked out a sofa that you want, and now you’re asking to buy it. You will need to get the sofa delivered to you, but the shop staff tells you this about the wait time for deliveries. (3-4 weeks)
It may take up to three or four weeks for delivery.
Your friend was going to visit you from out of town, but he emailed to say that he wouldn’t be able to make it. You want to show that you’re disappointed that he’s not coming. You write this back to him.
I’m sorry to hear that.
You live in New York. A friend was supposed to come to visit you from out of town next month, but he emailed to say that he can’t come. This is what he wrote.
I’m really sorry, but I won’t be able to make it to New York next month.
It’s a busy travel season and there was recently a terrorism threat. Today you flew to a client’s office on an airplane. You say this while making small talk about the flight.
Security was super tight.
You’re pregnant. You haven’t found out yet whether you’re having a boy or a girl, but you think it might be a boy. At lunch with a coworker, she asks you whether it’s a girl or boy, you make this prediction.
I have a gut feeling that it’s a boy.
It’s Saturday afternoon. You and your girlfriend have been lying around all day, but you want to go out. You suggest going to the cinema.
Do you want to go see a movie maybe?
You’re talking to your friend about your boss at your new job. She asks you to describe him and asks how old he is. You’re not sure, but he seems like he’s around fifty years old.
He’s around fiftyish, I’d say.
You’re talking with your friend about what kind of guys you would like to date. You say this because you would never date someone who was a smoker.
Smoking is definitely a deal-breaker.
You are at a bar and use the bathroom there. The bathroom is extremely dirty and smells bad. When you come out of the bathroom, you make this complaint to your friends.
I’ve never seen such a disgusting bathroom in my life!
You’re talking to a person who’s just started working at your company. You find out that she lives outside of the city where your offices are. You ask her this to find out whether it takes her a long time to get to work.
How’s your commute?
You’re getting married in two days. Someone asks you if you’re stressed out. The truth is, you’ve been organized, worked hard, and your wedding plan is simple. You answer that you don’t have much left to do.
Almost everything has been taken care of at this point.
You invited a friend to your neighbor’s barbecue party. He asks if he can bring his girlfriend. You tell him you think that will be fine.
Yeah, that’s totally fine. The more the merrier!
You’re going to the ballet with your boyfriend tonight. When you get home from work, you notice that his beard looks a little messy. You suggest that he clean it up.
Uh, babe? You might want to trim that beard…
A co-worker is trying to create a spreadsheet to calculate some information. He can’t figure out how to calculate it, so he asks you for help. You can’t immediately fix it, but you’d like to try a few different options. You say this.
I’ll fiddle around with it for a while.
You’re chatting with a coworker. You heard someone talking about her last week because she’s training intensely for a marathon. You mention this to her because you want to learn more.
I hear you’re training to run a marathon.
You were using the bathroom at a restaurant, and forgot to lock the door. Someone opened the door while you were using the toilet. Now you’re telling your friend what happened.
Someone walked in on me while I was in the bathroom.
You’re getting drinks with a friend. Last month, you went to a party at her house. She introduced you to a guy who you thought was attractive. You mention him, hoping to get his contact information.
You know that guy you introduced me to at your party? What’s his story?
You’re in your after-school debate club. The instructor is giving you her best tips for being an excellent speaker.
A good speaker understands the power of a simple message repeated again and again.
You’re chatting with the person sitting next to you on an airplane. He tells you that he’s a professional writer. You’re impressed, so you say this.
Oh wow, that sounds really interesting.
You’re having a picnic with a group of people and have been sitting on the ground for a while. The person next to you keeps changing his position and looks uncomfortable, so you ask him this.
Is your back getting stiff?
You’re talking to a friend who often has sinus pain. You have the same problem, so you share how you usually deal with it.
You know what helps me is as soon as the pain starts, I take an aspirin or something to stop the inflammation.
You’re eating lunch with a friend. After you finish eating, your friend has a piece of food that’s showing on her teeth. You want to tell her that it’s there, so you say this.
Hey, um, you’ve got something stuck in your teeth.
Your daughter made some bad grades on her progress report at school. You ask her why, and she complains that her homework is boring. You say this because you’re annoyed that she would complain about this.
Life’s not all fun and games.
You are going out to see a movie with a group of several people. Everyone is trying to decide which movie to watch. Someone suggests watching a certain romantic comedy. Several people agree, but someone asks you if you’re OK with that choice. You don’t really want to see it, but you will go along with what the majority of people want. You answer this way to be agreeable.
I guess so.
You’re a teacher. You had to take a day off of work because of a family issue. You’re writing a note for the substitute teacher, explaining what to do. One of your instructions is about where the students should sit:
There’s a seating chart in the back of the roll book.
You and a friend saw a teenage couple making out on the street. You say this to your friend because you don’t think they should do that.
That kind of behavior is not appropriate in public.
You’re going on a vacation with two of your friends. You’re riding in your friend’s car. He’s putting suitcases in the trunk of his car, but there doesn’t seem to be enough space. You’re not sure if your suitcase will fit in there with all the others, so you ask this.
Can you squeeze one more in there?
You’ve told your friend before about a girl in one of your classes who you really like. Today she asked you out on a date, so you told your friend that you’re going out with her. Then you say this.
Believe it or not, she made the first move.
You’re talking with a coworker about social networking sites like Facebook. You don’t like to use them because you’re worried about your privacy. You say:
I don’t like my personal information being out there for everyone to see.
You’re scheduled for a meeting with a coworker at 2:00. You need to do something else at that time, so you send an email to move the time.
Would it be possible to push our meeting back to 3:00?
Your sister won a prize in a ballroom dancing competition. You’re really excited and happy for her because she’s been practicing hard for it for years. You congratulate her, and then you say this. -128
All that hard work and determination really paid off.
You and your wife have different opinions about where your daughter should go to school. Your wife thinks she should go to a public school, but you would prefer a private school. You say this when describing this disagreement to your wife’s parent.
We disagree over whether or not to send her to private school.
Your coworker is yawning and looks tired. You are friends with this person, so you want to tease him. You smile and ask this.
What’s with the yawning? Were you out all night partying?
You’re leading a meeting at work. Your company is facing a problem. After describing the problem, you ask your coworkers to help you solve it.
So… any ideas?
You’ve just started at a new job at a restaurant. A coworker has been training you in how to enter customers’ orders into the computer system. She asks if you understood. You say that you mostly understood.
I think I get the gist.
Last week you took a vacation with your family in the mountains. You stayed in a small house in a quiet, far-away area. You’re telling a client about it at a business lunch.
We rented a little cabin in a remote area of the mountains.
You live in a city in a foreign country. You’ve found a few markets that sell food from your home country, but they’re not very good. You’re explaining what’s wrong with them to a friend who doesn’t know about these stores.
There’s a few in the area, but they don’t have that wide of a selection.
You were eating lunch with your son. He seems to be finished eating. You want to ask if he’s finished so you can clean up.
All done?
You have an antique gun that used to belong to your grandfather. You have visitors from your church over at your house, and someone is looking at the gun. You explain where it came from.
That was passed down to me by my grandfather.
You’re giving a talk at a conference. You’ve finished your presentation. You can’t think of anything else to say, so you end the presentation this way.
So, yeah, that pretty much wraps it up.
You’re putting on a pair of shoes. You notice that there’s now a hole in the bottom of one of them. You say this to yourself.
It looks like I’ve worn through the soles.
You’re driving somewhere with your family. You put your son in his car seat and strap him in, then say this.
There you go; you’re all buckled in!
You went to a doctor for a bad cough and got some medicine. Now you’re at home and telling your husband what the doctor said.
The doctor said that it would take a few days for the antibiotics to take effect.
Your mother is very outgoing and talkative. You’re describing her to a friend. You give an example of her outgoing behavior.
She’s always striking up conversations with total strangers.