Self-disclosure Flashcards
What does SPT state?
Reciprocal exchange of personal information, both of breadth and increasing depth signals trust and increases intimacy and liking
What is self-disclosure
Revealing personal information to another person - creates relationship beyond initial attraction
Who came up with SPT
Altman and Taylor - 1973
What does SPT involve
- Theory of how relationships develop
- Reciprocal exchange of information
- Basic feature of romantic relationships
- Self-disclosure should be welcomed and reciprocated
Breadth
Breadth of disclosure is narrow because many topics are ‘off-limits’
Low risk information
Depth
As relationship develops - self-disclosure becomes deeper
Wider range of topics, including things that matter most to us
Eventually reveal intimate, high-risk information
What is depentration
Describes how dissatisfied partners self-disclose less as they gradually disengage from the relationship
Why is reciprocity important?
Needed for a relationship to develop
Creates empathy and trust, increases feelings of intimacy and deepens the relationship
Who came up with reciprocity of self-disclosure?
Ries and Shaver - 1988
Eval - research support
- Strength
- SPT
- Sprecher and Hendrick - heterosexual dating couples
- Strong correlations between several measures of satisfaction and self-disclosure for both partners
- More satisfied with and committed to their romantic relationship
- Sprecher et al - relationships are closer and more satisfying when partners reciprocate
- Increase validity of theory that reciprocated self-disclosure leads to more satisfying relationships
Eval - counterpoint
- Much supporting research is correlation
- Correlation does not equal causation - no valid conclusion to draw
- Alternative explanations just as likely
- Maybe self-disclosure and satisfaction are independent of each other and both are caused by a third variable
- Self-disclosures may not cause satisfaction directly, reducing the validity of SPT of self-disclosure
Eval - real-world application
- Strength
- Help improve communication to relationships
- Haas and Stafford - 57% of homosexual men and women said that open and honest self-disclosure was the main way they maintained and deepened their relationship
- If more self-disclosure - deepening satisfaction and commitment
- Psychological insights can be valuable in helping people who are having problems in relationships
Eval - cultural differences
- Limitation - not true for all cultures
- Nu Tang et al - in individualist cultures self-disclosure aided relationships
- In collectivist cultures - lower levels in disclosure - levels of satisfaction no different
- Self-disclosure theory is a limited explanation of romantic relationships - based on findings from US - individualist cultures which are not necessarily generalisable to other cultures
Eval - self-disclosure and breakdown
- SPT - romantic relationships become more satisfying as self-disclosure increases
- Theories of relationship breakdown - partners often self-disclose more often and more deeply as their relationship deteriorates
- This does not increase satisfaction and often not enough to save relationship
- Incomplete theory