Saturn in Gemini in the 7th house (How and where you create boundaries) Flashcards
Your Saturn is in Gemini
The great work of your life will revolve around developing your intellect and learning to harness the power of language. Do you trust your own mind? Do you believe in what you have to say? Chances are, you are a little uneasy with your communicative faculties. Early experiences of being talked over, told that you aren’t that smart, or having a learning style different from the mainstream may have left you with an insecurity around you ability to take in information or effectively communicate. You may spend periods of your life feeling speechless and shy, or you may make a habit of talking a lot without really saying anything -obscuring any true intent with a proliferation of words that razzle and dazzle and carry little substance. The lesson here is about cultivating confidence in your way of delivering information. You have a gift for storytelling and disseminating information. To unlock this gift, you must figure out which stories you wish to tell and how best to share them.
in the 7th house of committed partnerships
It is through your commitment to others that you will get an opportunity to find and craft you voice. For you, language is the scaffolding through which true intimacy and connection are built; you’re careful with your words, understanding that they can create trust or level someone’s confidence in you in one fell swoop. You value partnering with folks, personally and professionally, who understand this and who are as wise with their words as you are. This is a lesson that may have come through significant trial and error, but it’s a valuable one. The partnerships you pursue in life and in business may be tied to experiences with writing, teaching, or communicating. Your relationships might even begin through a DM slide or old fashioned letter writing. Your partners may play a big part in how you make money, or how you find the kind of work that will eventually earn you an income. Working together is a possibility, largely due to your strong communication skills.
Moon trine Saturn
You show up for others by having solid boundaries and giving wise advice. You have a special allegiance to long-term relationships that have the capacity to successfully weather adverse conditions. Even if your emotional expression is reserved, others know you care because of how committed you are to the process of building together.
Venus square Saturn
Valuing yourself and what you bring to partnerships may be your greatest challenge of all. You have many gifts, one of which is the ability to bring structure and stability to your relationships, but do you accept appreciation for it? You may have difficulty accepting affection, seeking rather to earn love through offering financial security to social status. It is key that you learn that a healthy love is not something that is earned, but rather that is given freely. There are no achievements to unlock. There is simply yourself.
Mars sextile Saturn
Building a strong relationship takes time, effort, and patience. You have the energy and endurance to put the work in. You often find that the passion you. bring to potential partners has the potential to reap the kind of tangible rewards that make any trials and tribulations well worth it.
Uranus trine Saturn
You need to be with people who aren’t afraid to be themselves, live life on their own terms, and give the middle finger to harmful conventions of coupling. Prone to sudden bouts of needing independence and autonomy, try not to judge yourself for the alone time you crave - let it be a reset for you in your relationships. You can learn a lot about the way you want to show up for your partners, be they platonic, business, or romantic in the moments of structured solitude you take.
Neptune trine Saturn
For you, building strong and beautiful relationships is about marrying structure and boundaries with understanding and empathy. You know that holding loving boundaries is in itself an act of compassion, for you and your partners. You are gifted with the ability to dream up imaginative, innovative structures for partnering that inspire those around you.
Ascendent opposing Saturn
Extra sensitive to restrictions that are placed upon you, you don’t appreciate being told what to do. That’s in part because you are already more than likely to be hard on yourself, but also because of former rules and regulations you’ve had to contend with. Burdens must be dealt with, but that doesn’t mean they have to weigh you down. Find ways to stay fluid with responsibilities; rigidity sets in if you don’t.
Pluto opposing Saturn
As a younger person, you may have been witness to tough lessons that adults can learn about survival in relationships. Part of growing into your adulthood will be about learning how to cultivate grounded and loving boundaries in partnerships so that you can feel safe and secure. Building strong and enduring relationships is a challenging endeavor, but an important one. Connecting with your own inner power is a vital part of connecting with others.
DC conjunct Saturn
With Saturn keeping vigil on your descendent, you have a knack for building relationships that provide weather-proof containers. Stability is important for you in a partnership, and with the planet of time overseeing things, your unions have the potential to be everlasting. You’re attracted to old souls, or others who model responsibility and dedication. While social pressure and hormones encourage young one to pair off early, speed-dating is not your jam. You take your time choosing the folks you spend your life with. Though it might feel lonesome on occasion, you also waste a lot less energy. When you choose to commit to another, you know how to build the spine and scaffolding to hold you both together. Your devotion is the kind that blooms all year round.
North Node conjunct Saturn
With the North Node conjunct the ascetic, self-disciplined schoolmarm of the solar system, you have a solemn streak. You may be relentless with the work you take on: either because your standards for achievement nudge higher with every target you reach, or because you’re habituated to picking up the slack for other people. Or both. Even as a child, you may have felt like the only responsible adult in the room. While some of your self-value or identity may stem from your sense of duty or diligence, the danger is getting so mired in the drudgery, toil, or seriousness of your work, that life starts to feel joyless. Part of your nodal apprenticeship will involve learning to have fun with no pretense of productivity.
Your homework: recognize which messes are actually not yours to clean up. Then supple yourself up to more pleasure, or even frivolity.
