Rest Of SocPsych Flashcards
What predicts attraction?
- Proximity Effect
- Mere Exposure
- Reciprocal Liking
- Similarity
- Physical attractiveness
Proximity Effect
Physical distance & frequency of seeing each other affects chances of bring attracted to them; Morelin & Beach (1992)
‘Mere Exposure’ Effect
The finding that the more exposure we have to a stimulus, the more apt we are to like it
Reciprocal Liking
Just knowing that a person likes us fuels our attraction to that individual. Liking is so powerful that it can even make up for the absence of similarity.
Similarity & Relationships
If two people have similar tastes across many things (opinions, personality, interest, etc.), the more likely they are to get along; (ChristaKis Fowler, 2014) Friends shared more dna traits with each other
Physical Attractiveness
Faces (not body types) tend to be ranked similarly cross-culturally; Physical attractiveness was the #1 factor of someone wanting to see another again
Attractive Female Facial Features
Small nose, large smile, high cheekbone, small chin
Familiarity in Attractiveness
We tend to prefer faces that resemble our own
Assumptions about Attractive People
- tend to earn 10-15% more than the latter
- may have better social skills
- facial symmetry is cross-cultural as well
Evolution & Mate Selection
Evolution: men have more sexual partners than women
- high cost for W, low-cost for M
- W = more selective on partners (& their resources)
Technology & Online Dating
- broadened horizons
- increased long-distance relationships
- less stigma around the thought of meeting someone online
- long-term success rate tends to be lower than face-to-face
- online profiles may not be accurate (catfishing)
Sternberg’s Triangular Theory of Love
describes types of love based on three different scales: intimacy, passion, and commitment
Ainsworth’s Attachment Styles
From observation, Ainsworth concluded that there were three major styles of attachment: secure attachment, ambivalent-insecure attachment, and avoidant-insecure attachment.
Secure attachment
characterized by trust, a lack of concern with being abandoned, and the view that one is worthy and well liked
Avoidant Attachment
difficulty developing intimate relationships because previous attempts to be intimate have been rebuffed
Anxious/Ambivalent
characterized by a concern that others will not reciprocate one’s desire for intimacy, resulting in higher-than-average levels of anxiety
Social Exchange Theory of Relationships
To view relationships as a business (cost-benefits system); individual-focused
Investment Model of Relationships
available alternatives and what you think you deserve affect the social exchange theory
Equity Theory of Relationships
We are happiest when rewards and costs seem equal; “Are both of us putting in equal effort?”
Exchange Relationship
Common with new relationships; examining the costs and benefits of the relationship
Communal Relationships
Common with long-term relationships; not worried about getting something in return
4 Phases of Breakups
- Intrapersonal (Introspection)
- Dyadic
- Social
- Intrapersonal (Retrospection)
Intrapersonal Phase (Introspection)
Beginning to come to terms with yourself about the issue; “I can’t stand this anymore.” “What am I getting out of this?” “Is this working for me?”
Dyadic Phase
Confronts partner with the issue, and assess what’s next
Social Phase
Friends and family hear about the breakup, then everyone else hears soon after
Intrapersonal Phase (Retrospection)
Getting over it; analyzing what went wrong
Prosocial Behavior
Any act with the goal of benefitting another person
Altruism
Desire to help another person, even when it comes with a cost
Empathy-Altruism Hypothesis
When we feel empathy for another person, we will attempt to help that person for purely altruistic reasons
Batson’s perspective on empathy-atruism relationship (1991)
If you don’t feel empathy for another person, you will trigger social exchange theory (cost-benefit) when helping them
Evolutionary Psychology Reasons of Why People Help Each Other
- Kin selection
- Norms of reciprocity
- Group Selection
Kin Selection
Helping certain people may help our ‘kin’ survive in some way
Norms of Recipocity
Helping each other may improve survival for both parties involved