Relationships And Families Flashcards
Purpose of family
Loving and respectful relationships
Place to nurture children and grow in Christian values
‘The family is the original cell of social life’ (Catholic Church)
Purpose of marriage
Spiritual unity between man and woman
Promises for life - ‘man must not separate what God has joined’
Vows between couple and God for blessing - ‘a cord of three strands’
CofE marriage meaning
Couple learn to love forever - reflects Christ’s love for people
Marriage gives place for children, sex and support
Marriage important since makes other relationships + self develop
CC marriage meaning
Unbreakable bond between couple - represents Christ’s commitment
God’s grace + constant pressure means stronger faith and marriage
Catholic + Orthodox marriage
Sacrament - spiritual joining
Both baptised + Christian - if not then not sacrament
Nuptial mass + personal blessing
CofE marriage
Allows heterosexual, non Christian, non baptised
Vows + prayers to God
Eucharist after
Non-conformist / Quaker marriage
Couple plans wedding service - write own vows
No minister - silent worship
Couple say vows when want to
Everyone signs certificate
Civil partnership - sign legal document (same-sex)
CC and CofE against - marriage for sex for children - raised by mum and dad
House of Bishops not allowed services of blessing - reaffirm vows
Vicars + clergy in CofE wanted civil partnerships - equality (Bible)
Same-sex marriage
Legal in 2014
Can marry now / if religious organisation don’t want to, protected by law
CofE against - purpose of marriage for procreation - House of Bishops + vicars not allowed
CC against - against natural law - undermines heterosexuals marriage
Episcopal - allow - love transcends sexuality
Cohabitation
Living together before marriage - Bible says sex for reproduction - pre marital sex wrong
CC say sex is language - communicate love in marriage - provide children
CofE - sex only in marriage - act of love
Celibacy
Unmarried + refrain from sex - fully focus on God
CC - priests, monks, nuns are celibate - can better share love for God
Contraception
CC - artificial contraception sinful - stops natural act of sex - but accepts some natural to give couple control
Other teach acceptable - CofE say responsible - children planned
Abstinence
No sex until marriage - Teen-Aid (poster campaigns), Love awaits and Silver Ring Thing
Sex created as act of love in marriage
Divorce and Annulment
CC against divorce - lifelong commitment with God - unbreakable
Give advice + support - separation to help restore
Allows annulment - promises were invalid
CofE - should work hard to keep commitment - accepts divorce in some situations
Priority for church to care for divorced couple
Men and women in family
Bible - women are men’s helpers / women weaker - The Fall
Equality - valued equally in different roles
CC say role at home should be valued as career
‘Wives, submit yourselves to your husbands’
‘Husbands, love your wives’