Relationships Flashcards

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Adultery

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Sexual intercourse with someone who isn’t your partner - reason most marriages end

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Divorce

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To legally end marriage - half of marriages end in divorce

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Cohabitation

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Living together in a sexual relationship but not married - most prefer this

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Commitment

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Dedication to someone or something - making a promise to someone

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Contraception

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Methods to prevent a women getting pregnant- condoms and the pill are types

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Gender Equality

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All genders having equal rights and opportunities - men and women being paid equally

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Responsibilities

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Duties your obligated to carry out - looking after a pet

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Roles

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Status or function of a person in society - men and women roles in a family situation

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Christian Views on Relationships

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  • children have a right to be brought up by two parents in a loving environment
  • based on marriage of a man and woman
  • Adam and Eve were told to “go forth and multiply”
  • having children is a religious duty
  • St Paul sets out rules for children “honour thy father and thy mother”
  • duty to obey parents and parents have a duty to send them to church
  • “essential cell to society”
  • worship together as a family
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Islamic Views on Relationships

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  • family is important to have a stable society
  • Allah commands people to get married and have children
  • all are born Muslims and should develop faith
  • taught to live moral lives in the way of Muhammad
  • “speak to them a nodal word”
  • brought up by a man and a woman who are married
  • believe too much emphasis on rights and freedoms of children and not enough of duties and responsibilities
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Patriarchal

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Family controlled by a man

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Matriarchal

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A family controlled by a woman

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Christian Views on Roles in a family

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  • open to interpretation among Christians
  • St Paul says women are subject to authority and men should be leaders of the home
  • women are for housekeeping and breeding
  • time of Jesus men played dominant roles and he wouldn’t have gotten many disciples if he was female
  • Jesus broke some stereotypes by treating a woman with respect
  • “all one in Christ”
  • liberal Christian’s recognise times change and dynamics of social interactions change, women should have equal opportunity
  • “head of a woman is a man”
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Islamic Views on Roles in a Family

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  • traditional views of women
  • “women is a guardian of her husbands home”
  • “women are twin halves of men”
  • Muhammad said the mother is the most important member
  • Qur’an indicates men and women are equal
  • “weather male or female”
  • men are in charge, women submit
  • men was once asked who they should be kind to God replied “your mother”
  • some views change with time, men and women are both heads of households
  • “a man is the guardian of his family”
  • have different strengths
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Parents in Religious practice

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  • take children to a place of worship (church/mosque)
  • teach to read + understand sacred text (bible,Qur’an)
  • teach them how to prey (5 pillars)
  • encourage children to join celebrating festivals
  • understand rites of passage (sacraments)
  • “essential cell of society”
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Christian Views on Cohabitation

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  • liberal anglicans will accept cohabitation however marriage would be ideal
  • catholics would see marriage as ideal
  • “a man….must be joined to his wife”
  • the reasons for sex is to procreate but people cohabiting might not want that
  • St Paul - fornicators are sexually immoral
  • marriage is ideal environment to had children and a stable commitment
  • divorced people can’t marry again
  • Baptist church’s refuse to marry cohabitators
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Islamic Views on Cohabitation

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  • some Muslims can choose to cohabitate but the teachings say it’s wrong
  • should be married to have a sexual relationship
  • non marital sex is prohibited
  • “do not approach unlawful sexual intercourse”
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Christian Views on Marriage

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  • “what god has joined together shall no man separate”
  • god planned for humans to marry
  • marriage is a sacrament for Roman Catholics, meaning it’s important ritual and celebration
  • ordained by God and union is blessed by God
  • Jesus teaches the importance of marriage, referring to genesis that as apart of God’s creation he made humans
  • complete joining of two people
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Christian Wedding Ceremony

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1) marriage is a gift and ceremonies take place in a church
2) couple will meet minister to discuss wedding plans and banns are read for three consecutive sessions
3) Bride will wear white to show purity and that she is a virgin
4) during the minister will ask if anyone objects
5) readings from Bible
6) minister preach a sermon and hymns sung
7) rings are exchanged
8) couple is blessed and are now married in the eyes of God
9) “what God has joined together, let no man separate”
Legal registers are signed and are now married in the eyes of the law

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Islamic Views on Marriage

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  • Muslims are encouraged to marry to have companionship
  • divorce isn’t really accepted but is a possibility
  • best relationship to raise a child
  • “take in marriage those among you who are single”
  • Allah gave marriage as a gift for humans
  • “May you find tranquility in them, he placed between you affection and mercy”
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Islamic Wedding Ceremony

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1) nikah is a simple marriage ceremony where a man and women declare their commitment to one another as husband and wife
2) takes place in a mosque, led by an imam but can also be a brides home
3) wali or woman’s guardian offers her to the groom to symbolise passing of responsibility
4) bride does not have to be there, two witnesses can go in her place
5) married in the eyes of Allah but also need to register legally to be married in the eyes of the law
6) mahr (dowery) is paid to husband
7) vows aren’t necessary but some decide to
8) marriages are to be declared publicly never secret
9) Nikah - marriage contract rights + responsibilities of couple

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Arranged Marriage

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  • in a pluralist society, inter-faith marriage is a bit of an issue
  • Muslims hold that children are less likely to follow their faith if only one parent follows it
  • Islamic law forbids Muslim women to marry a non Muslim
  • Christians marry out but catholics are against as there might be tension
  • orthodox Christians traditions, marriage in church can only take place if the Christian is baptised
  • catholics require the parent who isn’t must teach their child catholic beliefs
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Christian Views on Divorce

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  • marriage is a life long commitment does not recognise divorce
  • “be united…two become flesh”
  • “till death do us part”
  • married and promised in the eyes of God
  • if a marriage does end it should be annulled
  • some don’t agree with divorce as it can break a family structure
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Christian Views on Re-marriage

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  • if you divorce you may not marry again in the Catholic Church
  • but you can marry in a different place of worship
  • a remarriage is decided by the minister
  • some won’t remarry a divorced person but they can be blessed
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Christian Views on why it’s acceptable for divorce

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  • you and your spouse are closely related
  • either spouse was under 16
  • either spouse was married at the time
  • if marriage wasn’t consummated
  • marriage wasn’t consented to
  • STD (both should be virgins)
  • pregnant with someone else’s child
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Islamic Views on divorce

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  • not suggested, has to be last resort
  • a couple should reconcile or look to community for help
  • prophet Muhammad “the most detestable of lawful things before Allah is divorce”
  • Muslims should try to avoid it as much as possible
  • should be ended in front of Allah
  • apply to Shari’ah council, given a three month period to reconcile
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Islamic Views on Re-marriage

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  • accept that reconciliation dosent always work
  • should be free to remarry in the future
  • some times encouraged as the Qur’an teaches
  • “take those among you who are single”
  • encouraged to marry and have children
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Islamic Views on men divorcing women

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  • allowed more than one wife but they should all be treated fairly
  • shouldn’t have a favourite wife
  • if divorced both parties should be compensated
  • “and settlement is best”
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Islamic views on women divorcing men

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  • ask for divorce by Khul, children always go to the man
  • in case of adultery
  • abuse
  • insulting/verbal abuse
  • breaking nikah (marriage agreement) they can go find a new husband
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Christian Views on adultery

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  • marriage is sexually exclusive and should not be shared
  • Ten Commandments forbids it
  • marriage is a sacrament
  • goes against vows made together
  • “let no man separate”
  • can harm family
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Islamic Views on Adultery

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  • marriage is a life long union based on trust
  • vows promise to be faithful to one another
  • harmful to society and goes against unity and peace of ummah
  • it’s a form of theft
  • “for it is a shameful deed”
  • punishable by death
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Christian Views on Sexual Relationships

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  • should only take place within marriage
  • gift from god
  • only with the person you love
  • casual sex is devaluing both people
  • children need a stable environment
  • “exercise self control”
  • sex is only to procreate
  • “better to marry then burn with passion”
  • goes against 10 commandments
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Islamic Views on Sexual Relationships

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  • sex should happen in marriage
  • expected to meet each others needs
  • act of worship
  • sex outside marriage is wrong
  • “guard there chastity expect from their wives”
  • having sex outside marriage is wrong
  • “keep themselves chaste until god gives them means”
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Christian views AGAINST contraception

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  • Catholic Church is opposed to artificial methods of contraception
  • Catholics wish to have sex without having sex
  • some do not believe in contraception as they have a duty to procreate
  • “go forth and multiply”
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Christian views SUPPORTING contraception

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  • Protestant believe in contraception for family planning
  • contraception is responsible and moral
  • stopping spread of STDS
  • stops overpopulation
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Thomas Aquines Five Precepts

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1) self-preservation
2) live in an ordered society
3) worship god
4) education of children
5) continuation of species through reproduction
- contraception goes against natural law
- option not rules
- laid down by God

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Islamic Views on contraception

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  • strongly pro family and children are a gift from god
  • a form of contraception was used in the time of Muhammad
  • shouldn’t harm the body
  • should only use if both parties consent
  • limit family size not allowed permanent uses of contraception
  • “you should not kill your children in fear of want”
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Christian Views SUPPORTING same sex marriage

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  • at the time passages were written don’t apply to the time now
  • some believe these passages aren’t their god as he wouldn’t discriminate
  • united reforms church, Anglican and Methodist Christians allow it
  • things condemned before are accepted now
  • Quakers conduct same sex service but couple have to find a legal way to be married
  • Bible teaches equality for all
  • “made in gods image”
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Christians views AGAINST same sex marriage

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  • against natural law and is wrong on biblical grounds
  • “punishment of eternal power”
  • “homosexual offenders will not inherit the kingdom of god”
  • “they shall surely be put to death”
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Islamic Views on same sex marriage

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  • Islam forbids it
  • marriage is only place where sexual relationships can take place
  • immoral and not natural
  • “indeed you approach men with desire, instead of women”
  • some impose the death penalty
  • strong opposition in ummah and family
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Christian views on Gender Equity

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  • have equal rights in employment discrimination based on gender is illegal
  • do still believe in some stereotypes
  • Jesus respected women
  • Jesus taught discrimination is wrong
  • everyone is equal and sacred
  • “neither Jew nor gentile, neither slave nor free, nor is there male and female”
  • “she must be quiet”
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Catholic, Anglican and Orthodox Churches views on gender equality

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  • women can take active roles in church
  • they can be a nun or a sister
  • all equal members
  • women cannot be ordained, men take that role
  • pope John Paul II said women can’t be priests
    Anglican believe both can take roles in church leadership and Welsh church ordained a women priest in 1997
    2013 voted for a women bishop
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Islamic Views on Gender Equality

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  • men have a responsibility + authority
  • Imam must be a good Muslim and gender is irrelevant
  • “weather male or female”
  • Muhammad’s wife lead prayer
  • some say female imam will invade men’s prayers
  • men and women are separate during prayer
  • Sunni groups let women be imams won’t stand in front but in the congregation
  • Raheel Raza became the first Muslim to lead a mix of gender British congregation
    “It’s about reminding ummah that 50% of its followers are women”