Reading her signals Flashcards

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What are the key signals on whether she is romantically interested?

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  1. Body Language Signals
  2. Facial & Eye Contact Cues
  3. Verbal Clues & Topic Shifts
  4. Responsiveness & Engagement
  5. Reciprocal Flirting & Testing the Waters
  6. Signals of Disinterest or Cooling Off (negative signs)
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What body language signals show she’s romantically engaged?

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  1. Leans in while you speak (closes physical space)
  2. Points her feet and torso toward you
  3. Mirrors your gestures or posture unconsciously
  4. Touches her hair, neck, jewellery
  5. Opens her body posture (arms not folded)
  6. Sits close, even when there’s space to sit further away
  7. Initiates or welcomes light physical touch (playful taps, light bumps, brushing arms)
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How can you read her interest from her face and eyes?

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  1. Prolonged eye contact, especially while smiling
  2. Glances at your lips while you’re speaking
  3. Eyes widen slightly when you say something exciting or funny
  4. Blushes or gets flushed cheeks during moments of connection
  5. Raises eyebrows in surprise or curiosity during teasing
  6. Returns smiles with warmth and softness (not just polite)
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What things does she say that signal romantic interest?

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  1. Asks you personal questions beyond surface level (e.g. “Have you been in love before?” or “What kind of person do you go for?”)
  2. References future plans: “We should do that sometime,” “You’d love X,” etc.
  3. Jokes about couple-y scenarios: “Imagine us on a road trip…”
  4. Gives you playful grief or teases you
  5. Picks up and runs with your flirty cues or double meanings
  6. **Drops compliments **(“You’ve got such good taste in books/music…”)
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How does her engagement level suggest romantic interest?

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1.** Laughs easily at your jokes**, even weaker ones
2. Stays present in the conversation (not checking her phone or scanning the room)
3. Asks follow-up questions to your stories or jokes
4. Lingers after the bill is paid or the “natural end” of the date
5. Responds quickly and warmly to texts between dates
6. Matches your energy and effort in planning or suggesting things

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How does she show she’s interested through flirty play?

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  1. Throws back playful teasing (not just laughs but contributes to the joke)
  2. Tries on mock personas: “You think I’m the responsible one?”
  3. Invents shared in-jokes or callbacks
  4. Finds excuses to be in close proximity
  5. Gently challenges your assumptions: “You think you’re the charming one here?”
  6. Imitates your phrases or speech style for fun
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What are signs that she’s probably not feeling it romantically?

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  1. Folds arms or leans away
  2. Gives short answers or doesn’t ask you questions
  3. Smiles politely but doesn’t laugh genuinely
  4. **Pulls away from or doesn’t reciprocate touch
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    Mentions other guys **or “friendzones” you verbally
  5. Is keen to end the date without suggesting a follow-up
  6. Takes ages to reply to texts or replies flatly
  7. Doesn’t follow up after the date or seem warm in post-date messages
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