Q&A Flashcards

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Is the bedroom off limits to guests?

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House rules

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Chores, how will they be split?

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House rules

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3
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Toilet seat up/down

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House rules

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4
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Shoes on/off. Put away in a specific place?

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House rules

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5
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Dirty laundry in a bin not in the floor? Sorting them before hand into lights and darks?

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House rules

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6
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Dirty dishes can sit for how long? Will be be cutting the cleaning of them 50/50?

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House rules

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7
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Groceries & cooking

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House rules

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8
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Hair (from anywhere) in sink, run or floor? Disgusting? Clean it up yourself? Leave it a couple days & then clean?

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House rules

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9
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What do we feel is ok and not ok or not okay for them to eat? Will we each have our own food or will it be split?

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Guests

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10
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How long is too long for them to stay?

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Guests

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11
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Cleaning habits for the guests that are staying for a period of time? What is expected?

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Guests

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12
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If staying for a long period are they a couch surfer or have to help pay rent?

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Guests

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13
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What is off limits with guests?

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Guests

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14
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Family dinner night? Here? One of our parents houses? Our grandparents? By ourselves, together?

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Guests

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15
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Family. What annoys you that my family does that could be deterred

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Guests

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16
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Date nights? Weekly? Monthly?

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Personal

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17
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Naked Sunday’s?

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Personal

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18
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TV days? For our shows we both watch?

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Personal

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19
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What do you love about me that is different?

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Personal

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20
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Time apart with friends? How often?

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Personal

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21
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Curfew for friends coming over or when they are expected to leave?

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Personal

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22
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What are your worst spending habits?

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Personal

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23
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What kind of work ethic do you expect out of me? Out of you?

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Personal

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24
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What are your hobbies? My hobbies? Our hobbies?

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Personal

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25
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What are your pet peeves?

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Personal

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26
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What’s your normal sleeping pattern? Will one adjust or will we go to bed at different times?

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Personal

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27
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How would you like to spend your down time?

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Personal

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28
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How would you like to spend your alone time? How often?

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Personal

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29
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What are you prepared to compromise on and what do you expect from the other person?

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Personal

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30
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Where are our finances? Debt? Savings?

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Personal

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31
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How often do we plan on sex? Morning sex? Before bed? Mid day?

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Personal

32
Q

How will we deal with fights? Go into opposite rooms until we cool down? Figure it out right away? Sleep in the same room at the end of the night regardless of if we are still angry or not or sleep in opposite rooms? Not go to bed angry? What is our conflict-resolution style?

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Personal

33
Q

Fights. No phones, text, emails. Face to face no matter what?

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Personal

34
Q

Is traveling something we want to do a lot of? If so, are we going to make a savings for them? Together? At our own times?

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Personal

35
Q

Plans for the future? 2 years? 5years? 10?

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Personal

36
Q

Where do you want to be in 2 years, 5 years, 10?

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Personal

37
Q

What are your expectations?

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Personal

38
Q

What is off limits for decoration of the house. What kind of stuff do you hate? What style do you like?

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Personal

39
Q

Health history physical and mental. What is a known health history through family. Are we prepared for that, if it were to happen to one of us?

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Personal

40
Q

Am I affectionate enough toward you & vice versa? What do you want to change?

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Personal

41
Q

Sexual needs?

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Personal

42
Q

Fears, what makes you most uncomfortable and what can fix it/not cause it?

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Personal

43
Q

Friends we like? Dislike? Anything special that will be done on those said people for the apartment?

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Personal

44
Q

What are your known bad habits. How can we work on it together?

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Personal

45
Q

Deal breakers?

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Personal

46
Q

Career goals?

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Personal

47
Q

Are we practicing any kind of faith?

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Personal

48
Q

Holidays an family. Take turns, go our own ways, make our own?

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Personal

49
Q

How one responds to stress/anxiety. How can the other help?

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Personal

50
Q

How many kids do we want? Who will be primary caregiver? How do we plan on parenting them?

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Future

51
Q

What are our financial goals and obligations? Do they mesh?

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Future

52
Q

Are there some things that you are NOT prepared to give up in the marriage?

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Future

53
Q

If one of us wee to be offered a career opportunity in a location far from the others family and current job, are we prepared to move or what would happen?

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Futures

54
Q

What’s your ideal wedding?

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Future

55
Q

Paying bills. 50/50, based on % of what one is paid? (Utilities, groceries, furniture, day to day supplies, insurance, shared items?)

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General

56
Q

Define what is mine, what is yours, and what is ours. Merging $ & x amount towards bills? (Envelope system?)

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General

57
Q

What is our emergency plan if one of us were to lose our jobs? Financial cushion?

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General

58
Q

TV in the bedroom?

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General

59
Q

Going to the bathroom with the door open?

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General

60
Q

Bills. Do we want one person as the main bill payer and the other gives their half of the $ or do we split it. Maybe write something up about agreement, in case something were to happen.

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General

61
Q

What chores do you hate?

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Chores

62
Q

Vaccuming?

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Chores

63
Q

Dishes? Cooking?

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Chores

64
Q

Putin away clothes?

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Chores

65
Q

Laundry?

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Chores

66
Q

Putting away dishes?

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Chores

67
Q

Bathroom?

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Chores

68
Q

Bedroom? Making the bed? Keeping it tidy?

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Chores

69
Q

What are your least favorite? Don’t mind doing chores?

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Chores

70
Q

What kind of schedule do we want for chores? Every day a couple things. Every few days. Or one day every week for everything?

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Chores

71
Q

Making the bed?

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Chores

72
Q

Can a person of the opposite sex be present if our significant other is not home?

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House rules

73
Q

What are we paying for together? What are we buying for ourselves?

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General

74
Q

Is a heads up required for someone to come over? How much in advance?

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Guests

75
Q

What’s our ultimate goal of moving in together?

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Future