Q&A

Question 1

Is the bedroom off limits to guests?

Answer 1

House rules

Question 2

Chores, how will they be split?

Answer 2

House rules

Question 3

Toilet seat up/down

Answer 3

House rules

Question 4

Shoes on/off. Put away in a specific place?

Answer 4

House rules

Question 5

Dirty laundry in a bin not in the floor? Sorting them before hand into lights and darks?

Answer 5

House rules

Question 6

Dirty dishes can sit for how long? Will be be cutting the cleaning of them 50/50?

Answer 6

House rules

Question 7

Groceries & cooking

Answer 7

House rules

Question 8

Hair (from anywhere) in sink, run or floor? Disgusting? Clean it up yourself? Leave it a couple days & then clean?

Answer 8

House rules

Question 9

What do we feel is ok and not ok or not okay for them to eat? Will we each have our own food or will it be split?

Answer 9

Guests

Question 10

How long is too long for them to stay?

Answer 10

Guests

Question 11

Cleaning habits for the guests that are staying for a period of time? What is expected?

Answer 11

Guests

Question 12

If staying for a long period are they a couch surfer or have to help pay rent?

Answer 12

Guests

Question 13

What is off limits with guests?

Answer 13

Guests

Question 14

Family dinner night? Here? One of our parents houses? Our grandparents? By ourselves, together?

Answer 14

Guests

Question 15

Family. What annoys you that my family does that could be deterred

Answer 15

Guests

Question 16

Date nights? Weekly? Monthly?

Answer 16

Personal

Question 17

Naked Sunday’s?

Answer 17

Personal

Question 18

TV days? For our shows we both watch?

Answer 18

Personal

Question 19

What do you love about me that is different?

Answer 19

Personal

Question 20

Time apart with friends? How often?

Answer 20

Personal

Question 21

Curfew for friends coming over or when they are expected to leave?

Answer 21

Personal

Question 22

What are your worst spending habits?

Answer 22

Personal

Question 23

What kind of work ethic do you expect out of me? Out of you?

Answer 23

Personal

Question 24

What are your hobbies? My hobbies? Our hobbies?

Answer 24

Personal

Question 25

What are your pet peeves?

Answer 25

Personal

Question 26

What's your normal sleeping pattern? Will one adjust or will we go to bed at different times?

Answer 26

Personal

Question 27

How would you like to spend your down time?

Answer 27

Personal

Question 28

How would you like to spend your alone time? How often?

Answer 28

Personal

Question 29

What are you prepared to compromise on and what do you expect from the other person?

Answer 29

Personal

Question 30

Where are our finances? Debt? Savings?

Answer 30

Personal

Question 31

How often do we plan on sex? Morning sex? Before bed? Mid day?

Answer 31

Personal

Question 32

How will we deal with fights? Go into opposite rooms until we cool down? Figure it out right away? Sleep in the same room at the end of the night regardless of if we are still angry or not or sleep in opposite rooms? Not go to bed angry? What is our conflict-resolution style?

Answer 32

Personal

Question 33

Fights. No phones, text, emails. Face to face no matter what?

Answer 33

Personal

Question 34

Is traveling something we want to do a lot of? If so, are we going to make a savings for them? Together? At our own times?

Answer 34

Personal

Question 35

Plans for the future? 2 years? 5years? 10?

Answer 35

Personal

Question 36

Where do you want to be in 2 years, 5 years, 10?

Answer 36

Personal

Question 37

What are your expectations?

Answer 37

Personal

Question 38

What is off limits for decoration of the house. What kind of stuff do you hate? What style do you like?

Answer 38

Personal

Question 39

Health history physical and mental. What is a known health history through family. Are we prepared for that, if it were to happen to one of us?

Answer 39

Personal

Question 40

Am I affectionate enough toward you & vice versa? What do you want to change?

Answer 40

Personal

Question 41

Sexual needs?

Answer 41

Personal

Question 42

Fears, what makes you most uncomfortable and what can fix it/not cause it?

Answer 42

Personal

Question 43

Friends we like? Dislike? Anything special that will be done on those said people for the apartment?

Answer 43

Personal

Question 44

What are your known bad habits. How can we work on it together?

Answer 44

Personal

Question 45

Deal breakers?

Answer 45

Personal

Question 46

Career goals?

Answer 46

Personal

Question 47

Are we practicing any kind of faith?

Answer 47

Personal

Question 48

Holidays an family. Take turns, go our own ways, make our own?

Answer 48

Personal

Question 49

How one responds to stress/anxiety. How can the other help?

Answer 49

Personal

Question 50

How many kids do we want? Who will be primary caregiver? How do we plan on parenting them?

Answer 50

Future

Question 51

What are our financial goals and obligations? Do they mesh?

Answer 51

Future

Question 52

Are there some things that you are NOT prepared to give up in the marriage?

Answer 52

Future

Question 53

If one of us wee to be offered a career opportunity in a location far from the others family and current job, are we prepared to move or what would happen?

Answer 53

Futures

Question 54

What's your ideal wedding?

Answer 54

Future

Question 55

Paying bills. 50/50, based on % of what one is paid? (Utilities, groceries, furniture, day to day supplies, insurance, shared items?)

Answer 55

General

Question 56

Define what is mine, what is yours, and what is ours. Merging $ & x amount towards bills? (Envelope system?)

Answer 56

General

Question 57

What is our emergency plan if one of us were to lose our jobs? Financial cushion?

Answer 57

General

Question 58

TV in the bedroom?

Answer 58

General

Question 59

Going to the bathroom with the door open?

Answer 59

General

Question 60

Bills. Do we want one person as the main bill payer and the other gives their half of the $ or do we split it. Maybe write something up about agreement, in case something were to happen.

Answer 60

General

Question 61

What chores do you hate?

Answer 61

Chores

Question 62

Vaccuming?

Answer 62

Chores

Question 63

Dishes? Cooking?

Answer 63

Chores

Question 64

Putin away clothes?

Answer 64

Chores

Question 65

Laundry?

Answer 65

Chores

Question 66

Putting away dishes?

Answer 66

Chores

Question 67

Bathroom?

Answer 67

Chores

Question 68

Bedroom? Making the bed? Keeping it tidy?

Answer 68

Chores

Question 69

What are your least favorite? Don't mind doing chores?

Answer 69

Chores

Question 70

What kind of schedule do we want for chores? Every day a couple things. Every few days. Or one day every week for everything?

Answer 70

Chores

Question 71

Making the bed?

Answer 71

Chores

Question 72

Can a person of the opposite sex be present if our significant other is not home?

Answer 72

House rules

Question 73

What are we paying for together? What are we buying for ourselves?

Answer 73

General

Question 74

Is a heads up required for someone to come over? How much in advance?

Answer 74

Guests

Question 75

What's our ultimate goal of moving in together?

Answer 75

Future