1st Night

Question 1

Is our bedroom off limits to guests?

Answer 1

Guests

Question 2

How long is too long for someone to stay?

Answer 2

Guests

Question 3

What is off limits to guests?

Answer 3

Guests

Question 4

What are your worst spending problems?

Answer 4

About us

Question 5

What kind of work ethic do you expect out of me? What about you?

Answer 5

About us

Question 6

What are your hobbies? My hobbies? Our hobbies?

Answer 6

“About us

Question 7

How are we going about cleaning?

Answer 7

“About us

Question 8

What are your pet peeves?

Answer 8

“About us

Question 9

What are your normal sleeping patterns? Will either adjust to the others?

Answer 9

“About us”

Question 10

How would you like to spend your downtime?

Answer 10

“About us”

Question 11

How would you like to spend your alone time? How often?

Answer 11

“About us”

Question 12

What are you prepared to compromise on and what do you expect from the other person

Answer 12

“About us”

Question 13

How do we plan to split bills? 50/50, by % of paycheck? (Rent, utilities, groceries, furniture, day to day supplies, insurance, car payments)

Answer 13

“About us”

Question 14

What do our finances look like? Debt? Savings?

Answer 14

“About us”

Question 15

How often do we want to have sex?

Answer 15

“About us”

Question 16

How will we deal with fights?

Answer 16

“About us”

Question 17

Money wise: define what is mine, what is yours, and what is ours? Merging money, x amount of paycheck goes towards bills, envelope system?

Answer 17

“About us”

Question 18

What is the plan if one of us didn’t have a job anymore? Financial cushion?

Answer 18

“About us”

Question 19

What are the plans for the future

Answer 19

“About us”

Question 20

Where do you expect to be in two years? 5? 10?

Answer 20

“About us”

Question 21

What are your expectations?

Answer 21

“About us”

Question 22

How are we decorating the apartment? Dislikes, likes

Answer 22

“About us”

Question 23

How many kids do you want? How far down the road?

Answer 23

Future

Question 24

Communication, arguments, how do we handle them?

Answer 24

“About us”

Question 25

Go to bed together even if we are angry?

Answer 25

“About us”

Question 26

Chores?

Answer 26

Cleaning..

Question 27

How will we go about food? One Cooks other cleans, 50/50 of both?

Answer 27

“About us”

Question 28

Rules for member of the opposite sex friend coming over to the apartment

Answer 28

Guest

Question 29

Holidays. How are we going about them? Each go our separate ways, flip flop, make our own holiday?

Answer 29

“About us”

Question 30

What do the roles of each other’s families play in our lives?

Answer 30

“About us”

Question 31

Morning sex? Before bed sex? Mid-day sex?

Answer 31

“About us”

Question 32

Will we have planned days for certain things? (Ex. TV days for our shows we watch together, naked day, cooking for the wake day?)

Answer 32

“About us”

Question 33

How much time are we carving out for family and friends and events?

Answer 33

“About us”

Question 34

Are there certain things that you do that will be something the other may not know about? (Certain way to do laundry, clean, but groceries, cook, etc.)

Answer 34

“About us”

Question 35

How will our daily schedule pan out? Sleep, eat, work, downtime?

Answer 35

“About us”

Question 36

Furthering in school ever,

Answer 36

Future

Question 37

Do we plan on pets

Answer 37

Future

Question 38

Going to the bathroom with the door open?

Answer 38

“About us”

Question 39

Leaving late at night acceptable?

Answer 39

“About us”

Question 40

What are the circumstances for guests? (Eating food, cleaning, etc.)

Answer 40

Guests