PSY311 4. Attachment Flashcards
What is Emotional Attachment?
John Bowlby (1969) – the strong affectional ties
that we feel for key people in our lives
– Characterized by mutual affection and a desire for
proximity
• Reciprocal relationships
– Formed by synchrony between mother and baby
• “Sensitive period” hypothesis
– Not true, attachment builds gradually over the first
years of life
What is Emotional Attachment?
spend a lot of time together and learn more about each other
strong emotional bonds are built
for a rhythm where the mother learns about the babies’ needs and when they need it
sensitive period: need skin to skin contact to form an attachment immediately after birth
adoptive children can still form secure attachment
not form in the first few minutes or days - continuous process that goes on for months to a year forming a synchronicity
What is Emotional Attachment?
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What is Emotional Attachment?
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Why Does Attachment Happen?
One theory - “I love you because you feed me”
– Freud and Erikson (psychoanalysis)
• oral stimulation, trust vs. mistrust
– Sears (behaviorism)
• mother as secondary reinforcer
• Harlow and Zimmerman (1959)
– Baby monkeys weaned by two surrogate mothers – one
wire and the other cloth
• Even monkeys who were fed by wire mother preferred cloth
mother
• Therefore comfort is more important for attachment than
feeding
Why Does Attachment Happen?
-Freud: infants get satisfaction from the mouth
stronger bond to mother if mother was generous and relaxed in breastfeeding
Erikson: trust vs. mistrust stage - mother’s responsiveness was more important
Sears: feeding was important - 1) baby gives off positive responses when breastfeeding (makes mother more attached) + 2) mother provides baby comfort (food, warmth, tender touching, soothing voice) and becomes associated with comforting things
Harlow: interested in love and attachment
disproves that attachment occurs because of feeding
Why Does Attachment Happen?
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Why Does Attachment Happen?
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Why Does Attachment Happen?
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Harlow’s Monkeys
-Wire mother vs comfort mother for monkeys
feeling of security and comfort from mother
wire monkey chose comfort mother
Harlow’s Monkeys
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Harlow’s Monkeys
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Why Does Attachment Happen?
• Another theory (ethology) - “I was born to love you,
you were made to love me”
– Purpose of attachment is to promote survival
• Imprinting in geese, for example
• Babies look and act adorable
– Bowlby – “attachment behaviour system”
Why Does Attachment Happen?
-Ethology: long range purpose is for baby to survive and pass off genes
research started with animal studies - Lorenz
imprinting is an adaptive behaviour
Kewpie bond effect: chubby cheeks, small size, smiling, cooing makes them adorable
true for any species
attachment behaviour system: all working together to form attachment (enjoyment of taking care of child and belief they are doing a good job)
Why Does Attachment Happen?
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Why Does Attachment Happen?
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Does this Mean that Attachment in
Humans is Automatic?
• John Bowlby said that:
Human beings are biologically prepared to form
close attachments
but
Secure emotional bonds will not develop unless
mother and baby learn over time how to respond
appropriately to each other
Does this Mean that Attachment in
Humans is Automatic?
-secure attachments occur gradually as they learn how to react appropriately to each other
learn how to regulate their behaviour around each other
it can go wrong (depressed mothers)
Does this Mean that Attachment in
Humans is Automatic?
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Does this Mean that Attachment in
Humans is Automatic?
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The Beginning of Attachment ResearchThe Beginning of Attachment Research
• Robertson and Bowlby (1952) at the Tavistock clinic in
London
– Identified three phases of separation from mothers
1) Protest phase
2) Phase of despair
3) Detachment phase
The Beginning of Attachment Research
at the time it was normal to leave children for long periods
Case Study John 17 months - residential nursery for 9 days
distressed for several days - became despair
John became emotionally detached
2) mourning
3) defence mechanism - repression-
The Beginning of Attachment Research
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The Beginning of Attachment Research
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Development of Attachments in Infancy
Schaffer & Emerson, 1964
1) Asocial – Birth to 6 weeks old – Respond in an equal way to interesting social and nonsocial stimuli 2) Indiscriminate attachments – 6 weeks to 6/7 months old – Prefer social to nonsocial stimuli – Enjoy attention from anyone, protest when denied attention 3) Specific attachment – 7 to 9 months old – First genuine attachment is established – Protest when separated from mother – Somewhat wary of strangers 4) Multiple attachments – 9 to 18 months old – From attachments to other individuals (e.g., fathers, siblings, grandparents, nanny)
Development of Attachments in Infancy
Schaffer & Emerson, 1964
-followed scottish infants and asked parents about babies in different situations
defined attachement as whether baby protested upon seperation
1) asocial: not much attachment
3) most babies would start to protest
stranger anxiety starts
Development of Attachments in Infancy
Schaffer & Emerson, 1964
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Development of Attachments in Infancy
Schaffer & Emerson, 1964
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Development of Attachments in Infancy
Schaffer & Emerson, 1964
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Multiple Attachments
Schaffer and Emerson (1964) -
hierarchy of attachment objects Mother
Father
Sister
Grandma
Nanny
Schaffer (1977) – “Being attached to several people
does not necessarily imply a shallower feeling toward
each one, for an infant’s capacity for attachment is not
like a cake that has to be [divided]. Love, even in
babies, has no limits.
Multiple Attachments
-thought there was a hierarchy
each attachment has their own role
infants capacity for attachment is not divided
can form strong attachments for multiple people
different roles and different kinds of attachment
e.g. mothers for comfort and fathers for playing
Multiple Attachments
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Multiple Attachments
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Mary Ainsworth (1978, 1979)
Devised the most widely used technique to
measure attachment quality
– The Strange Situation procedure
• Mother as secure base
– Infants need to rely on the mother to feel
comfortable about exploring the world
• Mother as a safe haven
– Infants need to know that they can return to the
mother for comfort when afraid
Mary Ainsworth (1978, 1979)
-analyzed Robertson’s data at Tavastok
e.g. cloth monkey mother - secure base
feel comfortable exploring, get scared then come back to the mother
once comfortable will use mother as a secure base once again
Mary Ainsworth (1978, 1979)
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Mary Ainsworth (1978, 1979)
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Mary Ainsworth (1978, 1979)
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Strange Situation Procedure
1) Experimenter takes mother and baby to playroom, then leaves
2) Mother allows baby to explore and play
3) Stranger enters room and is silent, then talks to mother
4) Mother leaves and stranger interacts with baby
5) Mother returns and greets baby, stranger leaves, then mother leaves
6) Baby is alone
7) Stranger enters and interacts with baby
8) Mother enters and greets baby
Strange Situation Procedure
-secure attachment: when baby is comforted by mother’s return and shows interest in environment
insecure attachment: avoidant, not engaging her, her return is not the solution
resistant: still upset on her return - angry
both want her back but can’t use contact
inconsistent responsiveness
Strange Situation Procedure
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Strange Situation Procedure
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Strange Situation Procedure
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Strange Situation Procedure
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Strange Situation Procedure
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Strange Situation Procedure
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Strange Situation Attachment Styles
Attachment style Use of mother as secure base Separation anxiety Reunion behaviors Stranger anxiety Comforted by stranger? Group A) Secure (60-65%) Yes Usually some distress upon separation Greets mother warmly, if distressed will seek comfort Outgoing with strangers Somewhat, but clearly wants mother Group B) Insecure – Resistant (10%) No Extremely distressed upon separation Ambivalent; will remain near mother but passive or resists her attempts at comfort, can be angry Wary of strangers, sometimes appears angry ?? Likely no Group C) Insecure – Avoidant (20%) Maybe Little distress upon separation Will turn away and ignore mother, appearing angry Can be sociable with strangers or may ignore them Yes, reunion with stranger typically alleviates distress
Strange Situation Attachment Styles
-resistant: don’t use mother as a secure base
resist attempts of comfort
avoidant - sometimes use mom as secure base
sociable to strangers
Strange Situation Attachment Styles
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Strange Situation Attachment Styles
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Strange Situation Attachment Styles
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Strange Situation Attachment Styles
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Mary Main and Judith Solomon (1990)
Group D) Insecure - disorganized attachment – 5-15% of infants – Combination of resistant and avoidant patterns – “fear without solution” – Upon reunion often look fearful, exhibit contradictory behaviors, rapid shifts – 80% of maltreated infants
Mary Main and Judith Solomon (1990)
-when abused children put in stranger situation
they didn’t fit specific characteristics of types of attachment
5-15% didn’t into the categories
unclassifiable infants tended to show range of inexplicable, odd, conflictual behaviours when parents were around - disorganized attachment
e.g. scream by door, move away upon reunion, take comfort in the wall
80% of abused develop a disorganized attachment
dilemma of being harmed by parents but at same time have no one else to turn to
both the cause and alleviation of distress
they don’t have good coping behaviours
Mary Main and Judith Solomon (1990)
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