psy220 midterm Flashcards
the individual self
beliefs about our unique
personal traits, abilities, preferences, tastes,
talents, and so forth
Relational self
beliefs about our identities in
specific relationships. 2nd component, thinking of yourself in terms of relations, good older sister
Collective self
beliefs about our identities as members of social groups to which we belong. third self, how we identify the various communities or social groups we belong to, im Canadian. these are all beliefes about the self and not experiences.
Family and socialization agents
we learn about the self through socialisation, we learn about the norms and behaviours that are for our society, our parents feed us how to behave socially. what is expected in various social contacts.What is socially appropriate?
reflected self appraisals
How do other people see us? how we think that others see us, feedback about our personalities or appearances, get an idea of our self image from how others perceive us. if we are praised for certain behaviours we will put it into negative feedback will make us hide that bit as we do not want to have that as a part of our identity . Positive feedback-integral to our sense of self.
Negative feedback- Hide that part of our selves
Situationism and the Self
- Aspects of the self may change depending on the situation
we are not fixed or static
environment as a crucial role in shaping our identity
situations can impact the way we behave, the self can change based on the situation we are in, environment is crucial to let ourselves dictate how we will behave, e.g in class more professional with friends more outgoing - Working self concept
Subset of self-knowledge that is brought to mind in a particular context. Only certain aspects are active and have influence
might emphasise traits on being efficient at work, with friends emphasise being sociable and loving. Our self concept is fluid. - Distinctiveness.
We highlight aspects of the self that make us feel most unique in a given context. certain characteristics may become more promonate. What sets you apart?
distinctiveness study
us children were more likely to give unique information in their self definition than something that was more typical. American children who mention a particular fact in self definition define themselves according to how they are unique and different from their classmates
Independent view of self
Self seen as a distinct, autonomous entity, separate from others and defined by individual traits and preferences
More prominent in North American and Western European cultures (Individualistic cultures)
Our culture influences our social self, priorities individual goals and achievements and view themselves separate to others when describing themselves. In western societies personal accomplishments are celebrated.
Interdependent view of self
Self seen as connected to others, defined by social duties and shared traits and preferences
Interdependent views of self more prominent in many East Asian, South Asian, Mediterranean, Latin American, and African cultures (Collectivistic cultures)
perceive themselves as interconnected, social goals and so on, view themselves as connected to others and identity looked at their relationships with others and so on. Harmony and cooperation
Gender and the social self
- Across cultures, men generally have more independent, and women have more interdependent views of self. more likely to focus on independent goals when talking about themselves. Women prioritise discussing relationships
- Differences may be due to socialization. Cultural stereotypes, parental feedback, educational treatment. gender differences based on socialisation- cultural stereotypes- shape how gender groups are perceived parental roles that reinforce gender specific behaviour. Socialisation in school- gender expectations that happen in classroom causing individuals to develop with that mindset
- Evolution may contribute to gender differences. Gotten our gender roles to enhance survival, men’s independence is often linked with hunting and protection, have separate roles to survive. Enhance survival and reproductive success
Self- esteem
How people make judgments about the self
The positive or negative overall evaluation that each person has of himself or herself. Overall evaluation of our selves, can be positive and negative aspects of yourself, can be your abilities or looks and so on.
Contingencies of self worth
Self-esteem as contingent on successes and failures in domains on which a person has based his or her self-worth.
- academic achievement- Experience a big flunctuation if they get a bad mark on a test
- Physical appearance
- competence in specific skills or talents.
individuals might derive self esteem from things such as.
Social acceptance and self esteem
- sociometer hypothesis
How they are based on how socially accepted or valued they are in the society, emphasize role of social situations and social inclusion of others . More specific than general contingencies of self-worth account. Self-esteem is an internal, subjective index or marker of the extent to which a person is included or looked on favorably by others.
Sociometer hypothesis study
people were either tole a lot of people did or did not want to work with them, those who were socially rejected showed a low self esteem afterwards, acceptance showed high self esteem.
Culture and sel esteem
- Members of collectivistic cultures place more value on self-improvement. Less emphasis on feeling good about the self and more emphasis on feeling good about one’s contribution to collective goals. collectivists emphasie group harmony, social roles might achieve higher selfesteem compared to perosnal achivments, in cotnrast to indovidualistic cultures because it is higher valued to feel good about your own achievements.
- Members of individualistic cultures tend to report higher levels of self-esteem than members of collectivistic cultures. Feeling good about the self as an individual is more valued in Western cultures.
- Contact with other cultures can influence views of the self.
Individuals from Eastern cultures with greater contact with Western cultures report higher levels of self-esteem than those with less
contact
Measuring self esteem
- Collectivist-appropriate measurement? Cultural sensitivity needed
- Higher self esteem = universally
beneficial?
Not reliable and people measure their self esteem on different measurements. Measuring self esteem may not be reliable as different cultures see self-esteem differently. A lot of items are not universally applicable. DO not really capture harmony and more so looks at individuality
Dangers of high self esteem
- Inflated self esteem can be counter productive
Many psychopaths, murderers, rapists, and violent gang members have very high selfesteem.
High self-esteem may allow individuals to be satisfied with the self despite poor life outcomes - People with high self-esteem can be more sensitive to threats, insults, and challenges
If high self-esteem is unwarranted, these can make the person feel insecure
Those people react more aggressively when self-esteem is threatened
more sensitive about their self image, if you are not grounded you may feel insecure when faced with criticism contributing to interpersonal conflict - Realistic self-appraisal + humility is needed:
-Stronger relationships-being humble allows you to accept responsibility for your actions higher self esteem will lead to conflict and defensiveness instead.
-Effective leadership- leader focused on the sucess of their team which allowed them to make more successful deisions, they will not act agressivly when they recieve comments or suggestions
- Greater capacity for learning- High self esteem ignore feedback hindering personal growth - Our self-evaluations don’t happen in a vacuum- How we see ourselves is influenced by others
around us
When do we compare? Social comparison theory
evaluate themselves by comparing themselves with others, self assesment through social interaction.
- The hypothesis that we evaluate ourselves through comparisons to others
- Downward social comparisons can boost selfesteem by making us feel better about the self- comparing your self with someone worse off to boost yourself esteem
- Upward social comparisons can motivate self improvement- motivates self improvement based on achievements of others
Self enchancement
- Better than average effect-
- Most Westerners tend to have a positive view of the self
- Tend to rate the self as better than average on most traits
- Weight abilities we excel at as more valuable - Self affirmation-
- keep a positive view of the self if you think you are above average
- Maintain high self esteem despite negative feedback- bad grade- i am a good friend- chooses a different domain to maintain a positive view of yourself - Positive illusions and mental health
- Most assume that proper mental health is marked by realistic views of the world
- Research suggests that most well-adjusted people may have slightly unrealistic views about themselves
un realistic views about one self, a few such as overestimating your abilities
Positive illusions and mental health study
Taylor & Brown study on positive illusions
those with positive illusions showed lower stress responses cortisol level and heart level rises were maintained to those with positive illusions. Those with positive self views had better coping mechanisms and acted as a buffer to negative stuff
Benifits of positive illusions
- Elevate positive mood and reduce negative mood
- Foster social bonds by making people more outgoing
- Promote pursuit of and persistence at goals
makes individuals more outgoing and creates more social bonds, more likely to try with something new and achieve it
Cultural and positive illusions
Positive illusions about the self are more common in individualistic cultures
- Members of collectivist cultures are less likely to report enhanced feelings of control, less likely to rate themselves as better than average, and less likely to be unrealistically optimistic. more prelevantin individualistic cultures, tend to rate themselves as better than average and show more positive illusions
Self verification
Sometimes we care more about having stable accurate beliefs about our selves. Make us more predictable to ourselves and others
need for consistency provides us a sense of stability
self verification strategies
- Selectively attend to and recall to consistent info
- Enter relationships that promote consistency
we focus and remember information that aligns with our believes on our self, want to be with people where that aspects of your identity comes through and is values