Prosocial & Antisocial Behaviour ch 17 Flashcards
Describe the main finding from the study on seeking affiliation during stress (the electric shock study).
- Memory Test – for every wrong answer, they receive an electric shock – told half the participants that the shock would be painful, and the other half would be a mild shock
- They had to wait either alone or in a group until it was there time for the test – They got to chose
- Found that: People who were going to receive a painful shock chose to wait together (with people) and people who were going to receive a mild shock were more likely to chose to wait alone
What are the factors involved in initial attraction?
- Familiarity: We are attracted to people who are familiar: The more we run into people, the more we like them.
- Similarity: We prefer people who are similar to us
- Similar attitudes, beliefs, etc.,.
- Dating apps capitalize on these ideas.
- Validating to have someone who shares the same ideas, interests, and beliefs (feel smart, feel like a good person) - Physical attractiveness: We prefer people we find physically attractive
- “good looking”
- Important part of attraction for both men and women
- “Halo effect” – people who are more physically attractive, seem to have people think they are very good in other aspects of life - Reciprocity: we prefer people who reciprocate liking
Describe the main finding from the Westgate Study.
Students in residence were asked to name their three closest friends.
* Results (% close friends by neighbor type):
* Next door neighbors: 41%
* 2 Doors apart: 22%
* Opposite hallways: 10%
Proximity breeds likely, the more familiar we are to someone the more we tend to like them.
Proximity makes us more likely that we will have repeated exposure, people become more likable the more you are exposed to them.
Describe the main finding from the study of TAs, familiarity, and liking.
Research assistants varied in how many times they visited/went to the class (ranged from 0 to 15 times)
Manipulated amount of exposure to these research assistance. At the end of the term they were asked to rate the attractiveness of these people.
The more frequently they attended the class, the more attracted they were rated. The more exposure, the more attractive they become.
What is self-disclosure, and how does it impact relationship deepening?
The sharing of intimate information and feelings with another person
- We disclose to those we like
- We like those who disclose to us
- We like those to whom we have disclosed
Self-disclosure is a key component in building trust and if they disclose to you then it continues to build that trust in the relationship.
Describe the main finding from the study in which heterosexual men and women sat face to face and asked and answered a series of increasingly personal questions
Given a set of questions, example question: how do you feeling about the relationship with your mother. Both people asked and answered the various questions. At the end of the study they rated how much they liked the other person.
- The main finding was that people were more likely to have a relationship and rank the person higher
What is social exchange theory?
A relationship as a cost benefit calculation
reward: What are you getting out of the relationship
cost: Rewards must outweigh the costs, If the costs outweigh the rewards, the relationship typically ends
comparison level: People coming into a relationship with a past relationship, with this idea of what they think they now deserve.
- Expectations to what the rewards and costs will be and what they deserve in the relationship
- People who have satisfying past relations will have an expectation of high rewards and low costs and if they come from a non-satisfying relationship, they will expect lower rewards and higher cost levels.
- This comparison level is determined by past relationships, and what they are now okay with.
What is Robert Sternberg’s triangular theory of love?
Different forms of love arise from intimacy, passion, and commitment.
Romantic love When you are falling in love- everything is really exciting (honey moon phase) – excitement, passion
Companionate love When that romantic love has kind of faded (1 year – 18 months) stable/milder/committed experience, being in love rather than falling in love
Consummate love – ideal intimacy and love that most couples do not always feel – theoretical/ideal circumstance – may experience this but is often short lived
What is the bystander effect?
the greater the number of people who witness a crime, the less likely any one of them is to help
What are the reasons that people sometimes fail to act in an emergency?
Diffusion of responsibility Feeling less responsible because other people are able to help.
The responsibility is “diffused” across many people.
Pluralistic ignorance Assuming that nothing is wrong because no one else looks concerned
New York Apathy
- Death of a women, 30 people witnessed but no one did anything to help this women who was being attacked
- News may have been fake, it is true that no one helped, but we do not know how many people witness it, it made us question the society – people wondering what is going on with people living in the city.
- Proposed the by stander effect
Latane & Darley (1970) – Study to test the idea of By stander effect
- Going to chat with 1-3 other people over an intercom
- The people who are going to chat with you are actually a confederate of the study (trained to act in a certain way)
- Person has a seizure and calls up for help (staged seizure) – trying to find out how long did it take the participant to step up and help
- The results found that if you were alone with the person over the intercom you were more likely to step up and help, the more people that were on the intercom the more time it took for the participants to respond to the seizure.
- Comparing alone, 1 other witness, 3 other witness to the seizure
Aggression
any action carried out with the intent to harm another person.
What factors contribute to aggressive behaviour?
- alcohol
- discomfort (hot days, hungry)
- frustration
Frustration aggression hypothesis:
Frustration yields discomfort and makes us more prone to aggression.