Placed, Loved Ones ☆ Flashcards

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What is Placed, Loved Ones about?

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Mocks society’s idea that you can find belonging or happiness in a place or person - such an idea is fundamentally flawed.

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‘No, I have never found..’
‘Nor met that special one’

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  • Immediate negator - instant and forceful rejection of society’s expectation that you find happiness in place/person.
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There are consistent use of negators throughout the poem (examples). What do these suggest?

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  • Rejecting social conventions/norms of how to live life.
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‘This is my proper ground, Here I shall stay’

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  • Italics/Metaphor - impersonates society’s voice with intention to purposely mock the pompous, self-important notion of belonging. Foolish.
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‘claim’ ‘own’ ‘name’

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  • Legal /contractual language - cold, transactional process in relationship, rather than a meaningful bond. Lose identity.
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Change from ‘I’ to ‘You’

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  • Separates himself from society to critique their choices.
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‘You ask them to bear you off irrevocably’

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  • Relationships involve compromise and tolerance of the other’s failings forever, restrictive.
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‘So that it’s not your fault Should the town turn dreary,
The girl a dolt.’

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  • Not taking responsibilities for themselves/their own lives by aligning/depending on another. Almost cowardly.
  • End up blaming them for the inevitable disappointment.
  • End stop = permanence?
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‘Yet, having missed them, you’re bound, none the less, to act if what you settled for mashed you’

(2 possible interpretations)

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  • Argument marker - volta. Choosing a place is not freeing, but neither is not. Element of self-deception. Bound to act wise for staying away but is equally restricted and lacks freedom, without place/person.
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‘you’re bound, none the less, to act if what you settled for mashed you’

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  • Trapped by a life of pretending that who you have settled for has made you happy, a routine of performance.
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‘wiser to keep away’

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  • Avoid the fantasy that the ‘one’ is out there in a place/person, non-existent.
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Rhyme Scheme of Placed, Loved Ones:

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  • Regular to reflect the forced, mechanical life, without freedom.
  • Repetitive structure via octets - restricted.
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