Placed, Loved Ones ☆ Flashcards
What is Placed, Loved Ones about?
Mocks society’s idea that you can find belonging or happiness in a place or person - such an idea is fundamentally flawed.
‘No, I have never found..’
‘Nor met that special one’
- Immediate negator - instant and forceful rejection of society’s expectation that you find happiness in place/person.
There are consistent use of negators throughout the poem (examples). What do these suggest?
- Rejecting social conventions/norms of how to live life.
‘This is my proper ground, Here I shall stay’
- Italics/Metaphor - impersonates society’s voice with intention to purposely mock the pompous, self-important notion of belonging. Foolish.
‘claim’ ‘own’ ‘name’
- Legal /contractual language - cold, transactional process in relationship, rather than a meaningful bond. Lose identity.
Change from ‘I’ to ‘You’
- Separates himself from society to critique their choices.
‘You ask them to bear you off irrevocably’
- Relationships involve compromise and tolerance of the other’s failings forever, restrictive.
‘So that it’s not your fault Should the town turn dreary,
The girl a dolt.’
- Not taking responsibilities for themselves/their own lives by aligning/depending on another. Almost cowardly.
- End up blaming them for the inevitable disappointment.
- End stop = permanence?
‘Yet, having missed them, you’re bound, none the less, to act if what you settled for mashed you’
(2 possible interpretations)
- Argument marker - volta. Choosing a place is not freeing, but neither is not. Element of self-deception. Bound to act wise for staying away but is equally restricted and lacks freedom, without place/person.
‘you’re bound, none the less, to act if what you settled for mashed you’
- Trapped by a life of pretending that who you have settled for has made you happy, a routine of performance.
‘wiser to keep away’
- Avoid the fantasy that the ‘one’ is out there in a place/person, non-existent.
Rhyme Scheme of Placed, Loved Ones:
- Regular to reflect the forced, mechanical life, without freedom.
- Repetitive structure via octets - restricted.