Pickup Artist And Seduction Flashcards
What’re Mystery’s top ten tips for pickup artists?
1) Get into the habit of starting conversations just for the practice. Release your outcome and be relaxed in the process.
2) Between approaches, always remember to smile while mingling
3) Lean back and relax when you initiate conversations. Don’t lean in. Speak slowly and expresively. This alone wil improve your game by 300 percent.
4) Be chatty-really-and convey a strong sense of fascination. Talk about relationships and the mysterious, and use lots of humor as well as emotional and sensory descriptions. Enthusiasm is contagious.
5) Don’t say anything to impress her, such as bragging about your job, girls, or friends. Instead, indirectly convey value via demonstration and incidental story details. If she can tell that you are trying to impress her, she will perceive you as lower value.
6) Don’t act as if anything is a big deal. Be fun and playful. Vibe with her, but don’t react to her. Act the same way you would act with your eight-year-old niece.
7) As you hang out with her, and she has an opportunity to win you over, then show her your increasing interest. She must recognize that she has genuinely won you over with her personality.
8) Balance indicators of interest with indicators of disinterest. Do this both in your conversation with her and also as you escalate with her physically. This has a great effect.
9) Wear one accessory that gives other people an excuse to initiate a conversation with you, such as a hat, or a certain ring or necklace. Have a good story prepared for when this happens.
10) Have a life. Go to the gym and stay in shape, and continually improve your wardrobe. Cultivate your circle of female friends. Throw parties. Put effort into your social circle. A girl should imagine herself being a part of your cool life.
What are indicators (signals) of interest (IOIs) from women?
Proximity Self-grooming Scratching face Toying with hair Giving attention Vibing with you Giggling Offering value Touching you Showing appreciation Asking questions Leaning in Facing you Trying to impress Allows escalation
What are indicators (signals) of disinterest (IODs) from women?
Avoidance Impatience Crosses arms Hand toss Rolls off Disacknowledgment Breaking rapport Disinterested Pushes away Disqualifiers, Negs Drops conversation Leans back Faces away Disallows frames Give resistance
If a woman touches you often during conversation for example, if she touches your arm when saying something to you then what?
She is signaling her interest in you. Women are hardwired to touch when they feel attracted.
If she giggles a lot, or asks you a lot of questions, or tries to joke with you a lot, then what?
She is interested in you. These are also green lights.
When a woman continually turns fo face you with her body. This means that even if you turn away from her a little, then she will also turn until she is facing you again. Then what?
She’s interested in you
As she is talking with you, she will touch her hair more and start to toy with it. She’ll toss her hair, drawing attention to it. She will touch her face and her neck, and the back of her hand. She will scratch her cheek, next to her nose, and between the lip and the nose. Then what?
She’s interested in you. (Also, this is Self—grooming indicator)
If she leans in toward you for extended periods of time, or crosses her legs towards you, then what?
She’s interested in you
If she folds her arms or leans back or turns her crossed legs away from you, then what?
She isn’t interested in you. Don’t go for it until these things change. If it doesn’t change, don’t bother going in. Be willing to leave. These are all bad signals.
If you see her do at least three of these indicators of interest (such as touching you, toying with her hair, asking you lots of questions, and giggling during conversation), then what?
You can kiss her.
What is Mystery’s kiss gambit?
As she is talking, hold up your finger to your lips and
say:
“Shh…You talk a lot. Would you like to kiss me?”
Now there are only four things that can happen, and we have a way to handle them all:
• If she says yes, then kiss her!
• If she says no, then say, “I didn’t say you could, you just looked like you had something on your mind.” Then just continue talking and move on to the next part of your conversation–you have avoided rejection.
• If she says maybe, or I don’t know, then it actually means yes! Often a woman wants to kiss you, but she just can’t admit it out loud. It’s okay, just say “Let’s find out,” and then kiss her.
• If she says not here, then she is actually saying, “I want to kiss you, but I can’t do it in front of these people.” Demonstrate your social intelligence by telling her, “I understand.” Now you know you can kiss her the next time you are alone together.
What is the touching technique?
Touching should be a normal and constant part of the way you interact with other people, from the very beginning. There should never be some big moment, but instead a series of tiny little moments, and they’re always no big deal.
When you are interacting with a woman, touching should be a normal part of that interaction from the very beginning. Even in nocuous litle social touches, such as gently pushing a woman’s shoulder, or touching her forearm, or throwing your arm around
her you must be constantly doing this with her. That way, physical touch becomes a normal part of the way that the two of you behave together. It would feel weird not to touch
What is the consequences of skipping the touching technique?
If you wait too long, if you don’t start touching her and her friends when you first meet them, then even innocuous touches will seem weird later on.
So you see, the reason it feels so weird when you try to make a move at the end of the night is that you waited too long you should have been touching her the whole time.
What is the shoulder tap technique?
As you are saying something to her, tap her shoulder with the back of your hand.
Now, this Shoulder Tap move might not seem like that big a deal, but that’s the whole point! After all, if you want to become a more physical person, the easiest way to start is by using harmless little touches as you talk to people, which will seem normal and social to the both of you, like it’s no big deal.
How hard can it be to tap a woman on the shoulder as part of what you are saying to her? There’s nothing to it. So there’s no excuse not to immediately start adding this piece into your conversations with women. Don’t just do it once-do it all the time.
What is the key secret of the touching technique?
Touch her “absentmindedly”, as though you yourself are not even aware that you are touching her.
The secret is to touch her as if you yourself do not even notice your own touches. Your touches should SEEM as though they are automatic, beneath the rest of your conversation and below your conscious awareness.
