Phrases To say To Them Flashcards
PHRASES TO REPAIR AFTER YELLING AT YOUR KID
“I made a mistake by yelling, and Im sorry. Your emotions matter.”
• “My reaction upset you. I want to know how you’re feeling.”
“You’re safe to openly express your hurt. I’m listening.”
“This is not your fault. I will learn to communicate without yelling.”
What should we say instead of - “How many times do I have to say it?”
-You can handle it. I can help. Let’s do it together.
What do we say instead of -Stop whining! -Stop laughing! What do you need from me?
-You’re probably tired, aren’t you?
What to say instead of put on your shirt now?
“Do you want to wear your blue coat or your red one?
How to communicate with a preschooler?
Use gestures and body language when communicating in the less familiar language. Children learn from facial expressions. Speak slowly and clearly. Children need time to hear and process the meaning and context of what is being said.
How to talk to a preschooler
Simple, direct, positive tone, narrate activities
What is a tone in talking?
pitch, volume, and inflection of your voice, as well as your facial expressions and body language.
Why is it important to use a positive tone with preschoolers
A positive tone makes your child feel safe, understood, and loved.
How do you maintain a positive tone?
Smiling makes your tone cheerful and friendly.
Gentle Voice: Speak calmly and soothingly; avoid shouting.
Show Enthusiasm: Express excitement and interest in their achievements.
Encourage and Praise: Use positive words like “Great job!” to boost confidence.
Stay Patient: Respond with understanding during their tantrums.
Positive Body Language: Use eye contact and welcoming gestures.
Consistent Warmth: Be kind and firm, even when disciplining.
Reflect Emotions: Acknowledge their feelings supportively.
What does acknowledging their feelings mean?
Recognizing and validating their emotions
Why is it important to acknowledge/ validate feelings?
helps them feel understood and supported
How to make child feel seen?
Reflect their feelings: I see that your feeling sad right now
10 mins of play 1 on 1 no distractions.
Let them decide what they want to play
Phrases to make someone feel heard?
I’m listening.
I hear what you’re saying.
I understand how you feel.
Thanks for sharing with me.
I care about what you have to say.
Phrases to make them feel seen?
I see you’re feeling [emotion]
