Part 1 Defining Role of a Coach Flashcards
What is coaching?
Coaching is a vehicle for helping people to achieve a higher level of well-being and performance in life and work, particularly when change is hard. Coaching is a growth-promoting relationship that elicits autonomous motivation, increases the capacity to change, and facilitates a change process through visioning, goal setting, and accountability, which at its best leads to sustainable change for the good.
Coaches responsibility is to (4):
- Discover, clarify, and align with what the client wants to achieve.
- Encourage client self-discovery.
- Elicit collaborative and client-generated solutions and strategies
- Hold the client accountable and responsible
The outcomes delivered by coaches include the following:
- Increased self-awareness and self knowledge
- Increase personal responsibility
- Acquisition of new knowledge and skills
- Attainment of personal and professional goals
- Sustainable behavior change
- Increased my satisfaction
- Increase self efficacy
- Developed sense of purpose and meaning
- Becoming ones best self
Why we need health and wellness coaching:
Lifestyle-related chronic diseases, heart disease, stroke, and cancer account for 50% of deaths, whereas obesity, prediabetes, and diabetes are reaching epidemic levels of prevalence in the United States and spreading globally. U.S. healthcare costs associated with life-style related chronic diseases are estimated to be 75% of total costs.
Fewer than 5% of adults engage in the top health behaviors and only 20% of adults are thriving.
Lifestyle medicine is emerging in response.
- American College of Lifestyle Medicine
- Institute of Lifestyle Medicine
Employers healthcare costs.
Expert approach is not working.
Clients need whole-person view.
Each person is genetically unique.
Unique learning styles.
With a focus on building self-efficacy and autonomy, professional coaches are trained to:
- Accept and meet clients where they are today
- Ask clients to take charge
- Guide clients in doing the mindful thinking , feeling, and doing work that builds confidence
- Help clients define a higher purpose in health and well-being
- Uncover a client’s natural impulse to be well
- Support clients in tapping into their innate fighting spirit
- Address mental and physical health together
- Assist clients with their own health and wellness blueprint
- Encourage clients to set and achieve realistic goals (small victories lay the foundation for self efficacy
- Harness the strengths needed to overcome our obstacles
- Reframe obstacles as opportunities to learn and grow
- Enable clients to build a support team
- Inspire and challenge clients to go beyond what they would do alone
The goal of coaching is to:
Encourage personal responsibility reflective thinking self-discovery and self efficacy.
Coaching approach rather than export:
Don’t direct client- instead guide the client.
Ask open ended questions like WHAT? HOW?
Not DO YOU? WILL YOU? DID YOU? WHY?
Use reflections and mirroring.
Such as “You’re excited and proud that you were able to walk three times this week.” “You’re feeling unhappy in your life balance, and you want to have more energy.”
Listen with empathy and curiosity.
Self engagement allows patients to generate new self-concept, supports and environments, and to take new actions.
- Who is my best self?
- What supports my best self?
- What manifests my best self?
I’m transitioning from the expert to the coach approach many coaches report the challenges as well as a rewards of:
- asking questions with a beginners mind not assuming that they already know the answers
- not making decisions and judgment calls quickly but allowing clients a chance to go deeper and to get you important topics
- not thinking about what to say next but instead listening for a dangling thread hanging of a client last words
- not generating quiet resistance with even a hint of know it all energy
- reading respecting and working with clients emotions as possible guide post to insights
- not rushing clients through their mark but instead compassionately helping them sit there until the desire to change gains energy
- not being on automatic pilot to ensure that a checklist gets completed but instead of being fully present to the clients reality and present needs
Thomas Gordon 1970 has outlined 12 ways of being that do not demonstrate a coach approach:
1- Ordering, directing, commending
2- Warning, cautioning, or threatening
3- Giving advice, making suggestions, or providing solutions
4- Persuading with logic, arguing, or lecturing
5- Telling people what they should do
6- Disagreeing, judging, criticizing, or blaming
7- Agreeing, approving, or praising
8- Shaming, approving, or praising
9- Interpreting or analyzing
10- Reassuring, sympathizing, or consoling
11- Questioning or probing
12-Withdrawing, distracting, humoring, or changing the subject
Research shows coaching for three months or longer are:
improving health outcomes for several chronic diseases such as diabetes, heart disease, obesity, and cancer survivors.
Who published a systematic review of health and wellness coaching literature that operationalized health and wellness coaching?
Wolever and colleagues in 2013 including 284 articles.
Health and wellness research outcomes from Wolves review:
- A process that is fully or partially patient centered
- Includes patient determined goals
- Incorporates self-discovery and active learning processes (rather than more passive receipt of advice)
- Encourages accountability and behavioral goals
- Provides some type of education along with using coaching processes
- Coaching occurs as an ongoing relationship with a coach who is trained in specific behavior change , communication, and motivational skill
Expert approach:
Authority Educator Defines agendas Feels responsible for client's health Solves problems Focuses on what's wrong Has the answers Interrupts if oof topic Wrestles with client
Coach approach:
Partner Facilitator of change Elicits client's agenda Client is responsible for health Fosters possibilities Focuses on what is right Co-discovers the answers Learn's from client's story Client works as hard as coach Dances with client