Parenting Flashcards
What is an authoritarian parent like?
Hostile, harsh, abusive, controlling
What are the three types of parenting ?
Authoritarian/Brick Wall
Jellyfish/uninvolved
Backbone/ Authoritative
What is a child of an authoritarian parent like
Fearful of home, mistrust of others, decrease social competence, mental health issues
What are some characteristics of a brick wall style ?
Hierarchy of control Strict rules Conditional love Break child's spirits Competitive Punctuality, cleanliness, order
What is a jelly fish parent like?
Leave child to learn, neglect, selfish
What is a jelly fish child like?
Trouble forming relationships, poor academics, problem behaviours
What are some characteristics of the uninvolved parenting style ?
Anarchy/chaos environment No rules Random punishment/rewards Conditional love Easily led by peers Sexual promiscuity and drug abuse
What are back bone parents like?
Listen, freedom/rules, structure, support
What are back bone children like?
Self- confident, self-esteem, good grades
What are some characteristics of an authoritative style?
Unconditional love Support network Responsibility Rules simple and clear Consequences Motivation Smiles, hugs, humour
What are the six critical life messages ?
I believe in you I trust you I know you can handle this You are cared for You are listened to You are very important to me
What is the characteristics of positive consequences?
Responsible
Simple
Valuable
Practical