not sure as yet Flashcards
Be Nice (no airs, no 1-uping. Being comfortable in your own skin and that will translate to kindness
Know your own self-worth (Know your strenghs such as sexy/ witty/ kind etc and it comes across as powerfull and aluring
hey make you feel comfortable (Dont try and change people, instead, find common ground. find the good in people)
They stay away from drama and negativity (People graviate to those people who are energetic, positive, and lift them up!)
They Elevate others
(Irresistible people want to make life pleasant and positive for everyone, they are quick with genuine compliments and happy to help out)
They don’t compete, they collaborate
Rather than size people up and compete, learn about others with open body language and large smiles. They like to help people and it pays in business
They are not afraid to be vulnerable
Most people don’t talk about subjects that matter. If you talk about troubling subjects with respect (eg, the death of a father), people will be far more likely to open up about their own, deeper, beliefs. It’s about being secure enough to talk about the tough parts of life, as we all have them
They excentuate their strenghs
Irrisistable people use their words with intention. They use statements like “I Love”, “I do”, “I can” rather than “I like”, “I should”, “I don’t know”. They focus on their strenghs and not worry abotu their weeknesses
They make an Effort
They make an effort to look presentable, show up to parties, to do reseach before a meeting. It’s not perfect, but people will notice the effort