Normative Views of Sexuality (Ch. 14) Flashcards
Sexual script theory
Script theory (psychological):
human behavior falls
into patterns called “scripts”
(default standards for actors, props, setting,
and sequence of events
that are expected to occur
in a particular situation)
Expectations of how
to behave sexually
Affected by cultural,
interpersonal,
and intrapersonal
influences
Traditional sexual script
Kissing
Breast/genital contact
(Oral sex)
Penetration (orgasm)
Orgasm gap
Gender differences in the frequency of orgasm during heterosexual sexual activity, such that
women have fewer orgasms than men
About half of women to almost 100% of men
WSW about 75%
Reasons?
Type of sexual activity
- Penetration/performance vs pleasure focused
- penetration orgasm in about 20% of women
Nature of the relationship
Motivation to pursue orgasm
Lesbian bed death
myth: lesbians in long-term relationships either stop having sex altogether or have it very infrequently
Lowest sexual frequencies,
but significantly longer durations (Blair & Pukall, 2014)
and higher success of orgasm
than het and bi women
“Real” sex
“penetration”
Penile penetration activities occur less often in same-sex sexual activity than in heterosexual sexual activity
scenarios where the traditional
sexual script may not “fit
Same-sex relationships
More than two in the relationship
Body doesn’t work
in the “expected” manner
Preferences for activities
outside the script (e.g., kink)
Same-sex sexual activity
Scripts are more broad
More acceptance that “foreplay” activities and masturbation
count as “sex”
(foreplay mainplay - also important to older het individuals)
Masturbation (each other, to each their own - together)
Oral sex (giving and receiving)
Genital-genital and genital nongenital friction
Anal play/penetration
Tops, bottoms, versatile, sides
Common behaviours involving media/toys
Watching sexually explicit videos (>70%)
Reading erotic stories (~60%)
Sexting (images; 54-65%)
50% of women & 33% of men: sex toy use
Social sexual experiences
Strip club (59% of men, 30% women)
Sex in public (43%)
Tying up/tied up/spanking (20-30%)
Threesomes (10-18%)
Group sex, sex/kink parties (~8%)
sexual compliance
an individual’s willing
consent to engage in
sexual behaviour when
she or he does not desire
sexual activity.
fellatio
oral stimulation of a man’s
genitals by a partner.
frottage
The sexual practice in
which partners (clothed
or not) rub or thrust their
genitals against any part of
the other person’s body.
coitus
Intercourse in which a
man inserts his penis into
a woman’s vagina.
extradyadic behaviour (edb)
Any emotional or sexual
dyadic behaviour outside
of a monogamous
relationship without
the agreement of one’s
partner.
agenda-setting theory
theory that proposes
that media influence our
thoughts and behaviour
by highlighting what we
should pay attention to.
cultivation theory
A theory that proposes
that media portrayals
create a shared set of
values and expectations
about reality among media
consumers.