My Notes Flashcards

1
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A government by the people selected on the basis of their ability

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Meritocracy

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2
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Keep it real bring people together

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Rule number one managing the abstraction

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3
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Keep it manageable, obey Dunbar’s number

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Rule number two managing the extraction

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4
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Meet the people you help

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Rule number three managing the extraction

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5
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Give them time, not just money

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Rule number four managing the abstraction

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6
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Be patient remember the rule of seven days and seven years

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Rule five managing the abstraction

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7
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Take advantage of your millennials

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Mentor and support them
Lead by example
Talk about your failures
Give them the opportunity to fall
Offer more opportunity to develop human skills
Help them love themselves
Take a chance on them
They are the leaders of the future but we are the leaders now

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8
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Number one complaint about millennials

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Entitlement

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9
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What millennials can do?

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Solve your problems
Push to completion
Beg for criticism
Sacrifice credit
Call Turkey your phone

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10
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Giving credit where credit is due goes a long way to build a circle of safety, and creating an environment of mutual respect between boss and employee

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Sacrifice credit

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11
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I know of no case study in history that describes an organization that has been managed out of a crisis

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Every single one of them was led

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12
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The true cost of the leadership privilege comes at the expense of:

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Self interest

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13
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Organizations where people share values and are valued succeed:

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Over the long-term in both good and bad times

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14
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People dream of a better future, and invest time and effort, and learning more do more for their organizations and along the way, become leaders themselves

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When leaders inspire those they lead

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15
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The will to succeed in the desire to do things that advanced the interest of the organization, aren’t just motivated by recognition from above:

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They are integral to a culture of sacrifice and service, in which protection comes from all levels of the organization

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16
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What is Johnny Bravo’s single greatest asset he has to do his job?

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Empathy

Because they would’ve done it for me

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17
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Exceptional organizations, all have cultures in which the leaders provide cover from above, and the people on the ground lookout for each other

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This is the reason they are willing to push hard and take the kinds of risks they do and the way they do this is with empathy

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18
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According to Chapman, to earn the trust of people, leaders of an organization must first:

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Treat employees like people to earn trust he must extend trust

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19
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When there is a sense of belonging, people feel relaxed and valued this type of caring environment allowed people to fully:

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Engaged their heads and hearts

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20
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A new culture of caring allows the people in strategies to flourish. This is what happens when the leaders of an organization listen to the people who work there.

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Working with a sense of obligation, is replaced by working with a sense of pride, and coming to work for the companies replaced by coming to work for each other work is no longer a place of dread. It is a place to feel valued.

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21
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Truly Human Leadership

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When people have to manage dangerous from the inside, the organization itself becomes less able to face the dangers from the outside,

Truly Human Leadership creates an environment, in which people feel they can express themselves honestly, and be recognized and celebrated for their progress

Truly humanly leadership should protect an organization from the internal rivalries that can shatter a culture

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22
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Those who have an opportunity to work in an organization that treat them like human beings to be protected rather than a resource to be exploited

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Come home at the end of the day, with an intense feeling of fulfillment and gratitude

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23
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According to Chapman being a leader:

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Is like being a parent and the company is like a new family to join

One that will take care of us in sickness and in health

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24
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Capitalism actually does better when we work as we were designed

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When we have a chance to fulfill our very human obligations

sacrifice the numbers to save the people and not sacrifice the people to save the numbers.

…to sacrifice the numbers to save the people and not sacrifice the people to save the numbers

25
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What is fundamental to creating a culture which the people naturally pull together to advance the business?

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To see money as subordinative to people, and not the other way around

26
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As leaders, what is our soul responsibility?

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To protect our people and In turn our people who protect each other in advance the organization together as employees or members of the group. We need to courage to take care of each other when our leaders dumped and then doing so we become the leaders we wish we had.

27
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The feeling of belonging of shared values and deep sense of empathy, dramatically, enhances, trust, cooperation, and problem-solving

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Circle of safety

It should be the goal of leadership to set culture free of danger from each other in the way to do that is by giving people a sense of belonging by offering them a strong culture based on a clear set of human values, and by giving them the power to make decisions by offering trust and empathy this creates a circle of safety

28
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What is the primary role of leadership?

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To look out for those inside their circle

Only when we feel we are in a circle of safety will we pull together as a unified team better able to survive and thrive regardless of the conditions outside

29
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What happens when the circle of safety is strong and the feeling of belonging is ubiquitous?

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Trust and innovation results

30
Q

Stress and anxiety at work have less to do with work and more to do with?

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Week management and leadership

When we feel like someone is looking out for themselves or that the leaders of the company, Care more about the numbers and they do us our stress and anxiety go up

31
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When our bosses completely ignore us what percentage of us actively disengage from our work?

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40%

32
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If our bosses criticize us on a regular basis, what percentage of us actively disengage?

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22%

33
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If our bosses recognize our strength and reward us for doing what we’re good at what percentage of us actively disengage from the work, we’re expected to do?

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1%

34
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It is not the demands of the job that cause the most stress, but it is…

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But the degree of control we feel we have throughout the day.

The study also found that the effort required by a job is not in its self stressful, but rather the imbalance between the effort we give, and the reward we feel.

less control more stress

35
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The lower someone’s rank in the organizational hierarchy

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The greater their risk of stress related health problems, not the other way around

36
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The Spartan strength does not come from the sharpness of their spears, but from

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The protection of their shields

37
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When we feel like we belong to the group and trust the people with whom we work

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We naturally cooperate to face outside challenges and threats

38
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When we do not have a sense of belonging, we are forced to invest time and energy to protect ourselves from each other

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This makes us more more vulnerable to the outside threats and challenges

39
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Neocortex

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Our complex problem-solving brain gives us the ability for sophisticated communication makes us capable of syntax and grammar, remarkable ability to cooperate. We are a highly social species who survival, ability to prosper depend on the help of others.

40
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Cooperation and mutual aid

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Work better than competition and rugged individual

41
Q

The selfish chemicals

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Endorphins and dopamine work to get us where we need to go as individuals to preserve find food, build shelters invent tools, drive forward and get things done

42
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Trust is not simply a matter of shared opinions. Trust is also this:

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Trust is a biological reaction to the belief that someone has our well-being at heart. Leaders are the ones who are willing to give up something of their own for us, their time, their energy, their money, maybe even the food off their plate. When it matters, leaders choose to eat last.

43
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What do leaps of greatness require?

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Leaps of greatness require the combined, problem-solving ability of people who trust each other.

Without oxytocin, we would only ever make short-term progress.

44
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What is one of the issues with the selfish chemicals? Endorphins and dopamine.

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They give us short term rewards to which we can, under the right conditions become addicted.

45
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The selfless chemicals, serotonin and oxytocin, take time to build up in our systems before we can do this?

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Enjoy their full benefits. The bonds of love and trust and friendship take time to feel.

46
Q

When dopamine is the primary driver, we may achieve a lot, but:

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We will feel lonely and unfilled no matter how rich and powerful we get.

47
Q

When our selfish and selfless chemicals are this we gain almost supernatural ability:

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Balance

48
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What chemical is responsible for the feeling of trust?

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Oxytocin. This is a response to acts performed on our behalf that serve our safety and protection…true trust can only exist among people, not technology.

49
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The true social benefit of trust must be:

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Reciprocal, one-way trust is not beneficial to the individual or the group.

For trust to serve the individuals in the group, it must be shared.

50
Q

After leaders teach their people the rules train them and gain competency and build their confidence. What must they do then?

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At that point leadership must step back and trust their people know what they are doing and will do what needs to be done.

51
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In weak organizations, without oversight, too many people will do this for personal gain:

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Break the rules. That’s what makes organizations weak in strong organizations. People will break the rules because it’s the right thing to do for others.

52
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If leaders do not relinquish control, then what could possibly happen?

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The odds of something bad happening go up, people will be more concerned about following the rules at a fear of getting in trouble or losing their jobs then about doing what needs to be done.

53
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Limbic brain

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Primitive. Controls our feelings. Our ability to trust. Our ability to cooperate. Our ability to socialize and build strong communities. It is our Limbic brain that feeds the gut reactions in gut decisions. That drive our behavior. It gives us stability to form, strong, emotional bonds with others, and these social bonds allows to work together to do all the things are Homosapien neocortices he can dream up.

Form, strong social & emotional bonds

54
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Paleolithic brain

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Doesn’t care about understanding threat it just concerned about survival.

55
Q

What is the lubrication that reduces friction and creates conditions much more conducive to performance?

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Trust.

To a social animal trust is like lubrication. It reduces friction and creates conditions. Much more conducive to performance just like putting the snowmobile back in the snow.

Trust in commitment or feelings that we get from the release of chemical incentive deep in our limbic brain .

56
Q

When we cannot see the impact of our decisions, when the lives of people become an abstraction…

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65% of us have the capacity to kill somebody.

Milgram experiments .

57
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What is the new abstraction defensive action…Nazis used to say “I was just following orders” Now what do people say as a modern mantra?

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Milligram’s subject mutter to themselves “the experiment must continue”

In business….

“We work to provide shareholder value”

“We work to fill our fiduciary duty”

58
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Leadership is about integrity, honesty, and accountability. These are all components of what?

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Trust

Integrity, honesty, accountability