At-a-glance Flashcards
Selfish chemicals
Endorphins mask physical pain. Dopamine provides for good feeling from progress and is goal orientated. bad side, alcohol, social media food addiction, instant gratification.
Selfless chemicals, social bonds backbone of circle of safety
Serotonin, pride, leadership approval.
Oxytocin , empathy, generosity, love, long lasting value of empathy is Johnny Bravo
Danger chemicals
Cortisol tell us that something is wrong. Oxytocin increases aggression. Adrenaline fight or flight
Circle of safety
Bob Chapman manufacturer truly human leadership equals people feel safe when they work together in hard times no loss each employees took a month furlough. USMC fear no danger from each other. Charlie Kim next jump offers lifetime, employment, more honest conversations, Spartans, nothing worse than losing your shield because that’s for the safety of the community
STRESS
STRESS IS LESS about the actual work we do and more about WEAK management and leadership!
40/22/1
40% DISENGAGE when our boss IGNORES us.
22% DISENGAGE when our bosses CRITICIZE us on a REGULAR BASIS.
1 % DISENGAGE if our bosses RECOGNIZE just one of our strengths and reward us for doing what we are good at.
Stress equals lack of control (Whitehall studies)
Destructive abundance
When SELFISH PURSUITS are out of balance, with SELFLESS PURSUITS, the more we have the more we keep people away and share less abundance, makes us greedy.
In business, leaders who put a premium on numbers over lives, are more often separated from the people. They serve.
Ronald Reagan lays off the aircraft controllers and set the tone for business to lay off people to balance the books, following law, not enough example.
Titanic carried only 16 lifeboats required by law.
Managing the abstract concepts
DUNBARS NUMBER = 150
Keep it real bring people together. Keep it manageable obey Dunbar‘s number 150 people.
Meet people you help give them time not just money. Be patient. Remember seven days and seven years
Leadership lessons, so goes the culture, so goes to company:
Goldman v. Mumbai
So goes the culture, so goes the company Goldman Sachs example v. the Mumbai India Hotel terrorist attacks innovation, such as 3M post-it notes…culture of sharing
Leadership lessons, so goes the leader, so goes to culture
Morgan v. Marquet
Stanley Morgan’s ascent at Merrill Lynch cutthroat, and not care about people v. Captain David Marquet sub commander who made knowledge his power until he change culture from of permission to intent those at the bottom, have all the information and none of the authority
Leadership lessons integrity matters
Foxhole test USMC OCS candidate not admit, sleeping on watch leadership is not from what we want to hear but what we need to hear building trust requires nothing more than telling the truth Ralph Lauren, admit foreign division paid brides
Leadership lessons lead the people not the numbers
The Jack Welch of GE example about shareholder profits, not people, BP explosion of oil rig due to safety violations to cut cost versus James Senegal cofounder of Costco treats workers like family and they produce in tough times. Customers will never love a company until the company loves it first.
Leadership lessons, other miscellaneous points
We want to help Alpha leaders in provide privileges, so they protect us. The cost of leadership is self interest, USMC General Flynn. No one to break the rules. Example air traffic controllers during risk step 12 and AA, helping other alcoholic and leadership. It’s about service to others feeling a shared common burden brings us together.
Leading millennials most common criticism
Sense of entitlement. Others are poor communication not proactive can’t handle critical feedback inpatient.
Leading millennials good points
Inclusive. Sense of purpose. Courage to leave job.
Three things that affect millennials growing up
OUI
Over parenting. Ubiquitous technology. Instant gratification.
Millennials at companies advice
Keep cell phones out of conference rooms. Take notes on paper Not computers. Teach leadership. Teach them how to give And receive feedback. Take advantage of millennials. Comfort with change pivot easily confidence. Good for sales. Mentor them. lead by example. Talk about failures. Opportunity to fall. Opportunities to develop human skills.
Advice to millennials
Solve your problems. Push to completion. Beg for criticism. Sacrifice credit. Cold turkey your phone.
What is the one thing that Johnny Bravo credits for giving him the courage to cross into the unknown?
Empathy
Truly human leadership
Protection organization from the internal rivalries that can shatter a culture
According to the Deloitte shift index what percentage of people are dissatisfied with their jobs
80%
Companies that treat their people like family
Are rewarded by loyal employees, who will defend and grow the company
The circle of safety
Without a circle of safety, people are forced to spend too much time and energy protecting themselves from each other
Sgt Timilty is looking over the list of candidates for her department according to leaders eat last the primary hiring consideration should be?
Their character, and whether they fit the department culture
Regarding the impact of work stress, Whitehall studies, and a similar study at Harvard found what?
It is not the demands of the job that caused the most stress, but the degree of control workers feel they have throughout the day
Which of the following children may have issues with their well being?
Sgt Wilko is often able to get home in time to have dinner with the family and help his daughter with homework but he comes home in a bad mood because department politics are a source of stress
There are four primary chemicals in our body that contribute to our positive feelings that the author generally calls happy. Of these 2 evolved primarily to help us find food and get things done, the selfish chemicals. the other two are there to incentivize us to work together, and develop feelings of trust and loyalty, the selfless chemicals, which of the following statements is true?
Oxytocin and serotonin are the selfless chemicals
Serves one purpose only to mask physical pain
Endorphins (can’t laugh and be AFRAID at the same time). Endorphins mask the pain of organs rubbing together.
LAUGHING releases ENDORPHINS.
Gives us the good feeling we get when we find something we are looking for or to do something that needs to get done
Dopamine
Accomplishment may be fueled by dopamine, but that feeling of fulfillment. Those lasting feelings of happiness and loyalty all require.
Engagement with others
These are the backbone to the circle of safety
Serotonin in oxytocin
Gives us the feeling we get when we perceive that others like or respect us. It is why we want to feel that we and the work we do is valued by others.
Serotonin
As social animals, we really need the approval of those in our social groups, we have award ceremonies, Facebook likes, Twitter, followers and graduation ceremonies, all trigger the release of which chemical?
Serotonin
Gives us the feeling of friendship love or deep. Trust it is the feeling we get when we do something nice for someone or someone does something nice for us.
Oxytocin
Is largely responsible for instant gratification
Dopamine
Gives us feelings of calm and safe
Oxytocin
All of the following are characteristics of oxytocin
Without it, we wouldn’t want to perform act of generosity, and there would be no empathy. It helps direct how vulnerable we can afford to make ourselves. It is a social compass that determines when it is safe to open up and trust or when we should hold back. It allows us to give someone the power to destroy us and trusting they won’t use it.
Sgt Harvey is approaching a vehicle and gets the feeling that something is not right the chemical responsible for this first level of fight or flight response is
Cortisol
In the event of an actual threat, this chemical is released into our bloodstream, giving us energy to get away or boosting our strength to face our foe.
Adrenaline
Lieutenant Brightman works for a department that is pretty stable although no one goes out of their way to help one another and the support staff is ambivalent about and sometimes resistant to cooperating ultimately the reason for his constant low-grade anxiety boils down to
The departments environments
Lieutenant Webb-Johnson works for department where there is a lot of internal politics and a general lack of trust among colleagues one of the reasons that he has high blood pressure and gets sick often is.
The constant level of cortisol running through his veins
According to leaders, eat last work life balance
Has to do with where we feel safe
What was the result of when Charlie Kim founder of Next Jump implemented a lifetime environment policy
Team started communicating more openly and problems were pointed out more quickly
A 2010 study by three psychology, researchers show that people who wear phony couture clothing
Are more inclined to cheat in other aspects of their lives as well
According to Lieutenant General George Flynn of the United States Marine Corps, the cost of leadership is:
Self-interest