Module 1: Making Difficult Decisions - Learning Objectives Study Guide Flashcards
What is an asshole?
Someone who disrespects & demeans other people, and either denies it or just doesn’t care.
How is asshole behaviour shown?
Asshole behaviour is shown passive-aggressively, or active-aggressively.
Who do assholes usually target?
Assholes typically target people within the same level of hierarchy as them, or someone below them
What are the impacts of asshole behaviour on colleagues and firms, and why? (6)
- Environment of fear, which leads to decreased communication
- Decreased productivity, as others become demotivated
- Worse performance and decision-making, especially on cognitive tasks: Makes you dumber, by undermining your ability to think clearly and creatively
- Contagious disease: More negative attitudes towards others
- Rise of unethical behaviour, and attempts at retaliation against supervisors
- Smaller likelihood of helping others
How can you deal with an asshole?
- Assume you don’t know (Give the other person the benefit of the doubt): by assuming good intentions, trying to learn, and being curious
- Don’t fight back in the moment (Don’t put them on the defensive): Separate intentions and impact
- Help them find a less demeaning way to accomplish their goals: Use humour, rather than calling them out on bad behaviour.
How can you avoid hiring assholes?
When speaking to references, ask the right questions and spot nuances in their answers.
Get them to be more honest, by forcing them to choose between two negative qualities.
Fill in the blanks: Replacing a toxic worker with a ________ one can be twice as profitable as upgrading an _________ worker to a ____________.
Replacing a toxic worker with an average one can be twice as profitable as upgrading an average worker to a star.
How can you lock out and stop assholes within your workplace?
- Give employees a voice, allow them to provide feedback
- Give subordinates power, by letting them choose who they want to work with
- Don’t solely incentivize individual achievement
- Ask: “Who is a superstar here?” Is it the jerks, the takers?
Is it possible to have an asshole-free workplace?
NO! There will always be temporary jerk behaviour. It is impossible that no one will never be upset.
Why should leaders care about striving for a no-asshole culture?
- To attract, motivate and retain talented people
- It is the right thing to do!
How can leaders proactively prevent asshole culture?
- Screen assholes out of the hiring process
- Don’t reward people who get individual results at the expense of others, and create a toxic culture
- When someone is demeaning, try to find a respectful way to let them know the impact they have made.
- If you can’t remove/reform an asshole, minimize interaction
What is the lens of realistic optimism?
- Standing outside the experience, without reacting to it
- Facts, vs the mental stories you are making up about the facts
- Exploring alternative perspectives that would serve you better
Ask yourself:
- What are the FACTS in this situation?
- What’s the story I’m telling myself about those facts?
What is the reverse lens?
- Widening your perspective, by viewing the situation from the other party’s eyes
- Using empathy, by appreciating others’ perspective
Ask yourself:
-What is this person feeling, and in what ways does that make sense?
What is the long lens?
-Looking beyond the present to imagine a better future
Ask yourself:
-Regardless of how I feel about what’s happening right now, how can I grow and learn from this experience?
What are heuristics?
Heuristics: The unconscious routines we use to cope with the complexity inherent in most decisions.
Decision-making biases: What is the anchoring trap?
Initial impressions/estimates/data ANCHOR subsequent thoughts and judgments. When considering a decision, the mind gives disproportionate weight to the first information it receives.
How can we avoid the anchoring trap?
- View the problem from different perspectives, widening your frame of reference: Seek information and opinions from various people
- Think about the problem on your own, before consulting others (avoid being anchored by their ideas): Have your own position before the negotiation begins
Decision-making biases: What is the status-quo trap?
Decision-makers display a strong bias toward alternatives that perpetuate the status-quo, as it is a safer course that puts the individual at less psychological risk.
How can we avoid the status-quo trap?
- Remind yourself of your objectives, and how they will be served by the status-quo choice in the future
- Identify other options, weighing the benefits and consequences
- Ask yourself: Would I choose this option, if it weren’t the status-quo?
- Don’t default to the status-quo option, just because you have a hard time choosing
Decision-making biases: What is the sunk-cost trap?
A decision-making bias that gives individual a tendency to make choices that justify past, non-valid choices (sunk costs/decisions). Arises due to unwillingness to admit to a mistake.
How can we avoid the sunk-cost trap?
- Seek out and listen carefully to the perspectives of people who were uninvolved with the earlier decisions.
- Examine WHY admitting to an earlier mistake distresses you.
- Look out for the influence of sunk-cost biases in your subordinates’ decisions and recommendations.
- Avoid cultivating a failure-fearing culture: Focus on quality decision-making, not outcomes generated.