mm_20220510144738 Flashcards
Deep breath smile head over shoulder then probably an open ended question
Pretend to leave but during ask follow up
Time constraint
Use liberally but be steady with one foot out the door
Nature will expel your genes
If you don’t learn how to seduce women
The Mystery Method
The Science of Social Dynamics
Three portions and their order
Attraction, comfort, seduction
Girls of beauty are seldom ever
Alone
You should be able to seduce any woman in 7 hours
7 hour rule
In order to attract a beautiful woman
You must disqualify yourself as a potential suitor
Geeks are individuals
Who have issues applying their intelligence to social dynamics
It’s not about looks
It’s about conveying you are the tribal leader
The more Snr value you can convey
The more a woman sees positive probabilities of survival and reproductio.
Align with other human beings who have S&R value
Survival and reproduction
Ultimate purpose is to survive
Penultimate purpose is to reproduce
How many days the average American live?
Tens of thousands of days 28,251 Days 36500 if you make it to 100
Venusian Arts
Art of picking up a woman you had not known previously and establishing a sexual relationship with her
Dynamic social Homeostasis
All animals are conflicted between protecting themselves from others and aligning themselves with others. The center is dynamic social homeostasis
Emotions are
SocioHomeoStatis Indicators
You are a biological machine
But an out of date model without appropriate understanding
You exist in the most population dense instance
Of this timeline. This spike is completely unprecedented and exponentially changing environment
Culture
Enables humans to circumvent physical limitation
Nature hasn’t recalibrated
The behavioral or emotional circuitry to survive in this dynamic
People are still
Cavemen
Approach anxiety
Derives from prior fear of survival and social isolation
Human beings are motivated by
Unsatisfied needs Lower needs but be satisfied prior to higher LoveSafety Health Esteem
Health, Wealth, Love
Big three of happiness
Women are persuaded my emotions
Not logic
Make your engagement emotional
Don’t attempt to sway logically
Love or hate
No you don’t you’re attracted to me
People are constantly asking questions
To dictate your value
Discretion is
A virtue
Don’t brag
Women don’t want there to be social consequences for sleep with you
Anti slut defense
Women are always thinking about their reputation
Plausible deniability
Give a woman plausible deniability regarding a hookup
Give women an excuse to stop by your place
One thing led to another….
Act with Moxy
Inventive courage always be leading the interaction
Women expect
You to lead the conversation in interesting directions
Act with Moxy
Moxy means inventive courageLead the interaction Women seldom take responsibility for what’s going on
Lead
Make things happen, foster each shared moment. You will be held responsible for the fun in the moment
Persistence
Don’t give up too easily assume token resistance,
If you can’t take her crap
How can you protect her from other people’s crap?
A woman’s number one priority is safety and security
Women test for congruence for this reason
A woman doesn’t respect
A man with no boundaries she can walk all over
The more a woman is invested in you
The higher probability of sex and involvement Emotional Social Monetary
What would a high value man do?
What is a high value man?
Be fun and playful
Be challenging and unpredictable
Your objective isn’t to have sex with her
Give her the opportunity to fall in love with you
Women are neither good nor empathetic
Will move onto someone whose got something better going on when they are able
When a woman says “I have a boyfriend”
You’ve telegraphed attraction too quickly
Emotions
Circuits in the brain that judge value and create motivation
People act on their emotions
Then backwards rationalize
What a woman likes or says she likes
Doesn’t correlate with what resonates with her emotionally
A woman’s reputation
She is more likely to indulge in sexual activity if her reputation isn’t at stake
A woman will seek out fun and stimulation
And will actively avoid discomfort
A man of value
Pursues ones dreams