mm_20220510144738 Flashcards
Deep breath smile head over shoulder then probably an open ended question
Pretend to leave but during ask follow up
Time constraint
Use liberally but be steady with one foot out the door
Nature will expel your genes
If you don’t learn how to seduce women
The Mystery Method
The Science of Social Dynamics
Three portions and their order
Attraction, comfort, seduction
Girls of beauty are seldom ever
Alone
You should be able to seduce any woman in 7 hours
7 hour rule
In order to attract a beautiful woman
You must disqualify yourself as a potential suitor
Geeks are individuals
Who have issues applying their intelligence to social dynamics
It’s not about looks
It’s about conveying you are the tribal leader
The more Snr value you can convey
The more a woman sees positive probabilities of survival and reproductio.
Align with other human beings who have S&R value
Survival and reproduction
Ultimate purpose is to survive
Penultimate purpose is to reproduce
How many days the average American live?
Tens of thousands of days 28,251 Days 36500 if you make it to 100
Venusian Arts
Art of picking up a woman you had not known previously and establishing a sexual relationship with her
Dynamic social Homeostasis
All animals are conflicted between protecting themselves from others and aligning themselves with others. The center is dynamic social homeostasis
Emotions are
SocioHomeoStatis Indicators
You are a biological machine
But an out of date model without appropriate understanding
You exist in the most population dense instance
Of this timeline. This spike is completely unprecedented and exponentially changing environment
Culture
Enables humans to circumvent physical limitation
Nature hasn’t recalibrated
The behavioral or emotional circuitry to survive in this dynamic
People are still
Cavemen
Approach anxiety
Derives from prior fear of survival and social isolation
Human beings are motivated by
Unsatisfied needs Lower needs but be satisfied prior to higher LoveSafety Health Esteem
Health, Wealth, Love
Big three of happiness
Women are persuaded my emotions
Not logic
Make your engagement emotional
Don’t attempt to sway logically
Love or hate
No you don’t you’re attracted to me
People are constantly asking questions
To dictate your value
Discretion is
A virtue
Don’t brag
Women don’t want there to be social consequences for sleep with you
Anti slut defense
Women are always thinking about their reputation
Plausible deniability
Give a woman plausible deniability regarding a hookup
Give women an excuse to stop by your place
One thing led to another….
Act with Moxy
Inventive courage always be leading the interaction
Women expect
You to lead the conversation in interesting directions
Act with Moxy
Moxy means inventive courageLead the interaction Women seldom take responsibility for what’s going on
Lead
Make things happen, foster each shared moment. You will be held responsible for the fun in the moment
Persistence
Don’t give up too easily assume token resistance,
If you can’t take her crap
How can you protect her from other people’s crap?
A woman’s number one priority is safety and security
Women test for congruence for this reason
A woman doesn’t respect
A man with no boundaries she can walk all over
The more a woman is invested in you
The higher probability of sex and involvement Emotional Social Monetary
What would a high value man do?
What is a high value man?
Be fun and playful
Be challenging and unpredictable
Your objective isn’t to have sex with her
Give her the opportunity to fall in love with you
Women are neither good nor empathetic
Will move onto someone whose got something better going on when they are able
When a woman says “I have a boyfriend”
You’ve telegraphed attraction too quickly
Emotions
Circuits in the brain that judge value and create motivation
People act on their emotions
Then backwards rationalize
What a woman likes or says she likes
Doesn’t correlate with what resonates with her emotionally
A woman’s reputation
She is more likely to indulge in sexual activity if her reputation isn’t at stake
A woman will seek out fun and stimulation
And will actively avoid discomfort
A man of value
Pursues ones dreams
Keep a woman between revalidation and rejection
Make her chase
M3 Model
Attract, Comfort, Seduction
Game happens in the field
Focus on building skills not getting a partner
Newbie mission
4 nights a week 4 hours each night. Average of 3 approaches per hour for a year
Practice makes
Calibration
Habits become
Internalized
Women are more socially savvy because they have more practice
Men have to make an active effort to be in the field. Women are constantly in the game
Think of it as a game
If you care it will negatively influence your approach
The man who plays this like a game
Is the most likely to win
Sexual relationship structure
Courtship. Sex, break up
Replication value is an attraction factor
Only a minority of a woman’s switches are set to respond to his replication value most of them are set to his survival value
Pre selection
A man surrounded by women is considerably more attractive
4 M3 mistakes
- Don’t start at seduction 2. Don’t start at comfort 3. Attraction and comfort 4. Attraction, comfort then seduction
The nice guy
Is no less a bother than the seducer
Hi I’m ____ what’s your name
Leads to constant of protection shield
Women are approached thousands of times
By nice guys the fact that you want something is implied, sexual attraction is assumed
Short term defenses
Are not long term personality flaws
Use 3-5 iois as indicator to escalate to comfort stage
Asks your name Touches you When you hold her hand she holds back Laughs at your jokes
Nonsexual intimate kissing
Is comfort building under 30 seconds
If things escalate before seduction
Deescelate. Is this foreplay?
Show improvement in S and R value
To escape the friend zone
3 types of location change
Move, bounce, time Bridge
Example of good game
Indirect opener, demonstration of higher value, raises value with stories and other skill sets showing higher value, use take away to create a chase
Method practitioners
Are attractors not seducers
Enjoy the value of those in front of you
Don’t look around seriously telegraphing that you’re looking for something better while simultaneously telegraphing negative social proof
Direct eye contact
Tends to be an ioi and set open invitation
Reach point of acception
Hook point generally indicated by iois
Unconscious replication agenda
The reason people actually go out
Scope out a location before
Making it a practice place
Proximity ioi
5 to 8 feet away standing away
Open set in three seconds
Reactively
Work the room to start
Don’t be picky
Opener
No hitting on, engage the group first even disengage target
Discover groups relationship dynamic
Before any presentation of ioi
Be comfortable and friendly
Enthusiasm is contagious. Smile more. Open set, smile less
Iods
Indicators of disinterest
Do not be affected by
A woman’s shielding behavior. Never get angry
Expressiveness
Animated facial expression, vocal tonality go over not under
Game with a high energy level
Come in with slightly higher energy level than set
False time constraints
If I didn’t have to go right now which i do….. I can only stay here for a sec but….
Body rocking
Using physical movement to illustrate that you are about to leave
If you are not moving for any calculated reason
Keep movement to a minimum avoid fidgeting
Remain rooted during approach if not working moving set
Don’t lean into her
Working a moving set
Walk along same trajectory slightly in front Turn head back run opener then speak with head forward
She should always feel like you’re about to leave
In A1
Seated sets
Don’t stand during seated sets implies lower value OpenUse false time constraint mid opener Sit mid stack Get back up during stack Thenc
Calibration
Imitate sets body language when they lean in
Speak clearly
And with instances of confident pausing
Step one choose target
Ignore/neg
Iois
Reinstated Conversation Giggles KinoTosses hair Attempts to build rapport Smiles at youProximity Interrupts nearby conversation or laughs at what you say Initiates dialog
Passive iois
Friends go but she stays Hangs with you for an extended periodFollows you Doesn’t move away when too close
Fake iois
Using iois for manipulate instances.
Iods
Indicator disinterest Avoidance Not contributing to dialogImpatienceWalks or looks away Leans away “Uh huh”
Tao of Steve
Be desireless, be excellent
Ioi
Congruence of negs being lightly returned
Blowing your nose subtly
Shows your lack of interest Too bad I’m gay I’ve eaten girls like you for breakfast Where’s your off buttonNo touchy
Get as close to the breaking point
Without crossing the line
If you cross the line
I’m monumentally sorry I didn’t mean to step over your boundaries I’m a bit of an asshole and I’m sorry
Negs: a telegraphed social value judgement
I don’t think we should get to know each other Too bad I’m gay No touchy Where’s your off button? The better looking the woman the more negs should be rendered
You’re too much of a nice girl to me
You don’t get out much do you? Helllooooo I’m talkingIs she always like that :pPlayfully
Neg=
IOD
When she’s right at the breaking point
Start appreciating nonaesthethic traits
Shotgun negs
Group negs that illustrate you don’t consider her a sexual interest
Don’t seem like you’re looking for a reaction with negs
Don’t actively attempt to show s and r value in an obvious way
DHVs
Social proof from gaming the room Telling fun interesting stories State characteristics in subtext
Dhvs
PreselectionLeader of men Supporter and protector of loved onesBeing nonneedy Having a strong frame Interesting knowledgeEmotional stimulation Socially in demand Connection
Group theory
Approach group become highest valued man
If you switch up threads on a pause
You show you care about the conversation and telegraph interest
You must be able to contribute 90% of the conversation at the beginning
You need to lead the conversation
Be talkative af
3-5 simultaneous threads
Cut threads
If it doesn’t serve you change the thread up
Introduce me to your friends that’s the polite thing to do
Solid shotgun transition neg
He who opens the set lead the set
As wing your objective is to help the wing hit the target
Don’t steal the wings target
Always agree with your wing
The shorter the set
The earlier you can use the story in set
Prop lock in
Give target things attaining compliance/lock in
Compliance tests
Utilized to track attraction have a woman have her hand out then spin her around
Create absurd enjoyable scenarios
Pepper into dialog
False disqualifiers
Use False disqualifiers to disarm Shows a lack of neediness It would never work out between isYou’re fired You’re a nurse I can’t even talk to you I’m not even boyfriend material We would never get along
Single set
Approach directly no waiting smile prior to approach. If eye contact is made for a single approach on contact
Single frame
Approach with curiosity I wanted to see if there was more that meets the eye
