mm_20220510144738 Flashcards

1
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Deep breath smile head over shoulder then probably an open ended question

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Pretend to leave but during ask follow up

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2
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Time constraint

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Use liberally but be steady with one foot out the door

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3
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Nature will expel your genes

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If you don’t learn how to seduce women

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4
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The Mystery Method

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The Science of Social Dynamics

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5
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Three portions and their order

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Attraction, comfort, seduction

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6
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Girls of beauty are seldom ever

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Alone

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7
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You should be able to seduce any woman in 7 hours

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7 hour rule

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8
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In order to attract a beautiful woman

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You must disqualify yourself as a potential suitor

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9
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Geeks are individuals

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Who have issues applying their intelligence to social dynamics

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10
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It’s not about looks

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It’s about conveying you are the tribal leader

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The more Snr value you can convey

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The more a woman sees positive probabilities of survival and reproductio.

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12
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Align with other human beings who have S&R value

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Survival and reproduction

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13
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Ultimate purpose is to survive

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Penultimate purpose is to reproduce

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14
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How many days the average American live?

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Tens of thousands of days 28,251 Days 36500 if you make it to 100

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15
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Venusian Arts

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Art of picking up a woman you had not known previously and establishing a sexual relationship with her

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Dynamic social Homeostasis

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All animals are conflicted between protecting themselves from others and aligning themselves with others. The center is dynamic social homeostasis

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17
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Emotions are

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SocioHomeoStatis Indicators

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18
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You are a biological machine

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But an out of date model without appropriate understanding

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19
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You exist in the most population dense instance

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Of this timeline. This spike is completely unprecedented and exponentially changing environment

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20
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Culture

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Enables humans to circumvent physical limitation

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21
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Nature hasn’t recalibrated

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The behavioral or emotional circuitry to survive in this dynamic

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22
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People are still

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Cavemen

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23
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Approach anxiety

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Derives from prior fear of survival and social isolation

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24
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Human beings are motivated by

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Unsatisfied needs Lower needs but be satisfied prior to higher LoveSafety Health Esteem

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25
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Health, Wealth, Love

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Big three of happiness

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26
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Women are persuaded my emotions

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Not logic

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27
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Make your engagement emotional

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Don’t attempt to sway logically

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28
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Love or hate

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No you don’t you’re attracted to me

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29
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People are constantly asking questions

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To dictate your value

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30
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Discretion is

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A virtue

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31
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Don’t brag

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Women don’t want there to be social consequences for sleep with you

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32
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Anti slut defense

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Women are always thinking about their reputation

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33
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Plausible deniability

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Give a woman plausible deniability regarding a hookup

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34
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Give women an excuse to stop by your place

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One thing led to another….

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35
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Act with Moxy

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Inventive courage always be leading the interaction

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36
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Women expect

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You to lead the conversation in interesting directions

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37
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Act with Moxy

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Moxy means inventive courageLead the interaction Women seldom take responsibility for what’s going on

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38
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Lead

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Make things happen, foster each shared moment. You will be held responsible for the fun in the moment

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39
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Persistence

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Don’t give up too easily assume token resistance,

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40
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If you can’t take her crap

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How can you protect her from other people’s crap?

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41
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A woman’s number one priority is safety and security

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Women test for congruence for this reason

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42
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A woman doesn’t respect

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A man with no boundaries she can walk all over

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43
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The more a woman is invested in you

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The higher probability of sex and involvement Emotional Social Monetary

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44
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What would a high value man do?

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What is a high value man?

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45
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Be fun and playful

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Be challenging and unpredictable

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46
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Your objective isn’t to have sex with her

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Give her the opportunity to fall in love with you

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47
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Women are neither good nor empathetic

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Will move onto someone whose got something better going on when they are able

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48
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When a woman says “I have a boyfriend”

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You’ve telegraphed attraction too quickly

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49
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Emotions

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Circuits in the brain that judge value and create motivation

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50
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People act on their emotions

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Then backwards rationalize

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51
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What a woman likes or says she likes

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Doesn’t correlate with what resonates with her emotionally

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52
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A woman’s reputation

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She is more likely to indulge in sexual activity if her reputation isn’t at stake

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53
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A woman will seek out fun and stimulation

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And will actively avoid discomfort

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54
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A man of value

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Pursues ones dreams

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55
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Keep a woman between revalidation and rejection

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Make her chase

56
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M3 Model

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Attract, Comfort, Seduction

57
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Game happens in the field

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Focus on building skills not getting a partner

58
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Newbie mission

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4 nights a week 4 hours each night. Average of 3 approaches per hour for a year

59
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Practice makes

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Calibration

60
Q

Habits become

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Internalized

61
Q

Women are more socially savvy because they have more practice

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Men have to make an active effort to be in the field. Women are constantly in the game

62
Q

Think of it as a game

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If you care it will negatively influence your approach

63
Q

The man who plays this like a game

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Is the most likely to win

64
Q

Sexual relationship structure

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Courtship. Sex, break up

65
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Replication value is an attraction factor

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Only a minority of a woman’s switches are set to respond to his replication value most of them are set to his survival value

66
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Pre selection

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A man surrounded by women is considerably more attractive

67
Q

4 M3 mistakes

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  1. Don’t start at seduction 2. Don’t start at comfort 3. Attraction and comfort 4. Attraction, comfort then seduction
68
Q

The nice guy

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Is no less a bother than the seducer

69
Q

Hi I’m ____ what’s your name

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Leads to constant of protection shield

70
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Women are approached thousands of times

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By nice guys the fact that you want something is implied, sexual attraction is assumed

71
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Short term defenses

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Are not long term personality flaws

72
Q

Use 3-5 iois as indicator to escalate to comfort stage

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Asks your name Touches you When you hold her hand she holds back Laughs at your jokes

73
Q

Nonsexual intimate kissing

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Is comfort building under 30 seconds

74
Q

If things escalate before seduction

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Deescelate. Is this foreplay?

75
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Show improvement in S and R value

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To escape the friend zone

76
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3 types of location change

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Move, bounce, time Bridge

77
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Example of good game

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Indirect opener, demonstration of higher value, raises value with stories and other skill sets showing higher value, use take away to create a chase

78
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Method practitioners

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Are attractors not seducers

79
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Enjoy the value of those in front of you

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Don’t look around seriously telegraphing that you’re looking for something better while simultaneously telegraphing negative social proof

80
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Direct eye contact

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Tends to be an ioi and set open invitation

81
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Reach point of acception

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Hook point generally indicated by iois

82
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Unconscious replication agenda

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The reason people actually go out

83
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Scope out a location before

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Making it a practice place

84
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Proximity ioi

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5 to 8 feet away standing away

85
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Open set in three seconds

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Reactively

86
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Work the room to start

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Don’t be picky

87
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Opener

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No hitting on, engage the group first even disengage target

88
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Discover groups relationship dynamic

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Before any presentation of ioi

89
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Be comfortable and friendly

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Enthusiasm is contagious. Smile more. Open set, smile less

90
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Iods

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Indicators of disinterest

91
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Do not be affected by

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A woman’s shielding behavior. Never get angry

92
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Expressiveness

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Animated facial expression, vocal tonality go over not under

93
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Game with a high energy level

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Come in with slightly higher energy level than set

94
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False time constraints

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If I didn’t have to go right now which i do….. I can only stay here for a sec but….

95
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Body rocking

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Using physical movement to illustrate that you are about to leave

96
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If you are not moving for any calculated reason

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Keep movement to a minimum avoid fidgeting

97
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Remain rooted during approach if not working moving set

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Don’t lean into her

98
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Working a moving set

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Walk along same trajectory slightly in front Turn head back run opener then speak with head forward

99
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She should always feel like you’re about to leave

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In A1

100
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Seated sets

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Don’t stand during seated sets implies lower value OpenUse false time constraint mid opener Sit mid stack Get back up during stack Thenc

101
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Calibration

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Imitate sets body language when they lean in

102
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Speak clearly

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And with instances of confident pausing

103
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Step one choose target

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Ignore/neg

104
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Iois

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Reinstated Conversation Giggles KinoTosses hair Attempts to build rapport Smiles at youProximity Interrupts nearby conversation or laughs at what you say Initiates dialog

105
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Passive iois

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Friends go but she stays Hangs with you for an extended periodFollows you Doesn’t move away when too close

106
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Fake iois

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Using iois for manipulate instances.

107
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Iods

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Indicator disinterest Avoidance Not contributing to dialogImpatienceWalks or looks away Leans away “Uh huh”

108
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Tao of Steve

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Be desireless, be excellent

109
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Ioi

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Congruence of negs being lightly returned

110
Q

Blowing your nose subtly

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Shows your lack of interest Too bad I’m gay I’ve eaten girls like you for breakfast Where’s your off buttonNo touchy

111
Q

Get as close to the breaking point

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Without crossing the line

112
Q

If you cross the line

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I’m monumentally sorry I didn’t mean to step over your boundaries I’m a bit of an asshole and I’m sorry

113
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Negs: a telegraphed social value judgement

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I don’t think we should get to know each other Too bad I’m gay No touchy Where’s your off button? The better looking the woman the more negs should be rendered

114
Q

You’re too much of a nice girl to me

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You don’t get out much do you? Helllooooo I’m talkingIs she always like that :pPlayfully

115
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Neg=

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IOD

116
Q

When she’s right at the breaking point

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Start appreciating nonaesthethic traits

117
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Shotgun negs

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Group negs that illustrate you don’t consider her a sexual interest

118
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Don’t seem like you’re looking for a reaction with negs

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Don’t actively attempt to show s and r value in an obvious way

119
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DHVs

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Social proof from gaming the room Telling fun interesting stories State characteristics in subtext

120
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Dhvs

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PreselectionLeader of men Supporter and protector of loved onesBeing nonneedy Having a strong frame Interesting knowledgeEmotional stimulation Socially in demand Connection

121
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Group theory

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Approach group become highest valued man

122
Q

If you switch up threads on a pause

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You show you care about the conversation and telegraph interest

123
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You must be able to contribute 90% of the conversation at the beginning

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You need to lead the conversation

124
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Be talkative af

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3-5 simultaneous threads

125
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Cut threads

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If it doesn’t serve you change the thread up

126
Q

Introduce me to your friends that’s the polite thing to do

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Solid shotgun transition neg

127
Q

He who opens the set lead the set

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As wing your objective is to help the wing hit the target

128
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Don’t steal the wings target

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Always agree with your wing

129
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The shorter the set

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The earlier you can use the story in set

130
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Prop lock in

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Give target things attaining compliance/lock in

131
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Compliance tests

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Utilized to track attraction have a woman have her hand out then spin her around

132
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Create absurd enjoyable scenarios

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Pepper into dialog

133
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False disqualifiers

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Use False disqualifiers to disarm Shows a lack of neediness It would never work out between isYou’re fired You’re a nurse I can’t even talk to you I’m not even boyfriend material We would never get along

134
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Single set

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Approach directly no waiting smile prior to approach. If eye contact is made for a single approach on contact

135
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Single frame

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Approach with curiosity I wanted to see if there was more that meets the eye