Mindfulness Flashcards
What is Active Listening?
- Comprehending
- Retaining
- Responding
What is the main problem with modern communication?
We listen to respond, not to understand.
What is often the root of unworthiness?
Childhood experiences.
What is one way of combating unworthiness due to childhood experiences?
Be kind to our self-child with visualizations.
What do we spend up to 50% of our time doing?
Unfocused autopilot: brooding about the day or thinking about the future.
What does brooding about the day or thinking about the future tend to lead to?
Negative self-talk.
What does mind-wandering fuel?
Stress and worry.
How can we stay grounded and focused?
Focus on the breath.
How can we develop positive pathways in the brain?
Practice gratitude.
What is Self-Awareness?
Understanding our strengths and weaknesses, our thoughts and beliefs.
What is one way to combat negative self-talk?
Rather than asking why, which leads to circular thinking, ask what. Not “why did that meeting go poorly” but “what could I have done differently?”
What is Cognitive Bias?
A systemic error in thinking that affects the decisions and judgments that we make.
What is Confirmation Bias?
The tendency to search for, interpret, focus on and remember information in a way that confirms one’s preconceptions.
What should we do when receiving negative feedback?
Pause and think or ask, what can I do to make our relationship better? Focus on the underlying feelings, not necessarily what the other person is saying.
What is Negative Self-Talk?
Any inner dialogue you have with yourself that may be limiting your ability to believe in yourself and your own abilities, and reach your potential. It is any thought that diminishes you and your ability to make positive changes in your life or your confidence in your ability to do so
What is Appraisal Theory?
Emotions are extracted from our evaluations of events that cause specific reactions in different people.
What is Defense Phrase?
A phrase that can be used to combat negative self-talk. For example, thanks, I’ll take that into consideration.
What do mindfulness exercises do?
Help focus by training our mind to recognize when it’s caught up in daydreaming and to gently bring it back.
What is Stress Response?
Fight, flight or freeze. Typically involves a release of adrenaline and cortisol.
What is Mindful Breathing?
Focusing on the breath to ground us in the present.
What does naming emotions do?
Naming emotions lessens their intensity and gives a little distance and perspective.
What is Noting?
Noting helps step out of the loop of thoughts and feelings that feed stress. Watching thoughts as they flow by and not trying to stop them. Simply label thoughts as thinking and gently return to your breath in order to bring yourself back to the present.
What does tuning into the body do?
Tuning into the physical sensations allows us to better understand our thoughts and emotions as well as allow us to put more distance between us and them.
What is Limiting Beliefs?
Beliefs which constrain us in some way.
What is Behavior Chain?
Trigger -> Thought -> Action -> Consequence
How can we increase self-efficacy and motivation?
Set your own learning and development goals.
What is my personal WHY?
I want to become more motivated, attentive and mindful. This will allow me to live my best life proactively. I will have greater contentment and fulfillment as a result.
What is SMART?
Specific, measurable, attainable, realistic, time-based.
What is Sympathetic Nervous System (SNS)?
The sympathetic nervous system is responsible for priming the body for action, particularly in situations threatening survival. The sympathetic nervous system’s primary process is to stimulate the body’s fight-flight-or-freeze response.
What is Parasympathetic Nervous System (PNS)?
Opposite of the Sympathetic Nervous System, it downregulates the responses of the SNS. The PNS is responsible for the stimulation of “rest-and-digest” or “feed-and-breed” activities that occur when the body is at rest.
What is Arousal System?
The SNS and PNS make up the Arousal System.