Midterm Part II Flashcards

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Types of Goals

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TRIP
T - Topic - What do we want?
R - Relational - Who are we to each other?
I - Identity - Who am I in this interaction?
P - Process - What communication process will be used?

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Goals change over time

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Prospective Goals - Before conflict
Transactive Goals - During conflict
Retrospective Goals - After conflict

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William Bennoit Image Restoration - 4 Strategies

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1 - Denial
2 - Evading Responsibility
3 - Reducing Offensiveness
4 - Accountability

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William Bennoit Image Restoration - 2 Denial Strategies

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1 - Simple denial
2 - Shift the blame

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William Bennoit Image Restoration - 4 Evading Responsibility Strategies

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1 - Provocation - scapegoating, reaction to someone else
2 - Defeasibility - Didn’t know/have enough info
3 - Accident - not my fault
4 - Good intention - thought it would help

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William Bennoit Image Restoration - 6 Reducing Offensiveness Strategies

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1 - Bolstering - Highlight good to decrease bad
2 - Minimization - It wasn’t that bad
3 - Differentiation - not as bad as another act
4 - Transcendence - Place act in different context
5 - Attack the accuser - Attack accusers credibility
6 - Compensation - pay for them to go away

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William Bennoit Image Restoration - 2 Accountability Strategies

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1 - Corrective Actions - Restore to the original state
2 - Mortification - Admit guilt, ask for forgiveness, repair damage

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Name the 4 Power Currencies

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RICE
R - Resource - Ability to control resources. Often results from obtaining a specific position.
I - Interpersonal Linkages - Ability to network or bridge what you have to other people and things.
C - Communication Skills - Charisma, persuasive speech, bones through love, caring, nurturing, empathic listening.
E - Expertise - Special skills or knowledge in particular area.

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9
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Types of Power

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1 - Designated (title/role)
2 - Distributive (one or the other have the power/either or)
3 - Integrative (working together) power

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10
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Relational Theory of Power

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Power you have over someone = the dependence they have on you

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Techniques to balance power

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High Power
- Restraint
- Empowerment of low-power people
Low Power
- Focus on interdependence
- Calm Persistence
- Stay actively engaged

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12
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Rahim’s 5 main conflict styles

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1 - Competing - high self, low others
2 - Collaborating - high self, high others
3 - Compromising - middle self and others
4 - Avoiding - low self and others
5 - Accommodating - low self, high others

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13
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Principle of Error

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Know what you should use and mess up, don’t use it.

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14
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Rhetorical Sensitivity

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Ability to use the right conflict style.

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Threats, Warnings, Recommendations, Promises

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Threat - negative sanction, source controls
Warning - negative sanction, source does NOT control
Promise - Positive sanction, source controls
Recommendation - Positive, source does NOT control

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Verbal Aggression/Verbal Abuse/Bullying

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not part of the conflict styles. Inappropriate behavior

17
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Systems Analysis of Conflict (3 parts)

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1 - Wholeness - the whole system
2 - Organization - the pieces, Coalitions and Triangles
3 - Patterning - interaction rules, microevents

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Microevents

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Observable, recurring patterns of behavior that can be analyzed for underlying conflict structure.

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Coalitions

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Forms when some are closer to each other than they are to others. A private bond emerges. For example, in a family, you may be the “outsider,” the last to hear of important family events. At work, there may be two groups, those who like the supervisor and those who do not.

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Triangles

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I go to someone else to help with another person. Arrows are friends, circles is an isolate.

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Interaction Rules

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The underlying communication structure of the interaction. Underlying rules are like the structure of a language. Usually, no one person dictates the rules. Instead, the rules guide behavior in more subtle ways.

22
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Know what conflict style to use and actually use it.

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Rhetorical sensitivity

23
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Know what conflict style to use and DONT

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Principle of Error

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My power over you=your dependence on me

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Relational Theory of Power