Midterm Exam Flashcards

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Who are apart of our family relationship system

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1) Husband/wife
2) Parents/children
3) Siblings

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Who are apart of our work relationship system

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1) co-workers
2) employer/employee

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Who are apart of our authority relationship system

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1) Government
2) Parents
3) Employer

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Who are apart of our others relationship system

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our neighbor

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Who is at the center of our relationship system

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God

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Who is also at the center of our relationship system and makes all the decisions internally

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Self

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What is the first foundational principle of relationships

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our relationship to others will to a large degree determine our success or failure in God’s service

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What is the second foundational principle of relationships

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our relationship with God must be right before our relationships with other will be right

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What is the key reference for our relationship with God must be right before our relationships with other will be right

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Proverbs 16:7

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What is the third foundational principle of relationships

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our relationships with others must be right before our relationship with God will be right

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What is the key reference for our relationships with others must be right before our relationship with God will be right

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1 John 4:20-21

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What is God’s Will

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A daily walk with God

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God’s Will = _____ = God’s ______ = God’s Providence

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God’s Call and Enabling

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What are the four ingredients of God’s Will

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1) Purity
2) Brotherly love
3) Christian Work Ethic
4) A Biblical world view

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What is God’s Call

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A place of service or a task to accomplish

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What is the key reference for God’s Call

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Ephesians 2:10

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What are the benefits of knowing God’s Call

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1) Gives confidence
2) Determines your course (gives purpose)
3) Brings contentment

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What are the cautions in recognizing God’s Call

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1) God’s timing is rarely our timing
2) The enemy of a best decision is a good decision
3) Presuming upon God
4) Success is not necessarily an indication of God’s blessing

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What way do we discern God’s Will

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By getting guidance

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What are the 5 things we get guidance from

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1) God’s Word
2) Prayer
3) The Holy Spirit
4) Counsel
5) Circumstances

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What are the 5 requirements for God’s Will

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1) Surrender
2) Trust
3) Obedience
4) Desire
5) Focus

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What is personality

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Seeing ourselves through God’s eyes

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What are the 3 models of personality

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1) The deterministic model
2) The development model
3) The Biblical model

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What is the deterministic model

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1) You are a product of you environment
2) You are what other have made you to be
3) You are a prisoner in your own body
4) You are not responsible for your behavior

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What is the development model
1) You are what you make yourself 2) You are free to be whatever you want to be 3) You can control your body 4) You alone are responsible for what you do
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What is the Biblical model
1) God is a God of design 2) He designed man differently from the rest of creation 3) He designed us different from each other 4) He designed us sovereignly
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What are God's 3 purposes for mankind
1) Rulership 2) Companionship 3) Fellowship
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What are the four elements of God's design
1) Natural abilities and talents 2) Desires/passions 3) Personality 4) Spiritual gifts
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What are the four types of personality based on the video
1) The Lion 2) The Beaver 3) The Otter 4) The Golden Retriever
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What are the advantages of the personality test
1) recognize the differences between people 2) understand different reactions based upon personality
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What are the disadvantages of the personality test
1) categorizing/stereotyping 2) excuse for wrong/sinful behavior
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Personality is an _____ element of God's design
inherent
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What is the key reference for responding improperly to others is sin and is a result of yielding to our flesh rather than to the Spirit of God
Romans 8:6
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What is a spiritual gifts
a God-given capacity to have a spiritual significant impact upon another person
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What is a spiritual gift not
1) it is not talents 2) it is not a place or position 3) it is not having fruit
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What are the characteristics of spiritual gifts
1) we all have at least one spiritual gift 2) gifts are given by God at salvation 3) Gifts are distributed by the sovereign choice of God 4) the purpose of the gifts is service
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What are the four passages of scripture that mention spiritual gifts
1) Romans 12 2) 1 Corinthians 12 3) I Peter 4 4) 1 Thessalonians 4
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What are the 2 categories of spiritual gifts
1) Sign 2) Serving
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What are sign gifts
gifts that were used in the early church to authenticate the messengers and the message of the still being revealed Word of God
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What are serving gifts
Gifts that were used in the early church but are also used today, they are permeant, Gifts given to the believer enabling them for service
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What are the serving gifts
1) giving 2) serving 3) teaching 4) exhortation 5) administration 6) mercy 7) faith 8) evangelism 9) pastor
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What is the ability and means to be very generous that processions and funds that the Lord has provided
Giving
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What is the ability to identify a need and an intense responsibility to meet that need
Serving
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What is the ability to explain Biblical truths in a clear and Concise manner that people learn God’s Word
Teaching
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What is the ability to encourage, comfort, and admonish people
Exhortation
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What is the ability to organize and direct activity within the body of Christ
Administration
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What is the ability of having unusual sense of compassion, and the ability to recognize the needs of others
Mercy
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What is the ability to believe God for the miraculous supply of needs
Faith
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What is the ability to proclaim the gospel message with exceptional clarity and accompanied by boldness and intense burden to see people saved
Evangelism
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What is the ability to Shepard, care for, and provide for God's people
Pastor
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What are the 6 steps to recognizing your gifts
1) Prayerfully ask God to help you recognize your gift 2) Study the available information from Scripture 3) Examine your past service for spiritual results 4) Get input from spiritual leaders/mature Christians 5) Ask yourself what you enjoy most about ministries in which you participate 6) Test your gifts
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What are the 3 types of relationships
1) authority 2) Peer 3) Subordinate
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What is an authority relationship
Is the right, power, and responsibility to give direction to another
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What are the 2 types of authority relationship
1) Ordained 2) Delegated
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What is ordained authority
authority structures specifically identified by God in His Word
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What are the kind of ordained authority
1) Government 2) Church 3) Home
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What are the 2 types of home ordained authority
1) Husband/wife relationship 2) Parent/child relationship
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What is Biblical leadership
Taking the initiative to meet the needs of other with a servant's heart
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What is submission
placing yourself under the watch care and leadership of another
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What is submission not
1) blind obedience 2) service 3) humbling acknowledging the superiority of another
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What is delegated relationship
Is authority that is over you by your choice
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What are the four types of friendships
1) friendship of convenience 2) friendship of mutual activity 3) 3rd party friendships 4) Milestone friendships
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What are the 5 ingredients of a successful friendship
1) reciprocal acceptance 2) reciprocal disclosure 3) reciprocal encouragement 4) reciprocal sacrifice 5) reciprocal commitment
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What is subordinate relationship
When you are in authority over somebody else
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What is sending communication
getting the message out the right way
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What is the principle of sending communication
the effectiveness of sending is measured by what is said, not what is heard
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What two elements of sending communication
verbal and non-verbal
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What is verbal
tone
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What is non-verbal
body language
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____ is words
10%
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_____ is tone of voice
35%
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_____ is body language
55%
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What are the two types of receiving communication
1) attending 2) listening
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What is attending
physical
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What are the 5 skills of attending
1) adopt a posture that indicates involvement 2) adopt a open posture 3) lean 4) eye contact 5) relax
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What is listening
mental
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What is the definition of listening
the ability to transmit a message whether it has been communicated verbally or non-verbally
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What are the 4 challenges of listening
1) distracted 2) filtered 3) rehearing 4) interrupting
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What are the 3 things of the art of the appeal
1) the potential of the appeal 2) the prerequisites of the appeal 3) the procedure of the appeal
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What are the reasons you would potentially appeal
1) when you are asked to do wrong 2) when authority is doing or is about to do wrong 3) when you are in disagreement with authority
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What are the prerequisites of the appeal
1) right standing 2) right timing 3) right attitude 4) right wording
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What is the procedure of the appeal
1) plan ahead 2) prepare your heart 3) present your request 4) proceed based on your answer
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What are the 5 levels of intimate communication
1) Cliché 2) facts 3) opinion 4) feelings 5) needs
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Both feelings and needs are _____ communication/_____ relationship
intimate and love
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What is the goal of intimate communication
to improve on communication and bring it to a point that will enable relationship to grow to deeper levels
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What is love according to 1 Corinthians 13
choosing to discover and understand the needs of another and expend whatever resources necessary to meet those needs
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What 9 things does love doing according to 1 Corinthians 13:4-7
1) love endures 2) love is kind 3) love doesn't envy 4) love does not tear others down to build oneself up 5) love is not prideful 6) love does not behave improperly 7) love is not selfish, it gives rather than takes 8) love does not keep track of offenses 9) love has no room for lying or deceit
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What is intimacy
getting to know somebody better than anybody else
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What are the 6 methods of communication in intimacy
1) drive thru talking 2) planned times of praise 3) isolation principle 4) emotional word pictures 5) evaluate your mate 6) the five love languages
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What are the five love languages
1) words of encouragement 2) quality time 3) giving gifts 4) service/acts of service 5) physical touch
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What is the principle of the 5 love languages
the love and appreciation for one another should be freely expresesed