Midterm Exam Flashcards

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Who are apart of our family relationship system

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1) Husband/wife
2) Parents/children
3) Siblings

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Who are apart of our work relationship system

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1) co-workers
2) employer/employee

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Who are apart of our authority relationship system

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1) Government
2) Parents
3) Employer

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Who are apart of our others relationship system

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our neighbor

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Who is at the center of our relationship system

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God

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Who is also at the center of our relationship system and makes all the decisions internally

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Self

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What is the first foundational principle of relationships

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our relationship to others will to a large degree determine our success or failure in God’s service

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What is the second foundational principle of relationships

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our relationship with God must be right before our relationships with other will be right

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What is the key reference for our relationship with God must be right before our relationships with other will be right

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Proverbs 16:7

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What is the third foundational principle of relationships

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our relationships with others must be right before our relationship with God will be right

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What is the key reference for our relationships with others must be right before our relationship with God will be right

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1 John 4:20-21

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What is God’s Will

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A daily walk with God

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God’s Will = _____ = God’s ______ = God’s Providence

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God’s Call and Enabling

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What are the four ingredients of God’s Will

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1) Purity
2) Brotherly love
3) Christian Work Ethic
4) A Biblical world view

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What is God’s Call

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A place of service or a task to accomplish

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What is the key reference for God’s Call

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Ephesians 2:10

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What are the benefits of knowing God’s Call

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1) Gives confidence
2) Determines your course (gives purpose)
3) Brings contentment

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What are the cautions in recognizing God’s Call

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1) God’s timing is rarely our timing
2) The enemy of a best decision is a good decision
3) Presuming upon God
4) Success is not necessarily an indication of God’s blessing

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What way do we discern God’s Will

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By getting guidance

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What are the 5 things we get guidance from

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1) God’s Word
2) Prayer
3) The Holy Spirit
4) Counsel
5) Circumstances

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What are the 5 requirements for God’s Will

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1) Surrender
2) Trust
3) Obedience
4) Desire
5) Focus

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What is personality

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Seeing ourselves through God’s eyes

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What are the 3 models of personality

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1) The deterministic model
2) The development model
3) The Biblical model

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What is the deterministic model

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1) You are a product of you environment
2) You are what other have made you to be
3) You are a prisoner in your own body
4) You are not responsible for your behavior

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What is the development model

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1) You are what you make yourself
2) You are free to be whatever you want to be
3) You can control your body
4) You alone are responsible for what you do

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What is the Biblical model

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1) God is a God of design
2) He designed man differently from the rest of creation
3) He designed us different from each other
4) He designed us sovereignly

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What are God’s 3 purposes for mankind

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1) Rulership
2) Companionship
3) Fellowship

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What are the four elements of God’s design

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1) Natural abilities and talents
2) Desires/passions
3) Personality
4) Spiritual gifts

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What are the four types of personality based on the video

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1) The Lion
2) The Beaver
3) The Otter
4) The Golden Retriever

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What are the advantages of the personality test

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1) recognize the differences between people
2) understand different reactions based upon personality

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What are the disadvantages of the personality test

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1) categorizing/stereotyping
2) excuse for wrong/sinful behavior

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Personality is an _____ element of God’s design

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inherent

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33
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What is the key reference for responding improperly to others is sin and is a result of yielding to our flesh rather than to the Spirit of God

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Romans 8:6

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What is a spiritual gifts

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a God-given capacity to have a spiritual significant impact upon another person

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What is a spiritual gift not

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1) it is not talents
2) it is not a place or position
3) it is not having fruit

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What are the characteristics of spiritual gifts

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1) we all have at least one spiritual gift
2) gifts are given by God at salvation
3) Gifts are distributed by the sovereign choice of God
4) the purpose of the gifts is service

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37
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What are the four passages of scripture that mention spiritual gifts

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1) Romans 12
2) 1 Corinthians 12
3) I Peter 4
4) 1 Thessalonians 4

38
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What are the 2 categories of spiritual gifts

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1) Sign
2) Serving

39
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What are sign gifts

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gifts that were used in the early church to authenticate the messengers and the message of the still being revealed Word of God

40
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What are serving gifts

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Gifts that were used in the early church but are also used today, they are permeant, Gifts given to the believer enabling them for service

41
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What are the serving gifts

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1) giving
2) serving
3) teaching
4) exhortation
5) administration
6) mercy
7) faith
8) evangelism
9) pastor

42
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What is the ability and means to be very generous that processions and funds that the Lord has provided

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Giving

43
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What is the ability to identify a need and an intense responsibility to meet that need

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Serving

44
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What is the ability to explain Biblical truths in a clear and Concise manner that people learn God’s Word

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Teaching

45
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What is the ability to encourage, comfort, and admonish people

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Exhortation

46
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What is the ability to organize and direct activity within the body of Christ

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Administration

47
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What is the ability of having unusual sense of compassion, and the ability to recognize the needs of others

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Mercy

48
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What is the ability to believe God for the miraculous supply of needs

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Faith

49
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What is the ability to proclaim the gospel message with exceptional clarity and accompanied by boldness and intense burden to see people saved

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Evangelism

50
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What is the ability to Shepard, care for, and provide for God’s people

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Pastor

51
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What are the 6 steps to recognizing your gifts

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1) Prayerfully ask God to help you recognize your gift
2) Study the available information from Scripture
3) Examine your past service for spiritual results
4) Get input from spiritual leaders/mature Christians
5) Ask yourself what you enjoy most about ministries in which you participate
6) Test your gifts

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What are the 3 types of relationships

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1) authority
2) Peer
3) Subordinate

53
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What is an authority relationship

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Is the right, power, and responsibility to give direction to another

54
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What are the 2 types of authority relationship

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1) Ordained
2) Delegated

55
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What is ordained authority

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authority structures specifically identified by God in His Word

56
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What are the kind of ordained authority

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1) Government
2) Church
3) Home

57
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What are the 2 types of home ordained authority

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1) Husband/wife relationship
2) Parent/child relationship

58
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What is Biblical leadership

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Taking the initiative to meet the needs of other with a servant’s heart

59
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What is submission

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placing yourself under the watch care and leadership of another

60
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What is submission not

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1) blind obedience
2) service
3) humbling acknowledging the superiority of another

61
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What is delegated relationship

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Is authority that is over you by your choice

62
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What are the four types of friendships

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1) friendship of convenience
2) friendship of mutual activity
3) 3rd party friendships
4) Milestone friendships

63
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What are the 5 ingredients of a successful friendship

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1) reciprocal acceptance
2) reciprocal disclosure
3) reciprocal encouragement
4) reciprocal sacrifice
5) reciprocal commitment

64
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What is subordinate relationship

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When you are in authority over somebody else

65
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What is sending communication

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getting the message out the right way

66
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What is the principle of sending communication

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the effectiveness of sending is measured by what is said, not what is heard

67
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What two elements of sending communication

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verbal and non-verbal

68
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What is verbal

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tone

69
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What is non-verbal

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body language

70
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____ is words

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10%

71
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_____ is tone of voice

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35%

72
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_____ is body language

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55%

73
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What are the two types of receiving communication

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1) attending
2) listening

74
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What is attending

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physical

75
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What are the 5 skills of attending

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1) adopt a posture that indicates involvement
2) adopt a open posture
3) lean
4) eye contact
5) relax

76
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What is listening

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mental

77
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What is the definition of listening

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the ability to transmit a message whether it has been communicated verbally or non-verbally

78
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What are the 4 challenges of listening

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1) distracted
2) filtered
3) rehearing
4) interrupting

79
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What are the 3 things of the art of the appeal

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1) the potential of the appeal
2) the prerequisites of the appeal
3) the procedure of the appeal

80
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What are the reasons you would potentially appeal

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1) when you are asked to do wrong
2) when authority is doing or is about to do wrong
3) when you are in disagreement with authority

81
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What are the prerequisites of the appeal

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1) right standing
2) right timing
3) right attitude
4) right wording

82
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What is the procedure of the appeal

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1) plan ahead
2) prepare your heart
3) present your request
4) proceed based on your answer

83
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What are the 5 levels of intimate communication

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1) Cliché
2) facts
3) opinion
4) feelings
5) needs

84
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Both feelings and needs are _____ communication/_____ relationship

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intimate and love

85
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What is the goal of intimate communication

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to improve on communication and bring it to a point that will enable relationship to grow to deeper levels

86
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What is love according to 1 Corinthians 13

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choosing to discover and understand the needs of another and expend whatever resources necessary to meet those needs

87
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What 9 things does love doing according to 1 Corinthians 13:4-7

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1) love endures
2) love is kind
3) love doesn’t envy
4) love does not tear others down to build oneself up
5) love is not prideful
6) love does not behave improperly
7) love is not selfish, it gives rather than takes
8) love does not keep track of offenses
9) love has no room for lying or deceit

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What is intimacy

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getting to know somebody better than anybody else

89
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What are the 6 methods of communication in intimacy

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1) drive thru talking
2) planned times of praise
3) isolation principle
4) emotional word pictures
5) evaluate your mate
6) the five love languages

90
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What are the five love languages

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1) words of encouragement
2) quality time
3) giving gifts
4) service/acts of service
5) physical touch

91
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What is the principle of the 5 love languages

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the love and appreciation for one another should be freely expresesed