Midterm Flashcards
Define Interpersonal Communication
The process of creating social relationships between at lest two people by acting in concert with another.
What are the implications of Interpersonal communication
- Two or more people
- Relationships are created by communication
- Interdependence and coordinated interaction
Define relational comunicaiton
Focuses on messages exchanged in intimate, or potentially intimate, relationships
Define verbal IPC
Symbolic communication structured according to linguistic rules.
Define nonverbal IPC
Modes of communication that are not verbal
Examples of nonverbal communication
- Kinesics
- Vocalics
- Haptics
What are the functions of nonverbal communication
- Enhance or complment verbal communication
- Replace verbal communications
- Contradict verbal communication
Symbolic communication:
Interaction mediate by meaning
Conventional Verbal Communication is
Arbitrary but conventional connection symbol and referent
Define Analogic Verbal Communication
Connection symbol and referent not completely arbitrary but based on natural analogue
Analogic Verbal communication is
- Most powerful for communicating about a relationship
- Restricted can’t go beyond here and now
Spontaneous communication
Nonverbal, inherent, biologically programmed connection between sign and internal state
Pseudo-Spontaneous Communication
Intentional behavior that counterfeits spontaneous behavior
Relational messages include?
Communication that involves both content and relational levels
What are the three patterns of interaction
- Reciprocity
- Compensation
- Mixed Patterns
Explain the Reciprocity pattern of interaction
Exchange of messages with the same relational functions between two communicators
Explain the Compensation pattern of interaction
Exchange of message with opposite relation functions
Explain the mixed pattern of interaction
The parallel relationship: A shifting back and forth of the power between partners, depending on the situation.
Explain the Dynamic principle of relational communication
IPC messages and their relational implications are situated in time and change over time.
Explain the Linear principle of relational communication
Steady increase or decrease; or a progressive series of stages
explain the nonlinear principle of relational communication
Curvilinear (discontinuous increase or decrease), reversal, or cyclical patterns
Explain the Contextual principal of relational communication
Interpersonal communication takes place in contexts
Characteristics of role relationships
Functional, casual, usually temporary, people interchangeable, and not unique
Characteristics of Interpersonal relationships
Interdependence beyond task social-emotional connection, repeated interaction, and unique interaction patterns
Characteristics of close relationships
Emotional attachment, need fulfillment, and irreplaceability
What are the four common categories of types of relationships
- Voluntary-Personal relationships
- Voluntary-Social relationships
- Non-Voluntary - Personal Relationships
- Non-Voluntary - Social Relationships
List four examples of a Voluntary-Personal relationship
- Marriage
- Best Friends
- Cohabiting couple
- Adoptive/Foster family
List three examples of a Voluntary-Social relationship
- Acquaintances
- Casual Friends
- Relational Marketing
List three examples of a Non-Voluntary - Personal Relationship
- Biological Parent-child
- Siblings
- Grandparent-child
List three examples of a Non-Voluntary Social Relationship
- Distant Relatives
- Work Relationships
- Monopoly provider-client
Explain the biological basis of attachment theory
As we proceed up the evolutionary chain procreation becomes more social and requires more coordination and interdependence between members of a species.
Explain the social basis of attachment theory
We are social animals biologically programmed to form relationships.
What are the two types of children attachment styles
- Secure Attachment
2. Insecure Attachment
Define secure attachment
Attentive maternal responsiveness leads to a secure attachement
Define insecure attachment
Lack of, or inappropriate maternal responsiveness leads to insecure attachments.
What are the two types of Insecure attachment?
- Avoidant Attachment
2. Anxious-Ambivalent Attachment
Child Attachment styles: Define avoidant attachment
Over or under-stimulation by caregiver
Child Attachment styles: Define anxious-ambivalent attachment
Inconsistent behavior by caregiver
List the four adult attachment styles
- Secure
- Preoccupied
- Dismissive
- Fearful-avoidant
Explain the secure adult attachment style
- “I’m ok, you’re ok”
- Comfortable with intimacy
- Confident and self sufficient
- Positive expectations about relationships
Explain the preoccupied adult attachement style
- “I’m not ok; you’re ok”
- Craves excessive intimacy
- Lacks confidence
- Looks to relationships to fulfill dependency needs.
Explain the dismissive adult attachement style
- “I’m ok, you’re not ok”
- Unconformable with intimacy
- Compulsively self-reliant
- Views relationships as nonessential
Explain the fearful-avoidant adult attachement style
- “I’m not ok; you’re not ok”
- Fears intimacy
- Lacks confidence
- Would like closer relationships but fears rejection.
What are the two types of empathy?
- Emotional Empathy
2. Cognitive empathy
Define emotional empathy
Knowing what the other is feeling, (with a sympathetic or compatible emotional response)
Define cognitive empathy
Knowing what the other is thinking ex. meanings and intentions
What are the three parts of emotional empathy?
- Spontaneous communication
- Pre-attunements to spontaneous communication
- Emotional Education