Final Flashcards

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Define social support

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Verbal and nonverbal behavior produces with the intention of providing assistance to others that might need it

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Social Support and its origins of theory

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-Correlation between physical health/mental health and quantity and quality of social relationships

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3
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Explain stress buffering hypothesis

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Social support provides a buffer against the effects of stress

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What are the two parts of a communication support network?

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  1. Functions

2. Structure

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Explain function as a role of social networks

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The type of relationship of various parts of social networks

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Explain structure as a role of social networks

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Why does this social network exist in the first place

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What are the four types of social support?

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  1. Instrumental
  2. Informational
  3. Emotional
  4. Esteem
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Explain instrumental social support

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Physical assistance; assistance with a task

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9
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Explain informational support

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Providing information & expertise

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10
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Explain emotional support

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Understanding, care, and concern

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Explain esteem support

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Support a person’s sense of self-worth

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What is the Optimal matching Theory

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Social support is most effective if the appropriate type of support is matched to the type of stressor.

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What are the seven foundations of Intimacy

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  1. Personality & early experiences (Attachment)
  2. Situational & Developmental factors (e.g., proximity, age, timing)
  3. Cultural guidelines: Who can have a relationship with who? (e.g., interracial, interethnic, across class & SES)
  4. Emotional Arousal & labeling
    a. Biological basis for attachment & association
    b. Emotional education & socialization
  5. Self-fulfillment
  6. SElf-Surrender
  7. Commitment to joint identity
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What are the dimensions of Self-presentation & disclosure

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  • Breadth
  • Depth
  • Valence
  • Generality
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List some principles of self-disclosure

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  • Self-disclosure develops incrementally over time as the relationships gets closer
  • Self-Disclosure tends to be reciprocated, especially early in a relationship
  • Intimate self-disclosure implies an increased message of trust
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16
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What is privacy/boundary management?

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the establishment and negotiation of appropriate levels of intimacy.

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17
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What are the two broad types of Love according to Lee?

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  1. Primary Styles

2. Secondary styles

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What are the three kinds of primary love?

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  • Eros = physical love
  • Storge = companionate love
  • Ludus + playful love
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What are the three kinds of Secondary love

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  • Mania = possessive love
  • Agape = unselfish love
  • Pragma = practical love
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Sternberg’s Triangular Theory of Love include?

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Passion, Intimacy, and Commitment

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List Marston & Hect’s Love ways

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  • Collaborative love
  • Active love
  • Intuitive love
  • Committed love
  • Secure love
  • Expressive love
  • Traditional romantic love
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What are the general principles of relationship maintenance?

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  • Maintenance is a process
  • Everyday mundane communication is vital to the maintenance of personal relationships
  • Maintenance often involves the negotiation of “dialectic tensions.” It is often a matter of balancing competing needs.
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List some examples of maintenance strategies and behaviors

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  • Positivity
  • Openness
  • Assurances
  • Supportiveness
  • Sharing Joint Activities
  • Task sharing
  • Romance & affection
  • Social networking
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Social Exchange: What is CL?

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  • Comparison Level

- Average profit from past relationships

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Social Exchange: What is CLalt?

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  • Comparison Level

- Projected profit from next best alternative

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Social Exchange and Equity: If current relationship exceeds the CL the persons is?

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Satisfied

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Social Exchange and Equity: If the current relationship exceeds the CLalt then the relationship will be?

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Stable

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Explain social Exchange?

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People seek to maximize their rewards and minimize their costs.

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What are the three models of fairness of exchange?

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  • Distributive Justice
  • Equity
  • Communal Relationships
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30
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Explain distributive justice

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Each person’s rewards should be proportional to their costs or contribution to the relationship.

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Explain equity in relation to fairness of exchange

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Each person’s profit should be about equal in the relationship.

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Explain Communal relationships in relation to fairness of exchange

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Closer personal relationships are viewed as communal where social exchange doesn’t apply

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33
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Unless there are extenuating circumstances, relationships that violate both distributive justice and equity are?

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Exploitive

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34
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Define conflict

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The interaction of interdependent people who perceive incompatible goals and interference from each other in achieving those goals” (Hocker & Wilmot, 1985).

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35
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List some myths about conflict

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  • Conflict should be avoided at all costs
  • All conflict occurs because people misunderstand each other
  • All conflict can be resolved to the complete satisfaction of everyone involved
36
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Name some properties of interpersonal conflict

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  • Conflict increases as relationships become more interdependent.
  • Patterns of behavior in conflicts may tend to perpetuate themselves
  • Conflict interaction is influenced by and in turn affects relationships.
37
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what are the Five conflict styles

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  • Cooperative
  • Concern for other
  • Uncooperative
  • Passive
  • Assertive
38
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Marital/Couple conflict: list some characteristics of a happy/stable couple

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  • Talk about problems with a neutral affect
  • Maintain a 5/1 ratio positive to negative
  • Parallel relational control pattern
    a. Both symmetry and complementary
    b. No one always in the same control position–control is shared/contingent
39
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Marital/Couple conflict: list some characteristics of a Dissatisfied/distressed couple

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  • Exhibit more negative behaviors
  • Interpret behavior more negatively than intended
  • Reciprocate negative behaviors
  • Engage in cross-complaint sequences
40
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What are the four horsemen of the Apocalypse?

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  1. Criticism - going beyond a complaint about a specific action and criticizing the other person
  2. Contempt - intention to insult and psychologically abuse your partner
  3. Defensiveness
  4. Stonewalling - the silent treatment
41
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List some general conflict management principles

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  • Stick to the topic
  • Don’t bring other people into the conflict
  • Attack positions not people
  • Don’t say things you don’t mean
  • If necessary, postpone conflict until your emotions cool down, but do come back.
  • Avoid defensiveness and mind reading
  • Practice active listening
42
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Contingency model of conflict management

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What works in one relationship might not work in another. One should deal with conflict in a way that is appropriate for the relationship and situation

43
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Define domineeringness

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An individual’s attempts to exert power or influence over another

44
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Define power

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An individual’s ability to influence others or to do what he or she wants

45
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Define influence potential

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A person’s ability to resist influence by another

46
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Define control

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Relational result of interactive influence attempts and resistance or counter-moves

47
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What are the five bases of power

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  1. Coercion
  2. Expertise
  3. Reward
  4. Referent
  5. Legitimate
48
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Five bases of power: explain Coercion

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Force, hurt

49
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Five bases of power: explain expertise

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Knowledge, experience

50
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Five bases of power: explain reward

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Provide benefit or something pleasant

51
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Five bases of power: explain referent

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Identification, admiration

52
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Five bases of power: explain legitimate

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socially sanctioned by rule, law or policy of an institution

53
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Endorsement of power & control

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Power (control) is always conferred on someone by those who endorse the resources

54
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Power & control are always relational

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Influence potential is always vis-a-vis someone–it is never absolute and always relative to another’s power.

55
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Name the three types of relational control interaction

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  1. Reciprocal/symmetrical
  2. compensatory/complementary
  3. Parallel relationships
56
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Relational control interaction is…

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This assertion-response pattern (e.g., ↑A ↑B; →A →B; ↓A ↑B) defines the nature of the relationship at that point.

57
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Relational control interaction that is reciprocal produces..

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A symmetrical relationship

58
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Repeated compensatory patterns produces

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A complementary control relationship characterized by dominance of one party in the relationship

59
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Relational control interaction: Explain a parallel relationship

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Consists of both reciprocal and compensatory patterns, and flexible complementarity where people alternate control positions in complementary exchanges.

60
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Define deception

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Intentionally managing verbal and/or nonverbal messages so that the receiver will believe or understand something in a way that the sender knows to be false (Buller & Burgoon, 1994)

61
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What are the five types of deception

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  1. Lies
  2. Equivocation or evasion
  3. Concealment
  4. Exaggeration
  5. Minimization
62
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Define equivocation

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Indirect ambiguous or contradictory statement.

ex. Q: do i look fat? A: Most people put on weight during the holidays

63
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What are the three motives of deception

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  1. Partner-focused
  2. Self-focused
  3. Relationship-focused
64
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Explain partner-focused motives for deception

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  • To help the target
  • Avoid hurting partner
  • Avoid worrying partner
65
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Explain self-focused motives for deception

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  • Protect or enhance own self-image
  • Avoid embarrassment
  • Criticism or other’s anger
66
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Explain relationship-focused motives for deception

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  • Limit or avoid harm to the relationship

- Sometimes helps, sometimes hurts the relationship

67
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What does the research say about deception detection

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  • Untrained observers looking at and listening to strangers will be able to detect lies about half or little better than half the time
  • Those whose profession involves lie detection are often no better than the average person and sometimes worse (exception-Secrete service agents)
68
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List some behaviors indicative of deception

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  • Behavioral clusters are better indicators than any one behavior
  • Speech errors, higher pitch, more hesitation
  • Anxiety responses ex. blushing, shaking
  • Excessive responses
69
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What is truth bias?

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People generally assume that others are telling the truth os lies are unexpected and, therefore, often overlooked.

70
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People in satisfying relationships may be more or less susceptible to truth bias?

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More

71
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What are some consequences of deception

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  • Consequences can depend upon the motive, the importance, and form of deception
  • A lie can lead to more lies
  • Frequent or important self-serving deceptions can erode trust in a relationship
72
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What are the four pathways to relational endings

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  1. Conscious Choice
  2. Atrophy
  3. Separation
  4. Death
73
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Conscious choice in relation to relational endings

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-Most common 2/3 unilateral

74
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Relational endings: explain atrophy

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Wither away gradually

75
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List reasons why marital relationships end

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  • Communication breakdown
  • Loss shared goals and interests
  • Sexual incompatibility
  • Infidelity and jealousy
  • Boredom
76
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Reasons why dating relationships end

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  • Boredom
  • Different interests
  • Desire to be independent
  • Difference backgrounds
  • Conflicting ideas about sex
77
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List the five steps of Knapp’s Reversal Hypothesis

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  1. Differentiating
  2. Circumscribing
  3. Stagnating
  4. Avoiding
  5. Terminating
78
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What are the four disengagement strategies?

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  1. Unilateral and indirect
  2. Unilateral and direct
  3. Bilateral and indirect
  4. Bilateral and direct
79
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List some examples of unilateral and indirect disengagement strategies

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  • Avoidance
  • Withdraw support
  • Manipulation
  • Pseudo de-escalation
80
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List some examples of unilateral and direct disengagement strategies

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  • Direct dump
  • Dating others openly
  • Justification
  • Threats/bullying
81
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Give an example of a bilateral and indirect disengagement strategy

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Fading away

82
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List some examples of bilateral and direct disengagement strategies

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  • Blame game

- Negotiated farewell

83
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What are the four steps in Duck’s Model of Disengagement?

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  • Breakdown, a difficulty is felt or expressed
    1. The Intrapsychic Phase
    2. The Dyadic Phase
    3. The Social Phase
    4. The Grave-Dressing Phase
84
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Duck’s Model of Disengagement: Explain the intrapsychic phase

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Initial decision

85
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Duck’s Model of Disengagement: Explain the dyadic phase

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Negotiation stage

86
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Duck’s Model of Disengagement: Explain the social phase

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Communication with social network

87
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Duck’s Model of Disengagement: Explain the grave-dressing phase

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-Coming to terms with breakup.