MidTerm Flashcards

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1
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Commitment is dedicated to promote each other’s ________________ and _________________.

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welfare & happiness

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2
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What are the two types of times necessary for fantastic families?

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Quality/Quantity

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3
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This belief in the quality of a strong family provides strength and purpose.

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Spiritual Well-Being

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4
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_________________ is emotionally driven.

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affection

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5
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We (people) want to be ________________ for who we are and for what we do

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valued

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6
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What is one way in ending fragmentation within the commitment of families?

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Setting Boundaries

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7
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According to your notes, when a person commits to the long haul, they are hanging in there through difficult ________________.

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times

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8
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To have a fantastic family one needs to examine their marriage for DANGER SIGNS

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Danger Signs

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9
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When children can come and talk to their parents at any time and about anything, this is called the ________________.

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Open Door Policy

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10
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To handle a conflict correctly, one must_____________________________

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Ban the Bombs

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11
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Good communication promotes mental _________________

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health

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12
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A secret to cultivating appreciation and affection is to ______________________

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Dig for Diamonds

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13
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_______________________ expressions of appreciation gracefully.

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Accept

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14
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A rule for good communication is to get inside the other person’s _______________________

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World

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15
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Good communication builds ___________

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belonging

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16
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James 1:9

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Wherefore my beloved brethren be slow to speak slow to anger and slow to wrath.

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17
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Parents/Caregivers are overprotecting when they are ____________ children from everything

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Rescuing

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18
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A way parents, caregivers and counselors overindulge is that we ___________ them.

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Bribe

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19
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Not all parents have a ___________ impact on their children

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Positive

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20
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Ultimate parenting example is to pass on our _______________

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faith

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21
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All relationships require a ________________ of time and effort

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commitment

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22
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Too much overprotection keeps kids from growing into strong, _____________ adults

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independent

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23
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Over-controlling parents can constantly demand and ______________

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critique

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24
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Parents are motivated by ___________ or wanting to improve on their childhood when they are overindulging

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guilt

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25
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Children should get what they ______ not what they want

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need

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26
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According to your notes, Children are a ___________ from God

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gift

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27
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Most parents are working hard to raise their children, but find that kids are ____________

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defiant

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28
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Overindulging prevents ________ and encourages spoiling

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maturity

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29
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Stressing _______ through achievement and then achievement to perfectionism is unreasonable

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success

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30
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Best to learn from mistakes _____ in life

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early

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31
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___________ displayed how to and how not to have a positive impact on children

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David

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32
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What are the two losses that parents and children deal with in unhealthy love?

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physical/experience

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33
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When we are facing fear, parent’s/caregiver tend to ______________

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over indulge

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34
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A reason we give unhealthy love is because we are compensating for an absent ______

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parent

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35
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When getting back at a spouse a split family can use kids as ________

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pawns

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36
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Parents tend to feed off their children’s __________

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achievements

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37
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Ephesians 6:1-3 tells us that ___________ will bring self-discipline, and this brings stability leading to a long life

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obedience

38
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The key to understanding a child lies in understanding the child’s perceptual field. Only __________ will change perceptions

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experience

39
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Parents/caregivers hurry children toward independence before they are ______________ ready

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emotionally

40
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Children _____________ themselves more fully and more directly through self-initiated spontaneous play than they do verbally because they are more comfortable with play

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express

41
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Play is voluntary activity by ____________

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nature

42
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An advantage of play therapy would be ______________; which would include a child’s need for function, mastery over situations and mastery over conflict

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intrapersonal

43
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Garry Landreth defines a play therapy as a “dynamic interpersonal __________ between a child and a therapist trained in play therapy procedures”

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relationship

44
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The role of the child-centered therapist is to facilitate the client’s ______________

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growth

45
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___________ is considered important and is facilitated by comments and questions by the therapist

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interpretation

46
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The counselor does not lead or take responsibility for the _____________ of the play

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direction

47
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Play therapy ____________ children to use their own natural medium of communication-play

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enables

48
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Proverbs 21:2

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Every way of a man is right in his own eyes: but the Lord pondereth the hearts.

49
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Dr. Charles Schaefer gave a list of benefits for play therapy. He believed that play therapy enhances ________

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relationships

50
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Dr. Schaefer also believed that play is the natural medium of self-expression in ___________

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communication

51
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Dr. Gary Landreth asserts that play therapy will help the child experience a feeling of ___________

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control

52
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Dr. Gary Landreth asserts that play therapy will also help the child become sensitive to the process of _____________

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coping

53
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According to your notes, ________________ are invaluable sources of information about the child’s developmental history and interactional patterns

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Parents

54
Q

Children are not miniature _______________

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adults

55
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A pitfall of over-protecting would be a lack of ____________ and social responsibility

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discipline

56
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A pitfall of over-indulging causes children to become self-_____________

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destructive

57
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A pitfall of over-controlling would be that the children will ______________ themselves for everything

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blame

58
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Another pitfall of over-controlling is that the through over-controlling the parent can ___________ the child’s view of self through criticism

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restrict

59
Q

John Bowl by developed the 3 stages of separation. What are these three stages?

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protest/despair/detatchment

60
Q

The Proximity Principle is the fear of ____________ is the fundamental human fear

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abandonment

61
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Dr. Mary Ainsworth developed a method for measuring an infant’s security. This method focused attention on how the infant responded with _________________

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a stranger

62
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There are 4 attachment styles. The ____________ response of self-dimension was built on comfort and protection

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secure

63
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This attachment style is based on a _____________ response where in abusive families the child questioned their sense of self and others

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disorganized

64
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_______ believe they are good and careful

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parents

65
Q

The Bible tells us God desires _______ with us

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Intimacy

66
Q

Relationships define the _______ of our lives

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quality

67
Q

The _______ wires itself based on experience

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brain

68
Q

When repairing the damage or preventing the Soul Wound, that person is _______ a healthy family context

A

establishing

69
Q

Core Beliefs Relationship Rules is when a person is measuring ______ Beliefs

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attachment

70
Q

In times of emotional distress or loss, it has been found that people turn to _______ rather than the church

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prayer

71
Q

In times of emotional distress or loss it has been found that grieving persons tend to ____________ their faith and religious devotion

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increase

72
Q

God is the Ultimate attatchment figure, a ___________ for the wounded soul

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refuge

73
Q

___________: I’m too flawed; God is sure to reject me. I probably committed the unpardonable sin

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ambivalent

74
Q

___________: I’m flawed, beyond repair

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disorganized

75
Q

____________; He isn’t there for me when I need Him. I will have to go at life alone. I dont really need Him.

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avoidant

76
Q

____________; He is there I can count on him. He will accept me in spite of my flaws

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secure

77
Q

What are three kinds of religious doubt?

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factual/emotional/volitional

78
Q

Step 1 of Breaking Free

___________- Your Story- Narrative Recall

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remember

79
Q

Step 2 of Breaking Free

___________- Your pain and need for healing- “Cant heal what you dont feel”

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recognize

80
Q

Step 3 of Breaking Free

___________- the meaning of your story

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reframe

81
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Step 4 of Breaking Free

__________- Your Story- ‘forgiveness, grace and acceptance’

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repair

82
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Step 5 of Breaking Free

__________- deepening emotional strands of safety, trust and intimacy; able to accept influence from others

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reconnect

83
Q

The Avoidant Attachment Style has __________ Connections – difficult to listen sensitively to the thoughts and feelings of those are they closest to

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emotional

84
Q

In the Avoidant Attachment Style parenting is ____________

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insensitive

85
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The Ambivalent Attachment Style has a _____________ dependency (display their insecurity)

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melodramatic

86
Q

The Disorganized Attachment Style limits the ability to __________

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reflect

87
Q

The Disorganized Attachment Style is typically an ______________ family

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abusive

88
Q

The person who has the Secure Attachment Style has a _____________ in ‘Who I am’ (able to express their thoughts and opinions more confidently)

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confidence

89
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A characteristic of the Secure Attachment Style is ___________ Strength (not afraid of emotions)

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emotional

90
Q

Most researched area of attachment theory in the context of religion is ______________

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emotional distress

91
Q

Research Shows people seek God for a safe haven and secure base during times of _____________

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stress