Marriage, Sex, And Motherhood Flashcards

1
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Women took the statuses of…

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Their husbands, like a personality transfer

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2
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Women were trained for marriage, especially if…

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It was to someone of a higher status. Training started at a younger age for queens and empresses.

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3
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An example of a marriage training guide is the 14th century…

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Parisian “Book of the Good Man of Paris” which included recipes and etiquette guides

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4
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Married women had no legal…

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Status or existence of her own

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5
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Women were considered the property of…

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Their husbands

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6
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If a husband travelled for work, his wife…

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Legally ‘was’ him in terms of running business and paying taxes

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7
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In 1215 marital banns legally had to be public, as introduced by…

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Pope Innocent III at the Lateran Council

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8
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Public marital banns were introduced to stop…

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Clandestine marriages and multiple proposals

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9
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The primary purpose of marriage was…

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Having children

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10
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Time and age of marriage was class-based; royal and aristocratic girls…

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Usually got married earlier for political reasons, the less privileged classes usually didn’t get married until their twenties

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11
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Despite its theological legitimacy, many writers held that…

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Marriage was second best to clerical celibacy or that it curtailed men’s liberties

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12
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Perpetual virginity was the…

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Ideal

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13
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Ecclesiasticals considered sex to be a necessary but…

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Undesirable way of maintaining the species

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14
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Marriage was the only licit and proper outlet for…

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Sex as it was performed for the reason of procreation

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15
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Married couples were technically restricted as to when they could…

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Actually even fuck

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16
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Ecclesiastical regulations took the liturgical calendar into consideration as…

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A sex diary

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17
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Sex was not allowed on…

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Wednesdays, Fridays, advent, lent, or any other religious holiday

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18
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Gratian’s Decretum said it was the choice of…

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The couple as to whether they did the do on holy days

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19
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Sex was discouraged when a woman was…

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Menstruating, pregnant, or breastfeeding/nursing

20
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Male clerical elites denounced creativity in the bedchamber, the prescribed…

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The missionary position and denounced all others

21
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The poet Robert de Blois acknowledged that women enjoyed sex in his poem…

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The Ladies’ Instruction, where describes breasts as an erogenous zone

22
Q

It was acknowledged that widows felt sexual desire in…

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Thirteenth century medical texts, which offered a remedy of stuffing musk-soaked cotton up the vag

23
Q

Birth control was not unknown. Some common methods were…

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  • coitus imterruptus

- weasel bollocks in a velvet bag between the breasts

24
Q

Motherhood differed between serfs, free peasants, aristocracy, and royalty. All had…

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Complicated family structures

25
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The complicated family structures of royalty and aristocracy were that…

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  • the lord chose a guardian for underage children
  • guardianship of children could be sold
  • men automatically had guardianship of children if their mother’s died
26
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The complicated family structures of serfs and free peasants were…

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  • if a serf woman married a free peasant his previous and new children would become serfs
  • legally free peasant women technically produced free children
27
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Giving birth was a woman’s job. Male physicians sometimes offered…

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Advice, but all physical aid came from other women

28
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It was believed that women suffered in birth for…

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Religious reasons. God punished Eve and therefore all women by making them suffer labour pains.

29
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Women experienced extremely painful labour because…

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There were no antiseptics, painkillers, or anaesthetic so many died due to complications in childbirth or of infections afterwards

30
Q

Archaeological remains show premature infants…

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Or mothers with foetuses in situ

31
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In return for an easy birth, many pregnant women would…

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Call on saints for aid and promise their child to religion

32
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Sickly and still born babies were often deposited in front of…

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Images on altars or saints’ tombs to cure them

33
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Aristocratic and royal women had religious privilege in childbirth…

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  • they had access to Marian relics that reputedly eased childbirth
  • Virgin Mary’s girdle, enshrined at Westminster Abbey, was often loaned to royal women
34
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Women in childbirth often prayed to Saint Margaret of Antioch, who was a…

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Fourth century feisty virgin of dubious authority, whose legend dates back to the ninth century

35
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Saint Margaret of Antioch’s legend stated that…

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She emerged from a dragon’s belly (a motif for childbirth) and, before she was beheaded, prayed God give all women healthy children

36
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Women in childbirth often had the story of Saint Margaret of Antioch…

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Read to them, a copy of it placed on their body, or its accompanying prayer was inscribed on cheese or bread and fed to the mother-to-be

37
Q

Infertility was regarded as a punishment for…

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Sin

38
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Children were often given away to alleviate…

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Financial pressure.

  • newborns were left in public places
  • religious institutes had baby deposit boxes
39
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Leaving a baby at a monastery or convent was often…

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Criticised by many ecclesiasticals

40
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Mothers were meant to concern themselves with…

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The spiritual and physical welfare of their children

41
Q

The Christian rite of baptism was…

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Of paramount importance for the spiritual welfare of children

42
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Baptism could occur in non-traditional circumstances, such as…

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  • sickly babies could be instantly baptised by midwives after birth
  • if a mother gave birth alone she could baptise her dying baby if there was no other option
43
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There were high morality rates. As many as…

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30% of children died before the age of seven

44
Q

The Liber Manualis was written to prepare…

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The son of a Frankish noblewoman named Dhoudah for the future

45
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Christine Pizan commissioned the…

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Enseignemens Moraux for her eldest son - it was a traditional moral guidebook with a few original contributions