Marriage

Question 1

Definition/ description

Answer 1

• Begins with veiled bride approaching and circling the groom.
• Under huppah, 2 blessings recited over wine.
• Rings are placed.
• Ketubah signed.
• Speech by rabbi.
• 7 blessings.
• Sharing of wine.
• Groom crushes wineglass under foot.
• Private room.

Question 2

Why is it important?

Answer 2

• Marriage is seen as fulfilling a commandment.
• Provides support and companionship.
• Basis for family.
• Blessing.

Question 3

Symbolism of elements/ actions.

Answer 3

• Takes place at night with stars to remind Jewish of God making Abraham the father of nations.
• Rings are unbroken circles which shows hope for marriage.
• Crushing of glass symbolism how fragile marriage can be. Also shows the destruction of the temple in Jerusalem.

Question 4

Contrasts

Answer 4

• Orthodox Jews = women is veiled by the groom before the ceremony as a reminder of Jacob marrying the wrong sister.
• Reform Jews = common for bride to place a tallit around the groom.

Question 5

Teachings

Answer 5

“ And He brought her (Eve) to Adam”
- groom enters the huppah before the bride as Adam was first on earth.

“ Be fruitful and multiply”
- it is a duty to have children within a marriage.