Marriage Flashcards
What is betrothal
Period of time before the wedding ceremony when the couple are engaged.Usually lasts a year.Couples do not live together but prepare their lives with each other .
Before the wedding
Couple may fast to cleanse themselves from sin and come to the ceremony in the right attitude
Betrothal ceremony
Bride joins the groom underneath the chuppah.Couple recite two blessings over wine
Marriage contract
Marriage contract signed in fring of a witness..Focuses on spiritual aspirations rather than laws.Describes mutual hopes for the marriage
Marriage itsself
Seven wedding blessings are recited.Rabbi makes a short speech and blesses in front of the congregation.Groom breaks a glassmto show regret for the destruction of the Temple.Reminder that life involves hardships as well as joy