Lifespan Test 2 Chapter 6 Flashcards
Chapter 6: Socioemotional Development
The capacity to manage one’s emotional state
Maturing frontal lobe contributes to development of self-regulation abilities
Important for social and emotional success
Emotional Regulation
Externalizing
Internalizing
Problematic temperamental tendencies
Understand inner states (theory of mind)
Become less egocentric
Understand others have different perspectives from their own
No longer believe they are the center of the universe
Become more self-aware
Self-reflect and compare themselves to others
Piaget’s Concrete Operational Stage:
Personality (Susan Harter’s Research)
Changes in self-awareness
3-year-old self-descriptions focus on external facts
Fourth grader’s self-descriptions are:
Internal and psychological
Anchored in feelings, abilities, and inner traits
Self-esteem develops
Evaluating oneself as good or bad
Declines during early elementary school
early childhood 3 to 6 years old
initiative versus guilt
middle childhood 6 years to puberty
industry versus inferiority
Children have ability to work toward a goal
May feel inferior if they do not measure up
Erikson’s Industry vs. Inferiority
Self-esteem
based on the value the child places on a particular dimension or dimensions
Susan Harter’s five dimensions:
People skills Politeness Intellectual abilities Appearance Physical abilities
Overly self-critical
Inflate failures
See failure when it doesn’t exist
Low self-esteem—internalizing problems
Feel incapable of affecting the outcome of event
May stop trying
Common in those with internalizing problems
Learned helplessness
Feelings of competence
“I can succeed if I work hard.”
Be aware of Vygotsky’s zone of proximal development.
Praise the child’s effort.
Enhance self-efficacy
Set realistic goals.
If child fails, gently give accurate feedback.
Express care.
Promote realistic self-perceptions.
Sharing, helping, and caring actions
Appears as early as preschool; more frequent in elementary school
Prosocial Behavior
Prosocial behaviors performed for selfless, non-egocentric reasons
Altruism
Attend to your child’s prosocial behaviors.
Attribute the kind act to the child’s personality.
Reinforce altruistic behavior and displays of empathy and sympathy.
Discipline using induction.
Scaffold altruism
Intervene when your child behaves in a hurtful, negative way.
Model prosocial behaviors
Interventions: Socializing Children to be Prosocial
Any hostile or destructive act
Physical aggression peaks at about age 2½.
Declines with onset of emotional regulation (maturing frontal lobes)
Types:
Instrumental
Reactive
Relational
Aggression
Difficult (exuberant) temperament may evoke power-assertion disciplinary techniques.
Rejection from teachers and peers
Child may possess a hostile attributional bias.
Boys more likely than girls to be labeled aggressive
Boys more likely to have externalizing problems
Factors Contributing to Aggression
Emerges at end of sensorimotor stage
Initially, the parent scaffolds
Age 4, collaborative pretend play (theory of mind is present)
Rough-and-tumble play
Fantasy Play (aka Pretend Play)
Allows children to practice adult roles
Allows child a sense of control
Furthers understanding of social norms
Offers the adult world insights into what children may be thinking
Value of Pretend Play
Girls’ and Boys’ Play Worlds
Girls
Calm, more subdued play
Nurturing themes
Play collaboratively; relate one-to-one
Girls’ and Boys’ Play Worlds
Boys
Rambunctious play
Superhero, warrior themes
Try to establish dominance; enjoy competition
Rigid gender-specific rules for play
What Contributes to Gender-Stereotyped Play?
Biological underpinnings Role of testosterone Socialization of gender-specific behaviors Traditional gender roles Impact of cognitions Gender Schema Theory
Friendships
Core Qualities:
similarity, trust, emotional support
Help us learn to manage emotions
Help us to handle conflicts
Friends protect and enhance the developing self.
Friendships stimulate personal development.
Popularity
Social skills necessary Categories Popular Most-liked Average Middle-range status Rejected May be socially inept May have internalizing or externalizing tendencies May not fit in with dominant group
A situation in which one or more children (or adults) harass or target a specific child for systematic abuse
Bullying
Exceptionally aggressive children who repeatedly bully and get victimized
May demonstrate both externalizing and internalizing tendencies
Bully-victim
Anxious, shy, low on the social hierarchy, unlikely to fight back
Classic victim (internalizing)
Administrators working with students form a school-wide norm of intolerance of bullying
Olweus Bully Prevention Program
Parents of shy children
Foster a secure attachment.
During preschool, connect your temperamentally shy child with a friend.
Parents of children with externalizing disorders
Display loving, sensitive parenting.
Minimize power assertion.
Teach emotional regulation skills and reattribution of biases.