Lessons I’m Learning

Question 1

Personal Lessons 1-3

Answer 1

1. Don’t take anything personally
2. Never assume
3. Plan your day for 80% of your capacity

Question 2

Lessons 4-6

Answer 2

4. Don’t make any big decisions/send important messages after 8:30p
5. Most important is how someone responds to your “no”
6. Also important is how someone makes you feel when you bring up a big or uncomfortable topic (how they make you feel is actually more important than what they say). Comfortable? If they disagree with you, do they make you feel heard and want to come to a resolution? Do they get defensive?

Question 3

Lessons 7-9

Answer 3

7. I am not giving my power away to other people anymore.
8. The secret to power is to be immune to criticism and flattery, to be fearless and to feel beneath no one. That’s called self power. Everything else is agency power and can be taken away from you in the blink of an eye.
9. You are a good person. Enjoy being a good enough person.