Lesson 12 Flashcards
Emotional Development
A critical feature of development during this stage (2-6 years) is learning how and when to express emotion. In fact, emotion regulations viewed as the preeminent psychological accomplishment et week the ages of 2 and 6 years.
Emotion regulation also is referred to as effortful control. Children’s who master this—who learn to acknowledge, control and appropriately express their various, sometime intense emotions—become more capable in every aspect of their lives.
Since emotion regulation is a significant and somewhat pervasive aspect of this stage, its not surprise to lean that parents and other caregivers play an influential role in its development.
Erikson: Initiative vs. Guilt
A better understanding of the socioemotional life of the young child is offered by Erikson, who refers to this as the stage of initiative vs. guilt. According to Erikson, the child’s focus during this stage is on independence and initiative. It is very important for the child to develop a sense of him or her self as a capable of identifying a goal, devising a plan for achieving that goal, setting the plan in motion and successfully completing it. At the same time, it is likely that there will be many pitfalls to such success along the way.
Self concept of a child
The child’s self concept grows out of his/her experience of initiative. It is the belief in ones own ability, a personal estimate of success and worthiness. To the extent initiative flourishes, self concept will be strong. When initiative falters, self-concept will be weak. Obviously, these are important, life-long issues.
Emotional Balance
Without adequate control, emotions overpower children. This can happen in two ways. Some children turn their emotional distress outward. These children have externalities problems in which they lash out in impulsive anger. Other children turn their emotional distress inward. These children have internalizing problems in which they become fearful and withdrawn. Both types of problem are a result of the inability to properly and effectively regulate the expression of emotion, which reinforces the earlier statement regarding the prominence of emotion regulation are linked to psychopathology, a general term referring to illness or disorder of the mind.
Styles of Parenting: Baumrind
Developmentalists have long been interested in understanding how parents affect the development of their children. The research of Diana Baumrind has been most influential in this regard.
Baumrind studied some 100 preschool children and their parents. She observed the children in their preschool setting, interviewed the parents about their parenting behaviors, and also observed the children with their parents in both home and lab settings. On the basis of her work, Baumrind identified four important dimensions on which parents differ, and also noted three specific patterns of parenting.
Finally, Baumrind described developmental differences between the hildren who had been raised by parents who demonstrated each of the three parenting patterns.
What are the four significant characteristics of parenting?
Warmth
Strategies for Discipline
Communication
Expectations for Maturity
Dealing with parenting characteristic of Warmth?
Are parents affectionate and nurturant? cold and critical? Involved? Distant?
Parenting caracteristics Discipline
Do parents explain? Criticize? Persuade? Ignore? Encourage? Demean?
Parenting characteristic Coommunication
Do parents listen patiently? Demand Silence?
Parenting characteristic Expectations for Maturity
Do parents have high expectations? Too high?? Too low? Developmentally appropriate?
Three styles of Parenting (unofficial fourth)
Authoritarian
Permissive
Authoritative
Neglectful/uninvolved parenting
Authoritarian
Characterized by limits only. Parents have high demands and exert high levels of control. Parents dictate the law, allow no questions and punish misconduct. Warmth and communication are low. Basically, this is a dictatorship.
Permissive
Characterized by anarchy, or no limits. Parents make few or no demands and exert no control. Parents hid their impatience, offer little discipline, and disorder (no one in control) is common.
Authoritative
Characterized by love, limits and flexibility. Parents exhibit high control warmth and acceptance. Parents off high levels of clarity and consistency of rules. Parents have appropriate expectations and good communication. Children’s views are sought and respected, though the parents remain “in charge.”
Neglectful/uninvolved parenting
Characterized by parents’ obliviousness to their children’s behaviors. These parents see not to care at all about their children. (This is to be distinguished from permissive parenting in which, though parents are not very actively involved in priding guidance and structure for the children, nevertheless are seen as caring very much about them)