Lecture Exam 1 Flashcards
What does God mean when he calls woman the “helper”?
provides for one person what they cannot for themselves; same word that is used to describe God
What was shown about marriage by God in the garden of Eden?
the garden was not perfect, that was not God’s intention
Everyone was made with a deficiency that requires them to rely on each other
What must you keep in mind when it comes to dating?
-Is the person available to you, physically and emotionally
-What you see is what you get
-How do you feel when you’re with them?
What are the 4 attributes of a balanced relationship?
Love, Trust, Respect, Understanding
What are the 6 types of love?
Ludic, Pragma, Eros (romantic), Mania, Storge (Companionate), Agape (Sacrificial)
What types of love are best for long term relationships?
Agape and Eros together have the greatest satisfaction rate
Were attracted to each other and sacrificed for each other
What is the best type of love for having children?
Storge
What types of couples have the most divorces?
-7 years or less
-25+ years/ People in their 50’s-60’s
What is the most neglected of the 4 attributes of love?
Respect
What is the last attribute attained in a relationship?
Understanding; the more of the other 3 attributes increase understanding
What are the 12 stages of the physical relationship?
-Eye to Body
-Eye to Eye
-Voice to voice
-Hand to Hand
-Arm around Shoulder
-Arm to waist
-Mouth to Mouth
-Hand to head
-Hand to body
-Mouth to breast
-Hand to Genital
-Genital to Genital or Sexual Intercourse
What does eye to body mean?
all physical; you like what you see
What does eye to eye mean?
mutual agreement of physical attraction
What does voice to voice mean?
talking; short or long convo; do we like talking
What does hand to hand mean?
no dating; start of touch; has a connection; intent
