LDS family and marriage midterm 1

Question 1

What is the core problem of adopting a “credit mentality” (as warned about by Elder Dallin H. Oaks)?

• The size of debt becomes uncontrollable very quickly.
• Debt, like pornography and gambling, is an addictive behavior.
• It leads to a passion to possess temporal goods .
• It fosters a futile belief that we can continually get something for nothing.
• None of the above.

Answer 1

It fosters a futile belief that we can continually get something for nothing.

Question 2

What is the definition we used in class for “Understanding the Price?”
A. Making necessary preparations that ultimately allow one to pay the required price.
B. Actually doing what is necessary to achieve the desired goal.
C. Recognizing what is actually sought or desired and then recognizing what is actually required to achieve that goal or desire.
D. A and B only.
E. None of the above.

Answer 2

C. Recognizing what is actually sought or desired and then recognizing what is actually required to achieve that goal or desire.

Question 3

Which of the following best reflects what Elder Oaks’ meant by being “a lawyer who had been called to be an apostle?”
A. A person who, upon receiving a calling, decides to give up their profession or career to serve God full-time.
B. A person who accepts a new calling then tries to adapt that calling (and its expectations) to fit their current (lawyer) abilities, strengths, circumstances, and desires.
C. A person who accepts a new calling, and then works to change their current (lawyer) abilities, strengths, circumstances, and desires to align with the requirements and expectations of that new calling.
D. A person who accepts a calling and then works with determination to apply the characteristics of a being servant of God into their personal professions—like being a Christ-like lawyer.

Answer 3

A person who accepts a new calling then tries to adapt that calling (and its expectations) to fit their current (lawyer) abilities, strengths, circumstances, and desires.

Question 4

What scriptural parable was used in class to illustrate the importance of “understanding the price?”

• The Parable of the Ten Virgins
• The Parable of the Talents
• The Parable of the Rash Builder/King (Building a Tower)
• The Parable of the Lost Coin
• The Parable of the Young Rich Man

Answer 4

The Parable of the Rash Builder/King (Building a Tower)

Question 5

According to President Kimball, “it is certain that any good man and any good woman can have happiness and a successful marriage” as long as what happens?
A. They seek each other with all diligence
B. They seek each other in prayerfulness
C. They are both willing to pay the price
D. All of the above.
A and B only.

Answer 5

D. All of the above.

Question 6

Which part of the price did the BMW car illustrate?  
Understanding the Price.
Earning the Price.
Paying the Price.
None of the above.

Answer 6

Understanding the Price.

Question 7

Which of the following words is defined as “sorry, breathe strongly (sigh), pity, or avenge oneself?” 
Metanoeo (Greek)
Nacham (Hebrew)
Repentanimus (Latin)
Anguisheum (Latin)
Shuwb (Hebrew)

Answer 7

Nacham (Hebrew)

Question 8

Why can marriage be considered as the “most vital of all decisions and has the most far-reaching effects” (at least according to Spencer W. Kimball)?
A. It deals will immediate happiness and eternal joys.
B. It affects the couple and families down through the last generations.
C. It determines the civil status of communities
D. It influences the political-economic status of a nation
All of the above
A and B only.
C and D only.
A, B, and C only.

Answer 8

A and B only.

Question 9

What is the overall purpose of the “plan of salvation?”
To inherit a place in the Celestial Kingdom.
To achieve everlasting life (life without end).
To have joy in truth.
To become like God in every way.

Answer 9

To become like God in every way.

Question 10

What did we define as "to thoroughly grasp" (from the Latin)?”
A paradigm
An option
A consensus polling
A zeitgeist
A disposition
To perceive

Answer 10

To perceive

Question 11

Elder David A. Bednar taught that without “linking” marriage, it will never provide sufficient directions, protection, or hope. What did Elder Bednar specifically say marriage must be “linked” to in order to provide these blessings? 
Compatibility
The fundamental doctrine of the Plan of Happiness
Temple Covenants
Charity
Strict Obedience to God's commandments.
All of the above.
A, B, and E only

Answer 11

The fundamental doctrine of the Plan of Happiness

Question 12

Which of the following words is defined as “retreat, get back, fetch (go home again), or to reverse?” 
Metanoeo (Greek)
Nacham (Hebrew)
Repentanimus (Latin)
Anguisheum (Latin)
Shuwb (Hebrew)

Answer 12

Shuwb (Hebrew)

Question 13

What scriptural parable was used in class to illustrate the importance of “earning the price?”
The Parable of the Ten Virgins
The Parable of the Talents
The Parable of the Rash Builder/King (Building a Tower)
The Parable of the Lost Coin
The Parable of the Young Rich Man

Answer 13

The Parable of the Ten Virgins

Question 14

Which of the following best describes what we have been calling “that form of marriage which God has ordained”?
A marriage performed in the temple
A marriage founded on charity.
A marriage based on biblical teachings.
A marriage between two members of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints.
A Godly or Godlike marriage. In other words, the type of marriage God intends for all his children.

Answer 14

A Godly or Godlike marriage. In other words, the type of marriage God intends for all his children.

Question 15

Elder David B. Haight warned that “many married couples do not take their marriages seriously enough. Which of the following was NOT part of Elder Haight’s list of things that every married couple must do?  
Work at the marriage.
Pray together always.
Protect their marriage.
Nurture their marriage.
Cultivate their marriage

Answer 15

Pray together always.

Question 16

What did Elder Maxwell imply is the outcome of the “cheap repentance?”
Superficial forgiveness.
Everlasting damnation
Cheap (or cheapened) confidence.
A step towards the “infinite possibilities of the Savior’s atoning sacrifice.”

Answer 16

Superficial forgiveness.

Question 17

What “all-purpose theology” did Elder Oaks specifically say represents “self-indulgence, oppression, indifference to others, as well as self-worship” and “resists” learning, reformation, and repentance?
Sexual immorality.
Immaturity.
The ideology of “I won’t change, you’ll have to adapt to me.”
The ideology of “It is my life and I can do whatever I choose.”

Answer 17

The ideology of “I won’t change, you’ll have to adapt to me.”

Question 18

Which of the following activities is a specific example used in class to demonstrate understanding the price in marriage and family?
A. Actually gathering the family together and having Family Home Evening with spouse/children
B. Figuring out that gathering your spouse and family together on Mondays will require patience, time, flexibility in personal agendas, prioritizing family needs and wants.
C.Personally participating in Family Home Evening even before one is married and/or has children.
D. All of the above.
A and B only.

Answer 18

B. Figuring out that gathering your spouse and family together on Mondays will require patience, time, flexibility in personal agendas, prioritizing family needs and wants.

Question 19

What did Elder Russell M. Nelson say was the “first step” for those who are married or will be married who desire a “more joyful marriage?”
Learn to be unselfish
Comprehend the doctrinal foundation of marriage.
Seek the comfort and joy of your partner first.
Identify and practice those conditions of an “eternal marriage”
Earnestly seek your “soul mate”.
All of the above.
A and C only

Answer 19

Comprehend the doctrinal foundation of marriage.

Question 20

Regardless of the word (or its original meaning) used for “repentance,” what is the common denominator when dealing with the principle of repentance? 
Deliverance
Absolution
Rectification
Mercy
Change

Answer 20

Change

Question 21

A perspective, paradigm, and zeitgeist are so much part of our way of thinking, perceiving, and understanding the world that we may not even realize that we have adopted a predominant personal or world view. If we are removed from that view, however, we struggle to survive and make sense of the world around us. What metaphor did we use in class to describe the power of how a perspective, paradigm, and/or zeitgeist might affect us?
Learning to speak a second language
Money to a child
Flight to a bird
The physiological and psychological responses to hunger stimuli
Water to a fish

Answer 21

Water to a fish

Question 22

What did we define as: “a model, pattern, or frame of reference?”
A paradigm
An option
A consensus polling
A zeitgeist
A disposition
To perceive

Answer 22

A paradigm

Question 23

President Kimball identified what we must do to “to prepare for that married period…which will be beautiful and rewarding.” Which of the following was NOT included in President Kimball’s specific counsel?
Make a plan for a good strong marriage.
Organize your programs.
Set your standards.
Do everything that is expected of you and then do “just a little more.”
Solidify your determination.

Answer 23

Do everything that is expected of you and then do “just a little more.”

Question 24

What did we define as: "to take in with the mind, observe?" 
An opinion
A psychology
A perspective
A zeitgeist
To perceive
A paradigm

Answer 24

To perceive

Question 25

What is the definition we used in class for “Paying the Price?”
A. Making necessary preparations that ultimately allow one to pay the required price.
B. Actually doing what is necessary to achieve the desired goal.
C. Recognizing what is actually sought or desired and then recognizing what is actually required to achieve that goal or desire.
A and B only.
None of the above.

Answer 25

B. Actually doing what is necessary to achieve the desired goal.

Question 26

What does “Sodom’s Apple” have to do with marital expectations and the Law of the Harvest?
A. Sodom’s Apples were very difficult to find but they were the sweetest fruit in the desert region of Sodom and Gomorrah. Sweet and fruitful marriages are difficult to find, but worth the effort.
B. While Sodom’s Apples are beautiful and enticing, they are not a fruit at all. In fact, they have no value at all. Many are deceived by their outward appearance and strive to obtain the apples only to left hungry and lacking. Likewise, we must be careful by outward appearances of marriage and family and look inwardly to establish lasting relationships.
C. Sodom’s Apples were a staple of the area but did not grow naturally. They were carefully cultivated to meet the people’s needs. Likewise, expectations of a good marriage are not natural to man and must be cultivated. Like all middle-eastern fruit, extra nourishment and care is needed to provide results.
D. Sodom’s apples were symbols of the fruits of promiscuity and no moral standards. If our marital expectations are reflections of the moral environment where we live, the fruit will match those expectations. We must not be part of the world.

Answer 26

B. While Sodom’s Apples are beautiful and enticing, they are not a fruit at all. In fact, they have no value at all. Many are deceived by their outward appearance and strive to obtain the apples only to left hungry and lacking. Likewise, we must be careful by outward appearances of marriage and family and look inwardly to establish lasting relationships.

Question 27

What was the more specific point of the BMW car illustration?
You may have to work harder to obtain the goals of greater value.
The longer you have to save for something, the more valuable it will become.
You should never settle for anything but the very best—regardless of the cost.
You may think you know the actual cost of something but there may be additional costs and requirements that go well beyond our initial expectations.

Answer 27

You may think you know the actual cost of something but there may be additional costs and requirements that go well beyond our initial expectations.

Question 28

When it comes to the “lofty responsibility” of marriage and family, what did Elder Haight say was the state of “too many people” entering marriage and family?
They lack faith “for this lofty responsibility.”
They are inadequately prepared “for this lofty responsibility.”
They are not mature enough “for this lofty responsibility.”
They lack a strong enough testimony “for this lofty responsibility.”
They are not sufficiently acquainted (didn’t know each other long enough and well enough) “for this lofty responsibility.”

Answer 28

They are inadequately prepared “for this lofty responsibility.”

Question 29

What did we define as a "shared set of assumptions?" 
To perceive
A psychology
A perspective
A zeitgeist
To perceive
A paradigm

Answer 29

A zeitgeist

Question 30

What did Elder Neal A. Maxwell mean by “cheap repentance?”
The price of repentance is far less than the price of paying for one’s own sins.
Whenever repentance is too little understood and too little applied is it cheap (or cheapened).
Our efforts are cheap in “comparison with the Savior’s incomprehensible” efforts
The “bargain of the atonement” is infinite and everlasting.

Answer 30

Whenever repentance is too little understood and too little applied is it cheap (or cheapened).

Question 31

When the Spanish philosopher J. Ortega y Gasset said, “We do not know what is happening to us and that is precisely what is happening to us—the fact of not knowing what is happening to us,” to which of the following was he referring?
Ignorance of accepted social behaviors
The lack of a good education
Not recognizing (or admitting) the connection between life events and scientific principles and practices.
Not understanding the genetics attributing to dispositions and behaviors.
The subtle yet powerful influence of personal perspective, paradigm, and world views

Answer 31

The subtle yet powerful influence of personal perspective, paradigm, and world views

Question 32

What did William Doherty call the condition founded upon pursing personal desires, self-gratification, and a dimension of entitlement?  
Consumer Culture
Self-engrossed socio-economics
The ME generation
A recipe for disaster

Answer 32

Consumer Culture

Question 33

When considering Elder Oaks’ description of being “an apostle who used to a lawyer,” how does that statement apply to the way we approach that “form of marriage that God has ordained?”
A. When two people marry, they must give up all other interests, relationships, etc. and focus exclusively on their new relationship.
B. A person (or couple) who marries tries to adapt “that form of marriage which God has ordained” to fit their current abilities, strengths, views, circumstances, and desires.
C. A person (or couple) who marries and then shapes and changes their current abilities, strengths, views, circumstances, and desires to align with the requirements and expectations of “that form of marriage which God has ordained.”
D. When two people marry, they are determined to apply the characteristics of a servant of God into their personal relationship—like being Christ-like in their marriage.

Answer 33

C. A person (or couple) who marries and then shapes and changes their current abilities, strengths, views, circumstances, and desires to align with the requirements and expectations of “that form of marriage which God has ordained.”

Question 34

Paul taught that if a person dismisses, diminishes, and/or discredits the law of the harvest—or if a person promotes or creates alternative to the law of the harvest then such persons are deceived and mock God (Galatians 6:7-9). Why would doing these things be considered to be mocking God?
The law of the harvest was established and decreed by God himself. Dismissing, diminishing, or discrediting the law is saying that God’s way is not the best way, the right way, the only way.
According to God, this law is “irrevocable” meaning it cannot be altered nor replaced by another method, philosophy, or plan. Changing that law (in any form) mocks God’s power to establish doctrine and give commandments.
If the law of the harvest is irrevocable then any deviation from that law is deception and mock’s God’s unchanging commands.
The law of the harvest was established as part of the plan before the foundation of the world was laid. Dismissing, discrediting, or providing an alternative to this plan mocks the plan of salvation and thus, mocks the author of that plan.
All of the above.
None of the above.

Answer 34

All of the above.

Question 35

Which of the following best reflects what Elder Oaks meant by being “an apostle who used to a lawyer?”
A. A person who, upon receiving a calling, decides to give up their profession or career to serve God full-time.
B. A person who accepts a new calling then tries to adapt that calling (and its expectations) to fit their current (lawyer) abilities, strengths, circumstances, and desires.
C. A person who accepts a new calling, and then works to change their current (lawyer) abilities, strengths, circumstances, and desires to align with the requirements and expectations of that new calling.
D. A person who accepts a calling and then works with determination to apply the characteristics of a being servant of God into their personal professions—like being a Christ-like lawyer.

Answer 35

C. A person who accepts a new calling, and then works to change their current (lawyer) abilities, strengths, circumstances, and desires to align with the requirements and expectations of that new calling.

Question 36

What did we define as: “a mental view, outlook, or prospect?”
An opinion
A psychology
A perspective
A zeitgeist
To perceive
A paradigm

Answer 36

A perspective

Question 37

There is no doubt that Latter-day Saints encourage marriage and family. But the type of marriage are family encouraged is very specific. Why are Latter-day Saints so particular (and specific) about the type of marriage (including lifestyle, gender, etc.) that a person has?
Because we desire all to find fulfillment in marriage and family.
Because statistics have shown that the type of marriage emphasized and supported by the LDS concept is the only way to find success
Because the plan of salvation desires all to find happiness in a marriage.
Because the plan of salvation states that we are to be emulating God and live as He lives—in every way—including marriage.
A and B only

Answer 37

Because the plan of salvation states that we are to be emulating God and live as He lives—in every way—including marriage.

Question 38

Which of the following did Joseph Smith say was (were) “necessary in order that any rational and intelligent being may exercise faith in God unto salvation?”
A. A correct idea of God’s character, perfections, and attributes
B. A particle of desire to do good.
C. A knowledge that your life is in accordance with God’s plan (will)
D. An idea the God exists
E. A willingness to try
F. A and E only.
G. A, B, C, and D only.
H. A, C, and D only.

Answer 38

H. A, C, and D only.

Question 39

Of all the traits William Doherty said about consumer culture, which of the following did he say was “more prominent now”?
Pursuing personal desires.
Credit mentality.
Entitlement.
Pompous pride.
Immediacy in results.
Lack of taking responsibility.

Answer 39

Entitlement.

Question 40

How did Elder Robert D. Hales define the Law of Harvest?
A. “There ain’t no such thing as a free lunch.”
B. “You can’t cheat Mother Nature.”
C. “Preparation always precedes outcomes.”
D. “The three secrets to obtaining a good harvest are weeding, weeding, and weeding.”
E. “You don’t get something for nothing in life.”

Answer 40

E. “You don’t get something for nothing in life.”

Question 41

According to Chip Ingram and our class discussion, what ultimately keeps us from following the prevailing culture or world view?
Legislation – Rules - Policy
Religious understanding and training
Dialog and Debate
Consciously seeking an alternative
Both B and C only

Answer 41

Consciously seeking an alternative

Question 42

The plan of salvation centers on “three pillars” or three foundational doctrinal platforms.  These three foundations also help us understand the plan of marriage.  Which of the following are the three doctrinal foundations?
Faith, Hope, and Charity
Creation, Fall and Atonement
Premortal, Mortal, and Post Mortal
Leave, Cleave, and Be One
Understanding, Earning, and Paying

Answer 42

Creation, Fall and Atonement

Question 43

What did we define as the "world's view, outlook, or prospect?”
A paradigm
An option
A consensus polling
A zeitgeist
A disposition
To perceive

Answer 43

A zeitgeist

Question 44

Elder Bednar said, “We frequently speak about and highlight marriage as a fundamental unit of society, as the foundation of a strong nation, and as a vital sociological and cultural institution.” Which of the following did Elder Bednar then say that illustrates the LDS perspective of marriage?
“How then can we ignore these defining traits if we hope to reaps the blessings of a strong nation?”
“But the restored gospel helps us to understand that it is so much more.”
“Those who do not understand the restored gospel fail to see that this is the emphasis of the gospel as well.”
“We have a responsibility to strengthen our nations, societies, and cultures. After all, this is very reason for marriage.”
None of the above.

Answer 44

“But the restored gospel helps us to understand that it is so much more.”

Question 45

When considering Elder Oaks’ description of being “a lawyer who had been called to be an apostle,” how does that statement apply to the way we approach that “form of marriage that God has ordained?”
A. A person who, upon receiving a calling, decides to give up their profession or career and serve God full-time.
B. A person (or couple) who marries tries to adapt “that form of marriage which God has ordained” to fit their current abilities, strengths, views, circumstances, and desires.
C. A person (or couple) who marries and then shapes and changes their current abilities, strengths, views, circumstances, and desires to align with the requirements and expectations of “that form of marriage which God has ordained.”
D. When two people marry, they are determined to apply the characteristics of a servant of God into their personal relationship—like being Christ-like in their marriage.

Answer 45

B. A person (or couple) who marries tries to adapt “that form of marriage which God has ordained” to fit their current abilities, strengths, views, circumstances, and desires.

Question 46

What did President Gordon B. Hinckley say is the purpose to “the whole design of the gospel?”
To bring about joy
To help us arrive in the Celestial Kingdom
To have a great achievement
To achieve godhood
A and B only

Answer 46

To achieve godhood

Question 47

Which of the following activities is a specific example used in class to demonstrate example of paying the price in marriage and family?
A. Actually gathering the family together and having Family Home Evening with spouse/children
B. Figuring out that gathering your spouse and family together on Mondays will require patience, time, flexibility in personal agendas, prioritizing family needs and wants.
C.Personally participating in Family Home Evening even before one is married and/or has children.
D. All of the above.
A and B only.

Answer 47

A. Actually gathering the family together and having Family Home Evening with spouse/children

Question 48

What did President Spencer W. Kimball say about “soul mates?”
“The most important single thing that any Latter-day Saint does in this world is to prepare, find and marry their soul mate.”
“Soul mates can only be connected by strict obedience to the commandments thus qualifying a person for guidance of the Holy Ghost.”
“Soul mates are fiction and an illusion.”
None of the above.

Answer 48

“Soul mates are fiction and an illusion.”

Question 49

According to Spencer W. Kimball, how is the “oil of preparedness” gathered in our lamps?
A. By paying the ultimate price of discipleship—personal sacrifice.
B. Drop by Drop in righteous living.
C. Through the actions and prayers of good parents, friends, and leaders.
D. Not through anything we do but only through the good grace of Christ.

Answer 49

B. Drop by Drop in righteous living.

Question 50

What scriptural parable was used in class to illustrate the importance of “paying the price?”
The Parable of the Ten Virgins
The Parable of the Talents
The Parable of the Rash Builder/King (Building a Tower)
The Parable of the Lost Coin
The Parable of the Young Rich Man

Answer 50

The Parable of the Young Rich Man

Question 51

Which of the following words is defined as “think differently after wards, reconsider, of to shift thoughts?” 
Metanoeo (Greek)
Nacham (Hebrew)
Repentanimus (Latin)
Anguisheum (Latin)
Shuwb (Hebrew)

Answer 51

Metanoeo (Greek)

Question 52

Which of the following activities is a specific example used in class to demonstrate example of earning the price in marriage and family?
A. Actually gathering the family together and having Family Home Evening with spouse/children
B. Figuring out that gathering your spouse and family together on Mondays will require patience, time, flexibility in personal agendas, prioritizing family needs and wants.
C.Personally participating in Family Home Evening even before one is married and/or has children.
D. All of the above.
A and B only.

Answer 52

C.Personally participating in Family Home Evening even before one is married and/or has children.

Question 53

One of the “basic principles” in the LDS theology deals with the connection between marriage and family and the plan of salvation. Which of the following best describes that relationship?
A. Marriage/Family is an essential part of mortal living.
B. Marriage/family is essential to the plan of salvation (without it, the plan would not ultimately work).
C. God’s plan of salvation (teachings and doctrines) is essential in forming a marriage/family.
D.The Plan of Salvation demonstrates that marriage/family helps us be happy in our journey.
All of the above.
A and D only.
B and C only.

Answer 53

B and C only.

Question 54

What is the definition we used in class for “Earning the Price?”
A. Making necessary preparations that ultimately allow one to pay the required price.
B. Actually doing what is necessary to achieve the desired goal.
C. Recognizing what is actually sought or desired and then recognizing what is actually required to achieve that goal or desire.
A and B only.
None of the above.

Answer 54

A. Making necessary preparations that ultimately allow one to pay the required price.

Question 55

What did Elder Neal A. Maxwell say those who “plough in hope” understand? 
The law of the harvest
Unrestrained faith.
Determination and endurance
What is growing seasons are all about.
All of the above.
B and C only
A and D only.

Answer 55

What is growing seasons are all about.

Question 56

How did we define “ordained” in reference to “Marriage between and man and woman is ordained of God and essential to His eternal plan?” 
Established
Decreed
Consecration
Appointed
All of the above
C and D only

Answer 56

All of the above

Question 57

The Medieval Latin perspectivus (the root for the English perspective) offers a good visual definition of what a perspective actually means. The Latin has two parts: per and specere. Specere means “to look.” What does per- mean?
At (Thus, the word perspective really means “to look at”)
Through (Thus, the word perspective really means “to look through”)
In (Thus, the word perspective really means “to look in”)
For (Thus, the word perspective really means “to look for”)
Perch (Thus, the word perspective really means “to look from a perch”)

Answer 57

Through (Thus, the word perspective really means “to look through”)

Question 58

According to our class discussion, how can principles of faith be applied in marriage?
A. Learning how to exercise faith in Christ in my personal discipleship can help me to know how to exercise faith in other people—like my spouse.
B. We should believe that marriage can be good and of God.
C. We should believe that God will make everything work out in the end.
D. Knowing how to exercise faith in Christ can help me know that I must have a correct idea of my spouse’s character and attributes in order to have faith and trust in them.
A and B only.
B and C only.
A, B, and D only.

Answer 58

A, B, and D only.

Question 59

When considering “earning the price,” we talked about the “oil of preparedness.” What did Spencer W. Kimball say the oil represented?
A. Our testimony.
B. Each act of personal dedication and obedience.
C. Our spiritual energy from the pre-mortal life.
D. Out talents.
E. Our desires or motives.
D and E only.

Answer 59

B. Each act of personal dedication and obedience.