LDS family and marriage final Flashcards
Which of the following words is defined as “think differently after wards, reconsider, of to shift thoughts?” Metanoeo (Greek) Nacham (Hebrew) Repentanimus (Latin) Anguisheum (Latin) Shuwb (Hebrew)
Metanoeo (Greek)
What is the “foundational principle for Latter-day Saint teachings about developing and maintaining relationships” (dating, courting, etc)? Obedience Loyalty Consercration Chasity Sacrifice None of the above
Consercration
Which of the following choices best describes this picture? (three strings- god, wife, husband) A covenant marriage An inspired contractual marriage A contract marriage None of the above.
A covenant marriage
What did we (and James E. Faust) say is required to make good choices and establish priorities when cleaving? Planning Effort Discernment Self-Disciplin Maturity
Discernment
Which of the following terms best align with the way the church views "courting?" Hanging out in general groups Pairing off with a specific individual Steady dating None of the above
Steady dating
One of the meanings of “love thy wife with all thy heart” we discussed in class was from the Greek kardia. What does kardia mean?
Affection, affinity, or devotion
Life, energy, strength (derived for the heart [organ])
Thoughts or feelings of the mind
The center of anything. The inner-seat
None of the above
Thoughts or feelings of the mind
Which of the following is an important aspect in understanding God’s view of cleaving?
Cleaving is act of personal passion—it is metered by how deeply one loves another.
Cleaving is an act of agency—every person can choose to cleave, regardless.
Cleaving is an act of physiology—it is determined by individual genetic coding.
Cleaving is an act of logic—it is accomplished by rational thought and outcome.
Cleaving is an act of culture—one’s upbringing determines one’s ability to cleave.
Cleaving is an act of agency—every person can choose to cleave, regardless.
Which of the following seasons of developing an appropriate relationship would arrange "social contacts to learn about, appreciate, and develop genuine friendships" as its purpose? Pre-dating Dating Courting Engagement Marriage
Dating
We outlined necessary principles that ensure affection leads to intimacy. Please complete the principle appropriately: Love needs affection to achieve \_\_\_\_\_\_\_\_\_\_\_\_. Sprituality Understanding Intimacy Sexual compatibility Harmony
Intimacy
According to our class discussion, which of the following demonstrates how we can apply principles of faith in marriage?
Learning how to exercise faith in Christ in my personal discipleship can help me to know how to exercise faith in other people -Like my spouse
We should believe that marriage can be good and of God
We should believe that God will make everything work out in the end
Knowing how to exercise faith in Christ can help me know that I must have a correct idea of my spouse’s character and attributes in order to have faith and trust in them
A and B only
B and C only
A and D only
A and D only
What did Elder Neal A. Maxwell mean by “cheap repentance”?
The price of repentance is far less than the price of paying for one’s own sins
Whenever repentance is too little understood and too little applied is it cheap (or cheapened)
Our efforts are cheap in “comparison with the Savior’s incomprehensible” efforts.
The “bargain of the atonement” is infinite and everlasting
Whenever repentance is too little understood and too little applied is it cheap (or cheapened)
We described many of the characteristics of Godly love. Which of the following options is most correct according to the characteristics we discussed in class? Hopeful Focused Sacrificial Purposeful Encompassing All (except A) B and C only D and E only Actually, all of the above (A-E) ARE forms of Godly/Marital love as discussed in class
All (except A)
Which definition best fits the Greek Philos? Affection (parents/offspring/sibling) Passion, sexual desire Benevolence, charity Friend, Fondness None of the above
Friend, Fondness
Which of the following choices best describes this picture? (husband and wife strings with god in the middle as a sun) A covenant marriage An inspired contractual marriage A contract marriage. None of the above.
An inspired contractual marriage
What was so significant about Doctrine and Covenants 42:22 (Thou shalt love thy wife with all they heart, and shalt cleave unto her and none else)?
It is the first time in scripture God has commended us to love our spouse
it is the first time in scripture that God has commanded us to love with “all they heart.”
It is the first time that the Lord has ever told us to love anyone other than Himself with all our heart, etc.
This put Emma Smith’s fears to rest that Joseph could not “fully” love her because of his calling as the prophet
None of the above
It is the first time that the Lord has ever told us to love anyone other than Himself with all our heart, etc.
Because affection is manifest in many different ways, it is critical for us to understand, recognize and \_\_\_\_\_\_\_\_\_\_\_\_\_\_\_\_\_\_ various expressions of affection. Please fill in the blank with the correct answer according to our class discussion. Emphasize Induce. Appreciate. Promote. None of the above.
None of the above.
Regardless of the word (or its original meaning) used for “repentance,” what is the common denominator when dealing with the principle of repentance? Click to write the question text Deliverance Absolution Rectification Change
Change
How does a mission call illustrate the principles of “leaving” and in exercising consecration required in marriage?
The mission call instructs missionaries to always be learning to love their new companion with heart, might, and strength.
The mission call instructs missionaries to work with their companions and “none else”
The mission call isntructs missionaries to never make contact with family or friends during their service
The mission call instructs calls upon missionaries to leave behind all other personal affairs so they can devote their time and attention to their new calling
Both A and B only
The mission call instructs calls upon missionaries to leave behind all other personal affairs so they can devote their time and attention to their new calling
In class we used notes on a napkin as a demonstration of which type of affection? Tokens/symbols Words Ritual Physical Touch Service/Courtesy Time Spititual
Words
We outlined necessary principles that ensure affection leads to intimacy. Please complete the principle appropriately: Intimacy requires \_\_\_\_\_\_\_\_\_\_\_\_ for love to flourish. Prespect Discretion Prudence Understanding Harmony Affection
Affection
If a person acts romantically toward another person who is just a “friend,” what type of love is being violated by such behavior? Philos Storge Eros Agape A and C only A and B only All except B
A and C only
President Kimball said that appropriately cleaving meant we must not do three things. He said we cannot share or heart with anyone or anything nor should we divide our hearts. What was the third thing President Kimball said we should not do when it comes to cleaving?
Deprive our heart from our spouse
Destroy the hearts of our spouse (ridicule, abuse, sarcasm, etc.)
Detain (keep from growing) the heart of our spouse
Diminish the heart of a spouse (underplay the importance of the spouse)
None of the above
Deprive our heart from our spouse
According to Joseph Smith and Elder Oaks, what is requisite for receiving “spiritual gifts? Faith in the Lord, Jesus Christ Sincere and genuine repentance A "measure" of perfection The Holy Ghost The Gift of the Holy Ghost
The Gift of the Holy Ghost
In class we used sharing your feelings about the scriptures, attending the temple together, or praying as a couple/family is a demonstration of which type of affection? Token/symbol Words Ritual Physical touch service/courtesy time spiritual
spiritual
Which of the following BEST fits the LDS definition of a covenant as discussed in class?
A two-way promise
A serious promise between two people
A sacred agreement between God and a person or a group of people
A sacred promise between God and a person(s) that binds or connects them together
None of the Above
A sacred promise between God and a person(s) that binds or connects them together
Marion G. Romney said that, “Man cannot be an agent unto himself” unless he grows spiritually. Which of the following did President Romney say are “critical” to our spiritual growth? These are also among the reasons a couple needs to appropriately “leave”. Independence Faithful obedience Self-confidence Self-reliance All of the above A and D C and D
A and D
What is the etymological definition of chastity? Manners Pure Without spot Virgin Failthful Clean
Pure
Which of definition best fits the Greek Eros? Affection (parents/offspring/sibling) Passion, sexual desire Benevolence, charity Friend, Fondness None of the above
Passion, sexual desire
What did we define as “A dedication and setting apart” which has the etymological meaning of “to make intensely holy”? Special Sacred Consecration Intentional None of the above
Consecration
What is the etymological (historical) definition of “role”?
A job or responsibility
A roll of paper on which a part was written
A small portion of bread
A distinction
None of the above
A roll of paper on which a part was written
Which definition best fits the Greek Agape? Affection (parents/offspring/sibling) Passion, sexual desire Benevolence, charity Friend, fondness None of the above
Benevolence, charity
If a person is snuggling, spooning, etc. with another personal, which type of relationship (love) best fits this behavior?
Friends
Family
Exclusive or Romantic
No relationship is required–it’s only snuggling!
A and B only
Exclusive or Romantic
What “all-purpose theology” did Elder Oaks specifically say represents “self-indulgence, oppression, indifference to others, as well as self-worship” and “resists” learning, reformation, and repentance?
Sexual immorality
immaturity
The ideology of “I won’t change, you’ll have to adapt to me.”
The ideology of “It is my life and I can do whatever I choose.”
The ideology of “I won’t change, you’ll have to adapt to me.”
Which definition best fits the Greek Strorge? Affection (parents/offspring/sibling) Passion, sexual desire Benevolence, charity Friend, fondness None of the above
Affection (parents/offspring/sibling)
We are told to cleave to our spouse and “none else” (D&C 42:22). President Kimball emphasized the meaning of “none else.” Which of the following was not one of the statements used by President Kimball?
The spouse becomes preeminent in the life of the husband or wife
Social life or occupation life should never take precedence over the companion spouse
Political life should not take precedence over the companion spouse
No other person or thing should take precedence over the companion spoud
Actually, President Kimball used all of the above statements describing cleaving
Actually, President Kimball used all of the above statements describing cleaving
Which of the following seasons of developing an appropriate relationship would have “with a public commitment for marriage a couple matures in commitment, connection, growth, understanding covenants, and deepening intimacy” as its purpose? Pre-dating Dating Courting Engagement Marriage
Engagement
We outlined necessary principles that ensure affection leads to intimacy. Please complete the principle appropriately: Intimacy can only be realized when affection aligns with _________.
The amount of time a couple has been together
The appropriate form (type) of love a person has for another
Cultural norms
The maturity of both individuals
How comfortable each individual is with the type of affection demonstrated
The appropriate form (type) of love a person has for another
If a person is passionately kissing another person, what type of love does that person have (should have) for the other person? Philos Storge Eros All of the above A and C only None of the above
Eros
Which of the following choices best describes this picture? (rope of just husband and wife) A covenant marriage An inspired contractual marriage A contract marriage None of the above.
A contract marriage
What did we define as “the external manifestation of a feeling or emotion”? Charity Affection Morality Intimacy Sexuality Love Lust
Affection
The etymological definition of intimacy helps us understand why it is so important to a marriage. What is that historical definition? To feel deeply Inmost Binding with emotion Physical Pleasure Knotted (together)
Inmost
What is the “act” to “ratify, to justify, or to approve” a sacred ordinance called? The "eternal act of marriage" The sealing of Holy Spirit of Promise The "divine appointment of God" The reclamation of the atonement None of the above
The sealing of Holy Spirit of Promise
Which of the following seasons of developing an appropriate relationship would have “exclusively date with the intent to discover and woo a mate” as its purpose? Pre-dating Dating Courting Engagement Marriage
Courting
Sexual morality is based on \_\_\_\_\_\_\_\_\_\_\_\_\_ rather than social standards. Tried and tested customs of the past Cultural customs and manners Theological principles Sound scientific research Conventional wisdom
Theological principles
From a LDS perspective, marriage is not a contractual arrangement. Rather than a contract, what does Elder Bruce C. Hafen call marriage? A divine partnership A covenant (relationship) A dynamic union A betrothal bonding A Celestial pact Both A and B only
A covenant (relationship)
In class we used going fishing together, fixing a car, going on a drive together is a demonstration of which type of affection? Token/symbol Words Ritual Physical Touch Service/courtesy Time Spitiual
time
In class we used opening a door or making another’s bed is a demonstration of which type of affection? Token/symbol words Ritual Physical touch Service/courtesy Time Spiritual
Service/courtesy
What did we define as “belonging to God; to make holy”? Special Sacred Consecration Intentional None of the Above
Sacred
According to Howard W. Hunter, who is given the responsibility to determine the “spiritual climate” in a home?
Husband/Father
Wife/Mother
Prophets/seers/revelators
Both A and C (in other words, the Priesthood holders)
Both A and B
?
Which of the following best reflects Elder Oaks’ description of being “a lawyer who had been called to be an apostle?” ick to write the question text
A person who marries and then give up all their former passions, friends, and connections for their new married life.
A person who marries and then tries to adapt “that form of marriage which God has ordained” to fit their current abilities, strengths, circumstances, and desires.
A person who marries and then shapes and changes their current abilities, strengths, circumstances, and desires to align with the requirements of “that form of marriage which God has ordained.”
A person who marries and then works to determine a balance between their personal talents, desires, interests, and efforts with the expectations of marriage life.
A person who marries and then tries to adapt “that form of marriage which God has ordained” to fit their current abilities, strengths, circumstances, and desires.
According to President Kimball, when do “right things” become wrong?
When done at the wrong time
When done in the wrong place
When done under the wrong circumstances.
Right things are always right–they cannot, by definition, be wrong.
All except D
All except D
Satan tries to get good people to fill their lives with “good things”. What problem did Elder Scott say this creates?
We become greedy (can’t seem to get enough)
We horde (won’t share with others)
Lose an ability to distinguish between needs vs. wants
There isn’t room for the “essential” things in our life
All of the above
There isn’t room for the “essential” things in our life
Which of the following best reflects Elder Oaks’ description of being “an apostle who used to a lawyer?”
A person who marries and then give up all their former passions, friends, and connections for their new married life.
A person who marries and then tries to adapt “that form of marriage which God has ordained” to fit their current abilities, strengths, circumstances, and desires
A person who marries and then shapes and changes their current abilities, strengths, circumstances, and desires to align with the requirements of “that form of marriage which God has ordained.”
A person who marries and then works to determine a balance between their personal talents, desires, interests, and efforts with the expectations of marriage life.
A person who marries and then shapes and changes their current abilities, strengths, circumstances, and desires to align with the requirements of “that form of marriage which God has ordained.”
Sexual morality is determined by \_\_\_\_\_\_\_\_\_\_\_\_\_\_\_\_\_\_\_\_\_\_. God and His prophets, seers, and revelators Traditional ethics Common consent Consenting Adults Laws of the land Time-honored traditions Both the husband and wife None of the above
God and His prophets, seers, and revelators
If a person treats another person like family (a sibling, etc.), what type of love does that person have (should have) for the other person? Philos Storge Eros All of the above A and B only None of the above
Storge
According to the teachings of the Church, when is the most appropriate time to begin the season for arranging social contacts to learn about, appreciate, and develop genuine friendships of dating?
Whenever a person is sufficiently mature as determined by parents
This is a personal decision (there is no specific counsel on the matter from the authorities of the church)
No earlier than sixteen (16) years old
Not before high school graduation
No earlier than sixteen (16) years old
In class we used sending flowers or giving soccer balls as an example of which type of affection? Token/Symbol Words Ritual Physical touch Service/courtesy Time Compliment other
Token/Symbol
According to William Doherty, what is the purpose of rituals in an intentional family?
To provide a platform of routine in daily family life
To provide wholesome recreational practice and renewal
They take the pressure off to think of things to do
They create patterns of connecting people in meaningful ways
All of the above
They create patterns of connecting people in meaningful ways
What did we define as “planned; pertaining to purpose, meaning, or significance”? Special Sacred Consecration Intentional None of the above
Intentional
Which of the following practices did Elder McConkie specifically discourage couples to be involved in seasons prior to marriage? Sharing spiritual experiences Kissing Praying together as couples (on dates) Bearing testimony to each other None of the above
Praying together as couples (on dates)
What did we define as: “neither partner controls the intimate relationship but each are mutually committed to each other and to the proper relationship?” Sexual stewardship Divine Intimacy Patterns of Perfection Charitable Chastity Hallowed Love
Sexual stewardship
Which of the following is NOT specifically included as receiving “full enjoyment of the Gift of the Holy Ghost (at least according to our online class notes and True to the Faith)?
Serving and blessing others through spiritual gifts
Receiving revelation and comfort
Being sanctified from sin and made fit for exaltation in the Celestial Kingdom
Feeling a “burning in the bosom”
Actually, all of the above were included
Feeling a “burning in the bosom”
What outcome of sexual immorality did Elder Richard G. Scott fervently warn us about?
A barrier to the influence of the Holy Spirit
Increased and deepening pride
Callousness to “common sense” values and morality
Broken hearts and families
Physical disease
All of the above
all the above
Why did Elder McConkie discourage couples to be involved with certain things prior to marriage?
It quickly leads to uncontrolled sharing of even greater passions.
It tends to cheapen (dilute) the power of personal experiences and feelings.
It causes spiritual feelings to become common or ordinary.
It develops a relationship that should only exist in marriages.
It develops a relationship that should only exist in marriages.
Appropriately leaving underscores the need to understand and respect stewardships. What is the proper stewardship when seeking help or providing help (according to the Church model of assistance)? A. Self-->Family-->Church Self--> Family--> Extended Family--> Church Self--> Family Family--> Church Self--> Church--> Family Self--> Church Church--> Self
Self–> Family–> Extended Family–> Church
When referring to successful marriages, what did Elder Holland say was “greater than any force—any force—which might try to separate us?” Covenant theology Charity Unselfishness Priesthood Ordinance True or genuine love All of the above A and D only D and E only
A and D only
Charity is considered the greatest of all (1 Cor. 13:13). Why is charity the greatest of all loves according to our class discussion?
it is an encouraging love (unconditional)
It is a pure love (emulates the love of Christ)
It excludes the lower degrading forms of love (eros, storge, etc.) making it a deep form of love rather than more shallow feelings
It includes all forms of love (eros, storge, etc.) giving it not only depth but breadth as well
Both A and B only
B and D only
All EXCEPT C.
B and D only
What is the definition of Poskallah (Greek)? Glue or join Catching by pursuit Cling or adhere; follow close Both B and C All A-C of the above None of the above
Glue or join
Which of the following were NOT included as outcomes for “understanding and appropriately implementing personal roles”? Personal contentiment Divine rewards Family solidarity Deepened spirituality
Personal contentiment
What did Elder Maxwell imply is the outcome of the “cheap repentance”?
Superficial forgiveness
Everlasting damnation
cheap (or cheapened) confidence
A step towards the “infinite possibilities of the Savior’s atoning sacrifice”
Superficial forgiveness
Which of the following seasons of developing an appropriate relationship would have “provide opportunities to compare and contrast personal traits with the traits of many different individuals of the opposite sex?” Pre-dating Dating Courting Engagement Marriage
Dating
What is the etymological definition of Morality? Purity Value Ethical behavior Customs and/or manners Habits
Customs and/or manners
Sexual morality intentionally protects and promotes \_\_\_\_\_\_\_\_\_\_\_\_\_\_\_\_\_\_\_\_\_\_\_\_\_\_. Family Values Traditional ethics Economic security and physiological health Improved psychological integrity Godly love and intimacy A and B only None of the above
Godly love and intimacy
In class we used a hug, kiss, pat on the back is a demonstration of which type of affection? Token/Symbol Ritual Physical touch Service/courtesy Time
Physical touch
In which of the following seasons would the descriptor "girlfriend" or "boyfriend" be most appropriate? Pre-dating Dating Courting None of the above
Courting
In class we used holiday decorations, nativity plays or readings, or working in the yard with crazy headbands is a demonstration of which type of affection? Tokens/Symbols Words Ritual Physical Touch Service/courtesy Time` Spitiual
Ritual
Which of the following seasons of developing an appropriate relationship would have “developing social skills, self-confidence, maturation, making acquaintances and friendships, and learning to get along with a wide variety of people” as its purpose? Pre-dating dating Courting Engagement Marriage
Pre-dating
As we discussed the need for a couple to appropriately leave, we emphasized that leaving must never be interpreted as: Optional Neglect or abandonment Selfishness Superiority or pride None of the above
Neglect or abandonment
Which of the following seasons of developing an appropriate relationship would have “through a covenant relationship, a couple matures in growth, commitment, and eternal perspectives” as its purpose? Pre-dating Dating Courting Engagement Marriage
Marriage
The Lord’s understanding of “becoming one” or “creating a union” is often taught via metaphor. Which of the following items did we specifically use to demonstrate how the Lord views one/union? Flesh heart and mind The Godhead New Creature All of the above All except A All except B All except D
All except B
First President Benson and then President Hinckley gave a simple, yet complete, definition of the Church’s stand on morality. What was that definition?
Complete abstience before marriage
Purity in thought, deed, and intent
Chastity before marriage and full fidelity after marriage
No sexual intercourse or anything like unto it prior to marriage
Chastity before marriage and full fidelity after marriage
Intimacy can only be realized when affection aligns with______________________
The amount of time a couple has been together
The appropriate form (type) of love a person has for another
Cultural norms
The maturity of both individuals
How comfortable each individual is with the type of affection demonstrated
The appropriate form (type) of love a person has for another
Which of the following words is defined as “retreat, get back, fetch (go home again), or to reverse?” Metanoeo (Greek) Nacham (Hebrew) Repentanimus (Latin) Anguisheum (Latin) Shuwb (Hebrew)
Shuwb (Hebrew)
From a LDS perspective, marriage is not a contractual arrangement. Rather than a contract, what does Elder Bruce C. Hafen call marriage? A divine partnership A covenant (relationship) A dynamic union A betrothal bonding A Celestial pact Both A and B only
A covenant (relationship)
Which of the following definitions best aligns with the way the church defines and views the term "dating?" Hanging out in general groups Pairing off with a specific individual Steady dating Courting
Pairing off with a specific individual
According to Boyd K. Packer, where do we learn “principles of conduct, how to respond to problems of everyday living, and even to failures?” Past experience Mentors Doctrines Careful study Common sense Cultural moorings
Doctrines
What is the etymological definition of fidelity? Chaste Pure Faithful Resolved Honest
Faithful
In class we used making Mickey Mouse pancakes every Saturday morning is a demonstration of which type of affection? Token/Symbol Words Riutal Physical touch service/courtesy Time Spitiual
Ritutal
Which of the following did Joseph Smith say was (were) “necessary in order that any rational and intelligent being may exercise faith in God unto salvation?” Click to write the question text
A correct idea of God’s character, perfections, and attributes
A particle of desire to do good.
A knowledge that your life is in accordance with God’s plan (will)
An idea that God exists
A willing to try
A and E only
A, B, C, and D only
A, C, and D only
A, C, and D only
What is the definition of dawbak (Hebrew)? Glue or join Catch by pursuit cling or adhere; stick Follow close Both B and C B, C, and D All (A-D) of the above
B, C, and D
