Language and Gender Flashcards
asymmetry
unequal connotations of male/female titles
lexical gap
no equivalent terms for male/female
Diminutive suffixes
addition to words to make it female eg ladette, smaller not as good masculine
stereotype
men- more sexual
women- prude
parent/child
father interrupts more, daughters are interrupted more
Zimmerman and West
same sex interruptions are evenly distributed
mixed sex 96% of
interruptions are from men
Fisman Research
mixed sex conversation, women talk twice as much
Robin Lakoff - subordinate role of females
women use more hedges, fillers, tag questions, indirect requests, less expletives, more intensifiers, qualifiers, apologies, polite forms
Sapir and Whorf - linguistic relativism
names/titles being more male or female eg mate - male chick - female
Professor Tannen
- cooperative overlap: support
- competitive overlap: take control
- high involvement: get point across (men) and are prepared to be overlapped but won’t stop.
- high consideration: (women) wait until break to speak, unprepared for overlap and stop if an overlap occurs
Rapport and Report
• RAPPORT: Women - talk too much, speak privately, build relations, overlap, speak symmetrically.
REPORT: Men - get more airtime, speak publicly, avoid failure/negotiate status, speak at one time and asymmetrically.
Professor Tannen’s Men vs Women
• status vs support:
Men - competitive, seek upper hand dominance, world is a way to gain a status.
Women - cooperative, gain confirmation and support.
• Independence vs Intimacy:
Men - spontaneous, concerned with status and independence.
Women - seek closeness and preserve intimacy.
• Advice vs understanding:
Men - given practical solutions and don’t sympathise
Women - seek TLC and sympathy
• Information vs feelings:
Men - get point across, blunt
Women - elaborate go into detail express feelings
• Order vs proposals:
Men - very direct and state exactly whats happening
Women - suggest ideas and areole indecisive
• Conflict vs compromise:
Men - give a view regardless of how it’s taken or the outcome
Women - wouldn’t say what they want to avoid conflict but will regret it later and bitch in secret
Deborah Jones - Women’s Gossip
- house talk - exchange of info due to females role
- scandal - judging behaviour
- bitching - overt expression
- chatting - literal conversation