Language and Gender Flashcards
The male gaze
In feminist history the male gaze is the act of depicting women and the world, in the visual arts and literature, from a masculine, hetrosexual prospective that presents women as sexual objects for the pleasure of the male view.
The first wave of feminism
Occuring in the 19th century and early 20th century was mainly concerned with women’s rights to vote
The second wave of feminism
occurred in the 1960s and 1970s but continued in the 80s. refers to the women’s liberation movement for equal, legal and social rights.
The third wave
Began in the early 1990s responding to the failure and backlash of the second wave. This ideology seeks to challenge the definitions of femininity arguing that the second wave over emphasises the experience of middle age or upper class white women
The fourth wave
began in 2012 and was focused on the empowerment of women and the use of internet tools.
Folkilinguistics
when ideas about language that are current in the culture eminated from historical stereotypes
Robin Lakoff (1975)
There are sixteen
Good luck
- Hedges ‘sort of’
- use polite forms ‘would you mind…’
- use tag questions ‘you’re going to dinner, aren’t you?’
- use empty adjectives ‘divine’ ‘adorable’ so on’
- use hypercorrect grammar and pronunciation
- use direct quotations whereas men paraphrase more often
- have a special lexicon; women have more words for colours, sports for men
- use question innotation in declarative statements by raising the pitch of their voice at the end of the statement, expressing uncertainty
- speak less frequency
- overuse qualifiers ‘I think that…’
- apologise more ‘I’m sorry but I think that…’
- use modal constructions ‘can’ ‘could’ ‘shall’ ‘should’ etc
- avoid coarse language or expletives
- use indirect commands and requests: ‘my isn’t it cold here?’ secretly a request to turn the heat on or close a window
- speak using emphasis and use more intensified; especially, so, and very
- Lack a sense of humour; women do not jokes well and often don’t understand the punch line of jokes
Tannen - male and female language use in six contrasts
status vs support
Independence vs intimacy
Advice vs understanding
information vs feelings
order vs proposal
conflict vs compromise
Status vs Support
men see conversation as a contest, women do not think of the people they converse with as ‘trying to get one upon them’
Independence vs Intimacy
men see consulting with their partner to be ‘asking for permission’ rather than simply discussing.
Advice vs Understanding
Too many men see a complaint as a challenge to come up with a solution, but often women are looking for emotional support.
Information vs feelings
To men, talk is information and has a practical purpose
Order vs Proposal
Women hedge their orders and men feel that by doing this a woman is trying to manipulate them to do something rather than just directly asking like men would.
conflict vs compromise
women are reluctant to openly oppose others
Jennifer Coates: topic management
- men will often reject a topic of conversation introduced by women, while women will accept the topics introduced by men
- men discuss ‘male topics’ e.g. business, sport, politics, economics
- women are more likely to initiate a conversation than men but less likely to make the conversation succeed.