L5: Grief and Loss Flashcards
___ and _____ are pervasive themes in health-care settings as patients adjust to disease and disability
Grief; mourning
Distress ___ (increases/decreases) as disease progresses
increases
Patients with advanced cancer report feeling socially _____, and that there is a distance between them and health professionals
isolated
What are 2 features of improved survival with facing incurable illnesses?
- Repeated crises leading to exhaustion of family members
- Difficulty pacing oneself - like running a marathon without a defined course
What are 7 factors which increase WTHD (high desire to die)?
- Higher level of depressive symptoms Treating the depression reduced the wish to hasten death
- Being admitted to in-patient hospice setting
- Greater perception of being a burden on others
- Lower family cohesion
- Lower levels of social support
- Higher levels of anxiety
- Greater impact of physical symptoms
What are 6 associations with the desire for death?
- Higher depression scores
- Lower physical functioning
- Perceived absence of social support
- Lower peace/meaning
- Lower religious faith
- Greater pain interference
In Pain and Palliative Care Services, _____ had no wish for hastened death
2/3
What are 8 common problems when patients are dying?
- Differences about goals of treatment
- Lack of communication between team members
- Angry/dysfunctional families
- Projection/displacement/splitting
- Difficulty for some staff to “let go”
- Challenge to sense of professional integrity
- Feelings of sadness, and the burden of being “immersed in suffering”
- Avoidance of patients/refusal to “talk the talk”
What are 3 effects on patients when the clinical has the fear of “taking away hope”?
- Pursuit of aggressive and futile treatments
- Failure to support patients and families
- Longer-term regret, and impact on family adjustment
- “We thought we had more time” -
- No one was brave enough to tell family about EOL
Hope is not about survival. It is about being treated with ______ and ____. Care for people when goal of treatment is not a ____ rather the goal is living as best as possible
dignity; respect; cure
What are 5 ways to promote hope in palliative care?
- Discussion about what can be done e.g. control of physical symptoms
- Treatment with care and dignity
- Practical support
- Exploration of realistic goals
- Discussion of day-to-day living:
- Taking a day at a time
- Focusing on the present
- Knowing there will be good days and bad days
- Trying to continue “living” because life does not stop when you are dying
What are 6 characteristics of grief?
- Grief is a universal human response
- First response to loss is shock, numbness, and disbelief
- Sense of unreality/nightmare
- “Frozen in time”
- The wish to avoid, but need to hear the words of death
- Anxiety and panic
What are 8 physical symptoms of grief?
- Restlessness
- Yearning
- Scanning the environment
- Waves of somatic distress
- Sighing respirations
- Palpitations
- Deep inner pain
- Choking sensation
___ and aggression are common with grief.
Anger
Intensity of feelings may be overwhelming, perceived as ______, and may be displaced onto others
irrational
The bereaved person feels ____ by the deceased whose absence causes this ___>
deserted; pain
Rites of passage (eg. funerals) are _____ of reality.
Consolidation
What is the practical function of a funeral?
Disposal of the dead body
What are the 3 symbolic functions of funerals?
- Separation of the dead from the living
- Opportunity for farewells
- Opportunity for re-establishment of the social group,
The bereaved are often “protected” from viewing the dead body, but this is often an important part of _____.
adjustment
What are the 4 theoretical perspectives on the tasks of mourning?
- Accept reality of the death
- Awareness and processing of the feelings In the early stage (grief and loss hurts) -> do not shut down emotions (negative effect long term)
- Negotiating a world without the deceased
- Constructing an ongoing representation of the deceased
What are 4 reasons why we mourn?
- When someone close to us dies, an attachment bond is broken
- Attachment refers to the propensity of humans to form affectional bonds
- Instinctively we resist disruption to these bonds – infants separated from their mother demonstrate protest, despair and detachment
- Many of the most intense emotions arise in the “formation, maintenance, disruption and renewal” of attachment bonds
Attachment bonds are an ___ response so we can not help mourning if bonds break.
innate
The must intense feelings we ever have are when we ___ or _____ attachment bonds.
form; break
Bereavement “invalidates a host of assumptions about the world - plans, thoughts, habits, ways of coping all have to be _____”. Adjustment is inhibited by censure about expression of ____.
re-learned; emotion