L+G theory- difference Flashcards
advice vs understanding
men -> seek solution to problem
women -> seek support, empathy and understanding
orders vs proposals
men -> direct imperatives (tell)
women -> super polite forms (ask)
status vs support
men -> world=competitive, status (interruptions)
women -> connection, support (tag Qs, overlays)
information vs feelings
men -> conversation= information and messages
women -> conversation=socialising and relationships
independence vs intimacy
men -> decision making, independence=status
women -> consult, intimacy of relationships
conflict vs compromise
men -> conflict to resolve, status and power
women -> avoid conflict, maintain positive connection
high involvement speaker
men
-> active role in conversation
-> backchanneling
-> lead turn taking
high considerateness speakers
women
-> speak slower
-> avoid interruptions
report talk
men
-> direct
-> give information
rapport talk
women
-> create and sustain relationships