Judaism - Marriage Flashcards
kiddushin
betrothal
tennaim
conditions of kiddushin (betrothal)
aufruf
calling up
aliyah
recitation of blessings
bashert
soulmate
mikvah
purification bath
ketubah
contract
chuppah
canopy
bedeken
vails
kiddush
blessings over wine
sheva brachot
seven blessings
muzel tov
congratulations
shalom bayit
peace in the home
shma
continuity of tradition
Marriage is…
expected
a fulfilment if the mitzvot to “be fruitful and multiply” genesis
“it’s not good for man to be alone”
elaborate aufruf
Candy is thrown, symbolic of a sweet life
Symbolic of veiling
leah/rachel/jacob (only progressive)
what happens at chuppah and symbolism
man at canopy, woman lead by mothers or parents. God is stretched over couple, Abraham used to sit and welcome people in to tent
circling groom 7 times
mystical number, seven levels of soul
rings symbolism
Talmud teachers that rings should be worth “a few prutot” so everyone can afford marriage. Rings say “Be sanctified to me”
Breaking of glass
reminder of struggles and repression’s (2 temples destroyed in jerusalem)
Yichud
private room, break fast
Ideals within marriage
- Shalom bayit - peace in the home
- Family “Go forth and multiply”
- Continuity of the tradition (shma)
significance to individual and community
- propagation of human species
- loving companionship
- establishes family as basic social unit “little sanctuary” ezekiel